Girl with issues of extreme high sex drive (just a discussion)

[miss22]

Hi friends, sis, bros,

any girls here whom feel like you have higher sex drive than the normal average girl? I have been talking to alot of my guy friends and most of them complain about their girlfriends lack of sex drive. I will be 22 by the end of this year and since 21, i found myself watching alot porn and masturbating. Even right after i have had sex with my boyfriend. Any girls feel this way? How about you men? Any men feel this way too? I feel the need to masturbate atleast 2 times a day. Sometimes, right up to 6 times! It is almost like i am not in control of my hornyness.

Men mostly think about sex more often than women. however, for me, its the complete opp. I have so much sexual 'pangs' that it sometimes distracts me from work and feel like I want my bf right there and then. I can also get turn on by other sexy women when walking down the street. I don't think of having sex with them but feel like I want to be her while my bf gets turned on by me. I reason that as I like being a slut to my lover: Provider. I do not think that there is anything wrong as these are just thoughts but just wondering if there are any girls here whom are like that too.

I was contemplating seeing the doctor regarding my high sex drive and still do.

Any men here whose wives or gfs have extreme high sex drive whereby she demands sex from you all the time?

My bf and I have sex about once a week or every 12 days. Never more than once a week due to inconvenience. I wish we had sex more often but I think it is a good thing not to fuck all the time as it will not feel as good isn't it? Its not like masturbating. Masturbating always feels the same, feels mono each time.

A few questions to ask fellow bros too:
Wondering how many days can your go without playing with yourself?
Do your think about fucking the girl in the video that you are viewing while wanking? Or do your think of no one at all in particular? Do your think about your wives/ gfs or replay the sexy stuff since the last time your fucked your lover?

I ask a few of my attached girlfriends, the more horny, most do not really think about anyone while masturbating but instead concentrating on the 'feeling good' sensation. For me, I think less about 'getting there' but more of getting fucked by ________ (most of the time, bf).


I have more to question about sex life before and after marriage but ill do that next time! Thanks sis and bros for taking time to read.

xxx

[testme]

I do have a gf that used to be very high sex drive as well. Don't think it's being wrong or whatever guess it's all in the hormones. So it's nothing wrong abt having high sex drive, i guess most guys around your age would be more then happy for that i believe :)

[numb3ers]

Maybe you just having too much time?

Maybe like guys who Masturbate alot, watching porn alot, Spend more time on studies, pick up a hobby, sports to burn out some energy? Haha...

[Pussyteaser]

Well during my younger days I do have a gf which require to be sextify everyday! We will make out at least thrice a day... This lasted till I got enlisted to NS and we fall out due to her needs can't be fill by me...

Don't be too concern so long as u enjoy every moment... :)

[SODA66]

Any woman with a high sex drive is one of the luckiest and happiest women in the world . There is nothing wrong even if you are a nymphomaniac.
Masturbation for a woman with high sex drive often left frustrated because your boyfriend cannot keep up with your high demand. Just do it. Stressed .. just let it go !!


Thanks for the post!

[ahbengsony]

haha. still tot some guys here will end up with PM for details / let me help you / r u lonely types of replies...

:D

But dont let it become an addiction.

[Pixma]

I think i may have a similiar problem to you. I find that i have a high sex drive (HSD) and often have to take matters into "my own hands" as my wife has a very low sex drive (LSD). I've also considered going to see a doctor.

I feel very fustrated at times whenever she doesn't give in. Sometime i i only get action 1once a week or even less. IMHO, thats definitely not enough... but what to do? I feel that couples should at least get some action every alternate day. its a good form of exercise to right? :)

[chengzc]

Hi ts. It's normal and good! Sometimes I nth to do at night also will watch porn and diy. And when gf not so sexually excited as me usually sian half... So my recommendation is that find someone who is as horny as you. Dun follow my footstep!!

[Johnston]

Hi friends, sis, bros,

any girls here whom feel like you have higher sex drive than the normal average girl? I have been talking to alot of my guy friends and most of them complain about their girlfriends lack of sex drive. I will be 22 by the end of this year and since 21, i found myself watching alot porn and masturbating. Even right after i have had sex with my boyfriend.


My bf and I have sex about once a week or every 12 days. Never more than once a week due to inconvenience. I wish we had sex more often but I think it is a good thing not to fuck all the time as it will not feel as good isn't it? Its not like masturbating. Masturbating always feels the same, feels mono each time.

A few questions to ask fellow bros too:
Wondering how many days can your go without playing with yourself?
Do your think about fucking the girl in the video that you are viewing while wanking? Or do your think of no one at all in particular? Do your think about your wives/ gfs or replay the sexy stuff since the last time your fucked your lover?

I have more to question about sex life before and after marriage but ill do that next time! Thanks sis and bros for taking time to read.

xxx

Ladeez and gentlemen, we have another young nympho in the making right here!

Right first off, if u have such an extreme high sex drive why isnt your bf taking full advantage of this and fucking u at least 100% more? That is TWO times in a week/12 days. What kind of BF is he that he doesnt want to fuck his girlfriend who puts out like there is no tommorow, gets off frequently, and cant go two hours without getting off?

So what are we lef with? You have a high sex drive, think of sex and masturbate often BUT but I think it is a good thing not to fuck all the time and u also think mastubartion is mono . Like that how huh?/?

And to your questions:
HOW LONG: Varies by individual, as you yourself so candidly show. (We sure wish our partners would want to put out so often)
And to the rest....: maybe, maybe, maybe. Whats the point of knowing?

Dont worry, i am sure your pm box is full of guys who are more than willing to fuck u more than once a week. (Im not one of them).

K thx bye :D

[picador]

Do you need help?

[demonicsage]

OMG I am already anticipating some hilarious guys with one liner posts or PMs asking for TS email/contact and boasting how good they are.

[noobie.swingers]

A high sex drive is a problem only IF it affects your capability to function in your daily life. If you are able to concentrate at work and lead a "normal" social life, then it really isn't a problem ... except that of finding a willing and able partner ;)

Likewise, if you are happy with who you are ... highly sexed, wanting to indulge in "slut" role-plays, then there really isn't a problem (although this one is rather tricky as it is hard to seperate undue influence from your close ones). It is only a problem if you are unhappy with who you and/or have self esteem issues.

So If you find that it affects your ability to work/socialise normally, or if you have self-esteem issues, then you may want to seek help.

I've met quite a few high sex drive women in my life ...

One was my gf when I was serving NS. We would fuck like rabbits during the weekends but during the weekdays, when I couldn't bookout, she would be incredibly high-strung and sexually frustrated. Masturbation didn't fully satisfy her but she made do by scheming on what we would do on the weekends. It certainly made for rather explosive weekends :)

Another was a girl I knew in Uni, while in hostel. She had a bf but couldn't enough even thoughly they did it daily. She started trawling campus for guys to fuck and it all spiralled down from there. Her bf was not supportive, she could not reconcile her shame of sleeping around vs her desire to fuck. She ended up needing help and medication. It messed her up.

Bottom line, if you find the right people, in the right environment, you can be happy. If you find yourself doing the wrong things for the wrong reasons, IF ever you are unhappy with who you are or what you are doing, force yourself to take a step back and evaluate your position from a 3rd person's perspective. Don't be shy about getting professional help. They often give you a perspective that your friends usually don't. More info means better decisions.

Also, don't bother about what constitutes "normal" masturbation or sex preferences. We are all different. We prefer different positions ... different things excite us, motivate us, stimulate us.

Some of my gf's could multi-orgasm, some couldn't. First time I met one who couldn't, I kept stimulating her after she came, insisting that she come again. I got a shove, a slap and a scolding for that. Some of them like to use fingers while masturbating, some didn't. Some liked digital penetration, some prefered clitorial stimulation. As for what goes on in their mind, the variety of thoughts is stagerring. :)

You figure what works for you physically and mentally and leave it as that. Don't try to benchmark against other people.

BTW, sports ... I find that sports actually increases my sex drive! Other than the initial "aching-all-over" getting fit period, sports rarely leaves me so tired that I can't get it up. OTOH, the competitiveness makes me more driven, more alive and it carries over into the bedroom. Sports also de-stresses me, which leads to more mental inclination for naughty stuff. Sports also makes me fitter, which means more energy and stamina for *ahem* nocturnal sports. These days, I find that I am actually buzzing after my weeknight sports sessions ... to the extent that I actually have trouble sleeping unless I *ahem* release first. That's me anyway. YMMV

my 2c. Thanks for reading.

[ahbengsony]

Do you need help?

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[Xgenre]

Great post. Lots to discuss and issues to delve deeper into. (no pun intended... ya right...) Well, obviously you don't have a physical problem, unlike some ladies who can't even achieve an orgasm. You may have a psychological problem though.

Has this issue ever disrupted your life in a destructive way? You know, you are late and rushing for time but because of your high sex drive, you got to orgasm first. Thus you are later than ever before. You mentioned you get wet looking at attractive ladies (hoping you are as attractive as them so that your bf will want you more). How about attractive men? Ever slept with 1 just because you think he may be a great fuck, only to end up with regret because you really love your bf and your high sex drive has caused you to betray your love? Etc. If you have such incidences, you may have a sex addiction problem. You may need professional help to regain control of your life.

What is it about an orgasm that keeps you returning for so much more than usual? A lot of us love how it makes our bodies feel more relaxed. When a guy sleeps with many women, the orgasms he experiences, besides making him more relaxed, can also represent an extra ego boost. He feels skillful/attractive. Esp so in cases of unattractive men who keep succeeding in bedding attractive women. The desire for orgasm may be really a desire to continually boost his ego. You ask such guys to DIY only, they will find it unsatisfactory. Some people like to make love in public. Why go through the risks of being peeped all just for an orgasm right? Well, these people may want others to look at them. The real 'orgasm' could be the satisfaction that you can control the urges and desires of the people peeping at you. What does an orgasm mean for you? A need to feel attractive, to be wanted?

If you feel positively in control of your sex drive and will only release it in non-destructive manners (DIY or with bf only), then maybe you need variations in acheiving orgasm to make up for your bf's lower sex drive. I read your other posts. Seems you like it when your bf finds you attractive and irresistible. Especially so when he does something totally unexpected. Why not develop this angle further? Go buy a remote control vibrator. Use it when you are out in the streets with your bf. Let him hold the control and surprise you. Your role is to try to look normal on the outside while shopping like a normal couple in Orchard Road... How does this idea sound to you?

Hope my post makes sense. If you want more ideas, I can share them later.

[kpkprivate]

TS is on her top form now. . . HSD will died down after another 2~3year. till then... you have to try to focus on more important stuff in life.

TC

[kpkprivate]

TS is on her top form now. . . HSD will died down after another 2~3year. till then... you have to try to focus on more important stuff in life.

TC

[stiletto]

hi miss22,
everyone is different. I also have a very high sex drive. My hubby can't keep up with me. If I had things my way, I'd like to have sex 3-5 times a day. Once a day is not enough for me. I masturbate alot too and it turns hubby on and he likes to watch too

[ah rat]

I masturbate alot too and it turns hubby on and he likes to watch too

Me too love to watch :p but don't have a chance to see anyone masturbate infront of me :D

[shoutcast]

*queues up to offer my help* :D

[CumUser]

do you need my to help you? :D

[BobbyLover]

hello miss22,

this is normal. nothing to worry about. in fact, you should be glad of yourself as you have the need and looking for ways to fulfill your need. I bet many gals, women out there are very envy of you! Many don't even know or enjoyed orgasm, and you are enjoying it everyday!

[best123]

miss22,

just enjoy it while you can......stop over-worrying

[weiweiwei]

is normal gal to have HSD, actually all human like to have sex, is just that they are shy to say they like sex. so u will find mostly gal don like sex but in fact they like just that they r shy.

in this age, is the wildest time to play around when time go by, when u are old ur HSD will decrease too. so no worriers.

i'm also a HSD, i masturbate almost 1 day once or when i free at home.

i will imagine i the 1 that fucking the gal in the porn.

[Eaglet]

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reply no 1 :D

If you are her bf then do your job properly.

[ah rat]

miss22,

just enjoy it while you can......stop over-worrying

Yap lor,Sis miss22,not enough I can lend my to satisfy yours urge :p

[miss22]

I do have a gf that used to be very high sex drive as well. Don't think it's being wrong or whatever guess it's all in the hormones. So it's nothing wrong abt having high sex drive, i guess most guys around your age would be more then happy for that i believe :)

Yeah i thought so too but only that, i am not seeing someone at my age.

[miss22]

OMG I am already anticipating some hilarious guys with one liner posts or PMs asking for TS email/contact and boasting how good they are.

Like totally?

My point is not to fuck more men to fullfill any sexual needs whatsoever. God, some people just can't swallow the words: JUST A DISCUSSION

[miss22]

Ladeez and gentlemen, we have another young nympho in the making right here!

Right first off, if u have such an extreme high sex drive why isnt your bf taking full advantage of this and fucking u at least 100% more? That is TWO times in a week/12 days. What kind of BF is he that he doesnt want to fuck his girlfriend who puts out like there is no tommorow, gets off frequently, and cant go two hours without getting off?

So what are we lef with? You have a high sex drive, think of sex and masturbate often BUT but I think it is a good thing not to fuck all the time and u also think mastubartion is mono . Like that how huh?/?

And to your questions:
HOW LONG: Varies by individual, as you yourself so candidly show. (We sure wish our partners would want to put out so often)
And to the rest....: maybe, maybe, maybe. Whats the point of knowing?

Dont worry, i am sure your pm box is full of guys who are more than willing to fuck u more than once a week. (Im not one of them).

K thx bye :D

'And to the rest....: maybe, maybe, maybe. Whats the point of knowing?

Dont worry, i am sure your pm box is full of guys who are more than willing to fuck u more than once a week. (Im not one of them).'

- So do you understood the meaning of discussion then? That is the point of me knowing. Curious. What knowledge does it give me? As much as you want to learn more about the other gender.

'Dont worry, i am sure your pm box is full of guys who are more than willing to fuck u more than once a week. (Im not one of them).' - This is annoyingly insulting. What makes you think i am here for more men to fuck me more than once a week? Have you not digested the words - just a discussion? I couldn't care less if you are one of them or not?

[miss22]

is normal gal to have HSD, actually all human like to have sex, is just that they are shy to say they like sex. so u will find mostly gal don like sex but in fact they like just that they r shy.

in this age, is the wildest time to play around when time go by, when u are old ur HSD will decrease too. so no worriers.

i'm also a HSD, i masturbate almost 1 day once or when i free at home.

i will imagine i the 1 that fucking the gal in the porn.


You have got quite a point.
In general, women are usually told to hide their sexuality. Its rude and degrading if she were to show her sexuality. But in todays society, its starting to change.

i understand that Age is also an influence with High sex drive too. but i know of some men whom are in the middle 30s still have extreme high sex drive! haha.

[yummymocha]

lol, there is no need to see a doctor for having high sex drive, unless to the extend that u rape any guy on the street u see. For me as a guy when i feel horny and when im not busy like when im at home nothing to do, then i would just watch porn and masturbate. I think thats enough for me lol. BTW im 19 and a virgin.

[rav_taz]

I dun c any issues wif high sex drive. So long as it doesnt affect your day to day life etc.
Doesnt mean that only guys have high sex drive, gals too jz that mayb they dun talk abt it as openly as guys do.

[Joris]

Girls with extreme HSD might find that their partners could not satisfy them enough hence the DIY. I think its quite normal since SIS is in her early 20s. However, it all about mind over body. A visit to a specialist ur choice might answer all ur questions. Last but not least, take care sis :)

[Bangster]

Sis TS,

I think you should just enjoy it and look at it as a gift.

Just be mindful not to let it overtake your life....

[havefun3]

ok if a guy ..lets say a male friend arouse u and show u his cock will u suck it??

[HungHubby]

Everyone has their own levels of sexual desires, though i guess most peeps in here do have a higher sexual drive than average. There's nothing wrong in having a partner whose different in terms of the sex drive, even if u got together by heading to the bedroom first. Age gap and stuff doesnt play a part, everyone has their own fantasies and fetishes that not even his/her partner might approve of..

Seriously, u dun need a doc or anything. Just ask yourself if ya in this relationship for the sex? the companionship? mutual benefits? or a lifelong partner etc?

I've known friends and encounters FBs, FWBs or whatever u wanna call them. But where and when to draw the line? Do u foresee yaself getting married to this guy and still have a different partner in terms of lust? Or do u foresee things getting better once u both got a place to your own?

Like what i always advise my pals, have a good talk before thinking of anything else. Things might just improve and u both would be better off.. :)

[Slaver29125]

Everything is relative…
Everyone is different…
But DEFINITELY enjoy what you have… Seek help if it becomes disruptive...

[miss22]

lol, there is no need to see a doctor for having high sex drive, unless to the extend that u rape any guy on the street u see. For me as a guy when i feel horny and when im not busy like when im at home nothing to do, then i would just watch porn and masturbate. I think thats enough for me lol. BTW im 19 and a virgin.

Keep that virginity of yours. do you know that alot of my girlfriends (and myself) always fantasize making out with a virgin boy?

[devan69]

hi miss 22 i have the same reaction the same as u .when i see them on streets coms or porns ,i really get turn on .im askin myself the same question too but they say try nt to eat too much oxyster all tat jus cant control it dun u ?

[chucky69]

Stop complaining. lots of us are willing to satisfy your needs...Annabel Chong, your Singapore most famous porn star fucked everyone in her College and then decided to do PORN and broke the world record of having over 250 men in a gang bang session.

U could start this by sending each guy in this thread a location, time and day adn I amusre we will FUCK U hard and in every hole as well.

[terrible ted]

Stop complaining. lots of us are willing to satisfy your needs...Annabel Chong, your Singapore most famous porn star fucked everyone in her College and then decided to do PORN and broke the world record of having over 250 men in a gang bang session.

U could start this by sending each guy in this thread a location, time and day adn I amusre we will FUCK U hard and in every hole as well.

so crude. :(

[miss22]

so crude. :(

Yeah its such a turn off isnt it?

I have a feeling he treats the other gender as objects.

[miss22]

Great post. Lots to discuss and issues to delve deeper into. (no pun intended... ya right...) Well, obviously you don't have a physical problem, unlike some ladies who can't even achieve an orgasm. You may have a psychological problem though.

Has this issue ever disrupted your life in a destructive way? You know, you are late and rushing for time but because of your high sex drive, you got to orgasm first. Thus you are later than ever before. You mentioned you get wet looking at attractive ladies (hoping you are as attractive as them so that your bf will want you more). How about attractive men? Ever slept with 1 just because you think he may be a great fuck, only to end up with regret because you really love your bf and your high sex drive has caused you to betray your love? Etc. If you have such incidences, you may have a sex addiction problem. You may need professional help to regain control of your life.

What is it about an orgasm that keeps you returning for so much more than usual? A lot of us love how it makes our bodies feel more relaxed. When a guy sleeps with many women, the orgasms he experiences, besides making him more relaxed, can also represent an extra ego boost. He feels skillful/attractive. Esp so in cases of unattractive men who keep succeeding in bedding attractive women. The desire for orgasm may be really a desire to continually boost his ego. You ask such guys to DIY only, they will find it unsatisfactory. Some people like to make love in public. Why go through the risks of being peeped all just for an orgasm right? Well, these people may want others to look at them. The real 'orgasm' could be the satisfaction that you can control the urges and desires of the people peeping at you. What does an orgasm mean for you? A need to feel attractive, to be wanted?

If you feel positively in control of your sex drive and will only release it in non-destructive manners (DIY or with bf only), then maybe you need variations in acheiving orgasm to make up for your bf's lower sex drive. I read your other posts. Seems you like it when your bf finds you attractive and irresistible. Especially so when he does something totally unexpected. Why not develop this angle further? Go buy a remote control vibrator. Use it when you are out in the streets with your bf. Let him hold the control and surprise you. Your role is to try to look normal on the outside while shopping like a normal couple in Orchard Road... How does this idea sound to you?

Hope my post makes sense. If you want more ideas, I can share them later.

Hhaha. No darling, I do not get wet looking at sexy women. I just have those sexual vibes running though my body for a few seconds and it ends there. If I got wet just by looking at other girls in short skirts, I think something is VERY wrong with me then. haha.

I like what you said about orgasm. I guess its the whole process of being satisfied and feeling good about one own self.

If you feel positively in control of your sex drive and will only release it in non-destructive manners (DIY or with bf only), then maybe you need variations in acheiving orgasm to make up for your bf's lower sex drive. I read your other posts. Seems you like it when your bf finds you attractive and irresistible. Especially so when he does something totally unexpected. Why not develop this angle further? Go buy a remote control vibrator. Use it when you are out in the streets with your bf. Let him hold the control and surprise you. Your role is to try to look normal on the outside while shopping like a normal couple in Orchard Road... How does this idea sound to you? - THIS, is really interesting. Yes, It really turns me on when my own lover finds me attractiv and irresistible and does something unexpected. I like surprises. But he doesn't and def not into such things. Atleast not. Perhaps I should talk to him about it. He doesn't exactly like talking about sex, atleast not when we are not doing it, during sex is fine.

Thanks for your suggestions. Its pretty interesting :) What other ideas to you share then?

[Bangster]

Some of you people really have no manners leh....

People is a girl with a high sex drive and you are treating her like an object.

Please leh, dont throw the faces of MAN like this leh...

Got cock doesn't mean you superman, ok? In here, a lot of people got cock, and these people(basically called "Ta Bor", aka "Men") also know how to fuck. So it's not only you. Dont post such buay hiao bai things leh.

By the way, I won't zap you cos my points are for upping those who deserve it.

And lastly, if YOU still dont know who YOU ARE

I think you'd better go to another forum lah.

[Tripster]

Nothing problematic in having a HSD. If you need relief, MASTURBATE. It is completely natural, better still perfect your orgasmic zones and enjoy the process. Just don't go hunting for partners to fxxk...because it can be damaging psychologically...

trip

[icy_boi]

i can help u heheee~~

[MitMit]

Im having this same problem for many years.......suffering in silence. Where to seek help?

[miss22]

Some of you people really have no manners leh....

People is a girl with a high sex drive and you are treating her like an object.

Please leh, dont throw the faces of MAN like this leh...

Got cock doesn't mean you superman, ok? In here, a lot of people got cock, and these people(basically called "Ta Bor", aka "Men") also know how to fuck. So it's not only you. Dont post such buay hiao bai things leh.

By the way, I won't zap you cos my points are for upping those who deserve it.

And lastly, if YOU still dont know who YOU ARE

I think you'd better go to another forum lah.

EXACTLY. I couldnt agree with you more.
What a disgrace.

[miss22]

Im having this same problem for many years.......suffering in silence. Where to seek help?


Are you male or femaleeeeeeeeeeee

[miss22]

hi miss 22 i have the same reaction the same as u .when i see them on streets coms or porns ,i really get turn on .im askin myself the same question too but they say try nt to eat too much oxyster all tat jus cant control it dun u ?

OYSTERS! isnt that a myth? teehee.

[miss22]

A high sex drive is a problem only IF it affects your capability to function in your daily life. If you are able to concentrate at work and lead a "normal" social life, then it really isn't a problem ... except that of finding a willing and able partner ;)

Likewise, if you are happy with who you are ... highly sexed, wanting to indulge in "slut" role-plays, then there really isn't a problem (although this one is rather tricky as it is hard to seperate undue influence from your close ones). It is only a problem if you are unhappy with who you and/or have self esteem issues.

So If you find that it affects your ability to work/socialise normally, or if you have self-esteem issues, then you may want to seek help.

I've met quite a few high sex drive women in my life ...

One was my gf when I was serving NS. We would fuck like rabbits during the weekends but during the weekdays, when I couldn't bookout, she would be incredibly high-strung and sexually frustrated. Masturbation didn't fully satisfy her but she made do by scheming on what we would do on the weekends. It certainly made for rather explosive weekends :)

Another was a girl I knew in Uni, while in hostel. She had a bf but couldn't enough even thoughly they did it daily. She started trawling campus for guys to fuck and it all spiralled down from there. Her bf was not supportive, she could not reconcile her shame of sleeping around vs her desire to fuck. She ended up needing help and medication. It messed her up.

Bottom line, if you find the right people, in the right environment, you can be happy. If you find yourself doing the wrong things for the wrong reasons, IF ever you are unhappy with who you are or what you are doing, force yourself to take a step back and evaluate your position from a 3rd person's perspective. Don't be shy about getting professional help. They often give you a perspective that your friends usually don't. More info means better decisions.

Also, don't bother about what constitutes "normal" masturbation or sex preferences. We are all different. We prefer different positions ... different things excite us, motivate us, stimulate us.

Some of my gf's could multi-orgasm, some couldn't. First time I met one who couldn't, I kept stimulating her after she came, insisting that she come again. I got a shove, a slap and a scolding for that. Some of them like to use fingers while masturbating, some didn't. Some liked digital penetration, some prefered clitorial stimulation. As for what goes on in their mind, the variety of thoughts is stagerring. :)

You figure what works for you physically and mentally and leave it as that. Don't try to benchmark against other people.

BTW, sports ... I find that sports actually increases my sex drive! Other than the initial "aching-all-over" getting fit period, sports rarely leaves me so tired that I can't get it up. OTOH, the competitiveness makes me more driven, more alive and it carries over into the bedroom. Sports also de-stresses me, which leads to more mental inclination for naughty stuff. Sports also makes me fitter, which means more energy and stamina for *ahem* nocturnal sports. These days, I find that I am actually buzzing after my weeknight sports sessions ... to the extent that I actually have trouble sleeping unless I *ahem* release first. That's me anyway. YMMV

my 2c. Thanks for reading.


Uni girl case is seriously messed up. That's really quite something. I don't think ill ever be in that position. Dont even have thought about that. I wont do things to others if i will never want to be done to me.

Yes i do sports too like 5 times a week, swimming. Do or dont do, it doesnt affect the sexual side of me actually haha.

You are right about - Also, don't bother about what constitutes "normal" masturbation or sex preferences. We are all different. We prefer different positions ... different things excite us, motivate us, stimulate us. - I guess i am curious about whats going on with other people out there

Thanks for your conversation :)

[guller]

HSD are normal for every human regardless gender.
but it really depends on individual how to diverse their sex drive.
some may find it taboo but some may not,some even odd.

i'm a guy,for me i'll masturbate twice a week sometime even up to once every single day durin hormone "raging" :D

for guys,if they masturbate more they will have less wet dream which is true to me.
why? bcoz once i nvr masturbate almost 2-3 week, every morning wake up my
undie are damp wit wetness :p

i duno whether gal does experience these situation.
but for sure ur boyfren is da happiest guy in da world. ;)

[freezetheDB]

personally I think there is nothing wrong with HSD, unless like what many has already mentioned, that it affects your daily operations.

getting a new hobby/passion can divert the attention (of coz if the new hobby allows meeting of attractive opposite sexes, then it probably will enhance it?)

[Kazuki]

Hey girl are you on pills ? I mean to regulate period like diane35, prolly decreases sex drive too.

Gonna share a brief story with you guys.. my gf used to be like you, pretty high sex drive. I tell you, shes horny till i sick of having sex with her sometimes.
Untill one day she started on this pill and ongoing for abt 4-5 mths shes kinda on low sex drive, even personally told me that too. :cool:
We guess its the side effect of the pill. Now ah I tried turning on her also difficult..she'll say things like "wait till i got mood ok..dunno why..sry dear"
well to be frank, we still got do ..like maybe once every 1-2 mth.

haha well gonna DIY for myself, same goes to you but you aint so bad. Still got do once every 1-2 weeks :)
And dont have to worry your bf having affair since his sex drive is pretty a small one :D j/k ~
GL gal ! :)

[miss22]

HSD are normal for every human regardless gender.
but it really depends on individual how to diverse their sex drive.
some may find it taboo but some may not,some even odd.

i'm a guy,for me i'll masturbate twice a week sometime even up to once every single day durin hormone "raging" :D

for guys,if they masturbate more they will have less wet dream which is true to me.
why? bcoz once i nvr masturbate almost 2-3 week, every morning wake up my
undie are damp wit wetness :p

i duno whether gal does experience these situation.
but for sure ur boyfren is da happiest guy in da world. ;)


haha its so lovable to see a standing cock in the morning next to me and damp underwear. haha.

girls too do experience this sort of thing. but not as significant as men.

[longfei]

well, since a lot has already been said (and done)..

would just like to add that you're 22!

and you have a lot of time and imagination and energy now - so point is, you're experiencing sexual desires that are natural and part of our growing up process, and its great news that you are able to explore your sexuality and desires and understand yourself better.. what turns you on for eg, how you like to be touched for eg how to give and receive pleasure for eg..

many girls dont and physical intimacy and therefore quality of sexual life is lacking..

so dont be (if you are) too disturbed by it and start worrying..

we all know that your bf and future husband will love you for this phase of your life in future.

because if not now, then when?

like someone mentioned, as long as it doesnt adversely disrupt your daily activities..

cheerios.

[Johnston]

'And to the rest....: maybe, maybe, maybe. Whats the point of knowing?

'Dont worry, i am sure your pm box is full of guys who are more than willing to fuck u more than once a week. (Im not one of them).' - This is annoyingly insulting. What makes you think i am here for more men to fuck me more than once a week? Have you not digested the words - just a discussion? I couldn't care less if you are one of them or not?

*raises eyebrow. I post in that tone all the time. Refreshingly irreverent and bart simpson-like, i should think.

What exactly is there to discuss? You have a need, you either satisfy it, ignore it, or purge it from your brain. Or shall we start the age old drama-mama ""PREGNANT!!! HOW!!!" tat our tv keeps showing from time to time.

As we are each and every one of us unique and different from each other (until cloning arrives), any dicussion regarding human behaviour will result in a multitude of replies owing to that innate individuality we all have. Anyway here are my replies then to your 4 odd and self-answered questions :

Wondering how many days can your go without playing with yourself? : less than 7 hours

Do your think about fucking the girl in the video that you are viewing while wanking? - OF course we do, what else would we be thinking of ? Having a pint at the pub? If we think about something else when fucking, that's possible , but now we are WANKING while watching some porn.

Or do your think of no one at all in particular? - This is quite possible if the bloke in questions gets his rocks off by watching cars explode, for example

Do your think about your wives/ gfs or replay the sexy stuff since the last time your fucked your lover? - replay what sexy stuff? replay any clips/pictures we took, you mean? Again, this question is annoyingly vague, like i like to repeat now and again: We are each of us DIFFERENT. Some blokes never think about sex until asked, and some silly twats think about it all the time.

Missus, i wouldn't be one of the fellows right now clogging up your PM inbox, because i know precisely what any proper lady thinks of a fellow here. *WANKER. It's a damn sight hard to convince any lady here your intentions are prim and proper when you met in a goddamned SEX FORUM for chrissakes.

But in the end don't all relationships end up in SEX and procreation in the end so what's the point of all this ducking and diving and doublespeak anyway....:rolleyes:

[Johnston]

Keep that virginity of yours. do you know that alot of my girlfriends (and myself) always fantasize making out with a virgin boy?

*mumble mumble - Virginity is not the presence or absence of any silly membrane, or the non-occurance of ejaculation previously.

The definition of a Vrigin properly should be "having very little or no knowledge of sex and matters relating to sex" :p

Given that even 12 year olds nowadays knows all about sex and shite and wanks off regular, i'd say its a pretty hard task to find that fabled "Last Virgin Local Boy in Singapore" *mumble mumble - that's put a spanner in some plans then.

Of course, when being interrogated on matters sexual by our partner the proper and correct answer should be NO ONE ELSE unless you are at an age when it's a damn sight hard to pretend you've never been fucked.

I hear women seem to prefer untried, unsullied males. Or so i hear. :D

[ChevelleZ]

Nah! I think its normal..
I mean well.. I have sex wth gf and my fb for almost everyday (after works) but I still wanking my self at least 3 times a day...

I even went to the gym to make my self busy but still...!
I feel that I just need to have my orgasm asap..

[SinDellman]

Frankly i have always not so sure about girls having HSD because I have not met any yet, or they have not told me.

So I was pleasantly surprised when a working FL told me that sometimes she couldn't sleep well at night when she was thinking/dreaming of the mighty DICKS! :rolleyes:

Bare in mind, these words are from a working FL who has an average of having 3 or more fu<ks with different guys per day! She said if she didnt get a fu<k for 3 straight days she would go crazy!

Now i am looking out for a HSD gal :D

[MultiOrgasGuy]

Miss22, I think HSD is ok as long as you can still live a normal life.

As different people have different levels of sex drive, it is important to realise that a mismatch can occur, ie, you crave for more sex but your partner does not.

I too have HSD, and even though I have sex with my FBs for 1-3 times on a daily basis, I will still pcc once or twice a day. It used to be much more frequent. I have learnt to accept myself and live with it. My FBs have also accepted me as I am. For eg, they know I can't keep my eyes from looking, so my FB will point out a hot chick for me to oogle… Of course I had previous GFs and ex-FBs who could not accept me and it eventually didn’t work out.

Having HSD can be a blessing or a bane depending on what you do with it. If you try to restraint or curb it, you may just frustrate yourself. If you make good use of it, you keep yourself and your partner satisfied. While pcc is one solution, maybe you can share and discuss with your partner about your HSD issue, or just try seducing him more often….

[EAN100]

Heh ... mebbe TS play Wii too much :)

UK Woman Claims Wii Fit Board Turned Her into Sex Addict
(http://wii.gamespy.com/articles/108/1083698p1.html)

[whiteprince]

It's rather common. i knew a FB with super appetite, picked her after school almost every noon just to crave her urge for sex. be it MSCP or hotel, she needs to orgasm more than 10 times before she can be satisfied. Of course not just by sex itself but licking too. And at night she will masturbate away at any possible chance.

Most importantly you need to know what you want. If you just need physical sex, find a guy that's most compatible to your need. You may need to meet more guys before you can find a suitable one.

If you are also lusting mentally to do with multiple guys too, ask yourself if you are willing to lead a wanton life cos you are very prone to seducing and giving in to guys just to be fucked. If you are fine with it, then you don't have to seek help. Else you should consider getting professional help.

[newbie89]

OYSTERS! isnt that a myth? teehee.

Hi, apparently it seems more like a truth:D

[newbie89]

Its normal, its just that you have higher level of hormones than other girls;)

If you find that it is really out of control, like what others say, find something to distract you. It can be a hobby or hanging out with your friends, have a nice chat. Haha

[Righty]

You have yet to reach 22 and already have such HSD. Imagine what will happen when you reach your late 20s early 30s. That's the age women reach their sexual peak.

[officelady]

to be honest i do bring along my small but powerful vibrator to work and ever use it in the ladies restroom and once i was nearly caught in action by a security officer when i was using it in the fire emergency stairways.. and i do think about guys who walk past me on the street if only they are tall handsome and cute.. so does it means i am a nympho?

[cherryblossom]

since my younger days, i know that i have HSD. luckily, my exbfs were also the same. the unlucky thing is that i got married to a guy thats seems to have LSD.

lately, i've been feeling hornier and hornier and it is very hard to satiate my thirst for sex..

i've already told my hubby abt the problems we have.. but seems like he is not keen to do anything.. i don't want to 'eat out' cuz if i do, i'll feel terribly guilty...

[Greendevil]

High sex drive, I dont see it as a problem. It like some ppl has bigger appetite for food intake while some lesser. I also have high sex drive. I in my early 30 and still pump like a rabbit with my gal. On a average it like 15-20 times a week with each session lasting to an hour, so dont worry abt it. Some ppl are jus different, anyway we all not the same. Jus don degrade yourself for sex will do.

[keano]

Great post!

I think i have an addiction to sex too! hahah! And i think all guys here having this problem too LOL

Anyway spend more time on more productive stuffs like sports/ money making schemes or even vol work :)

I did encountered a girl who love sex so much too, and because of that we went our separate ways, why? because she wants to be with another guy while also with me..the reason, she likes to fuck.

Oh well but she can blow i remember, farking good.

Side track abit paiseh..

TS, you are normal but it is not a bad idea to seek some prof opinions yeah especially if you think of that too. Why not!?

It can actually help you in your thoughts later.

Bless ya :)

Cheers

keano

[jonny1213]

A high sex drive is a problem only IF it affects your capability to function in your daily life. If you are able to concentrate at work and lead a "normal" social life, then it really isn't a problem ... except that of finding a willing and able partner ;)

Likewise, if you are happy with who you are ... highly sexed, wanting to indulge in "slut" role-plays, then there really isn't a problem (although this one is rather tricky as it is hard to seperate undue influence from your close ones). It is only a problem if you are unhappy with who you and/or have self esteem issues.

So If you find that it affects your ability to work/socialise normally, or if you have self-esteem issues, then you may want to seek help.

I've met quite a few high sex drive women in my life ...

One was my gf when I was serving NS. We would fuck like rabbits during the weekends but during the weekdays, when I couldn't bookout, she would be incredibly high-strung and sexually frustrated. Masturbation didn't fully satisfy her but she made do by scheming on what we would do on the weekends. It certainly made for rather explosive weekends :)

Another was a girl I knew in Uni, while in hostel. She had a bf but couldn't enough even thoughly they did it daily. She started trawling campus for guys to fuck and it all spiralled down from there. Her bf was not supportive, she could not reconcile her shame of sleeping around vs her desire to fuck. She ended up needing help and medication. It messed her up.

Bottom line, if you find the right people, in the right environment, you can be happy. If you find yourself doing the wrong things for the wrong reasons, IF ever you are unhappy with who you are or what you are doing, force yourself to take a step back and evaluate your position from a 3rd person's perspective. Don't be shy about getting professional help. They often give you a perspective that your friends usually don't. More info means better decisions.

Also, don't bother about what constitutes "normal" masturbation or sex preferences. We are all different. We prefer different positions ... different things excite us, motivate us, stimulate us.

Some of my gf's could multi-orgasm, some couldn't. First time I met one who couldn't, I kept stimulating her after she came, insisting that she come again. I got a shove, a slap and a scolding for that. Some of them like to use fingers while masturbating, some didn't. Some liked digital penetration, some prefered clitorial stimulation. As for what goes on in their mind, the variety of thoughts is stagerring. :)

You figure what works for you physically and mentally and leave it as that. Don't try to benchmark against other people.

BTW, sports ... I find that sports actually increases my sex drive! Other than the initial "aching-all-over" getting fit period, sports rarely leaves me so tired that I can't get it up. OTOH, the competitiveness makes me more driven, more alive and it carries over into the bedroom. Sports also de-stresses me, which leads to more mental inclination for naughty stuff. Sports also makes me fitter, which means more energy and stamina for *ahem* nocturnal sports. These days, I find that I am actually buzzing after my weeknight sports sessions ... to the extent that I actually have trouble sleeping unless I *ahem* release first. That's me anyway. YMMV

my 2c. Thanks for reading.

2 thumb up for noobie.swingers, totally agree what he say. Well done bro :)

[keano]

hi miss22.

im 22 male chinese and i feel like im not bad looking. If u need help about sex, im sure as hell i can satisfy you. Try me =]

wtf...

and iphone sucks, BB roxs!

LOL

[Draven]

One solution to decrease sex drive is to take contraceptive pills. Common side effects include decrease in sexual desire and actually bigger boobs. I also remember reading somewhere that taking those pills for long term may cause some damage.

[Tripster]

I know of women who invest in a vibrator and uses it to satisfy their urges.

I think they dun need a man...self love using masturbation techniques is safe and effective...

peace:p

[sadlonelyguyer]

then eat yourself.
go to tyour kitchen, get that carrot, binjal .... :D
since my younger days, i know that i have HSD. luckily, my exbfs were also the same. the unlucky thing is that i got married to a guy thats seems to have LSD.

lately, i've been feeling hornier and hornier and it is very hard to satiate my thirst for sex..

i've already told my hubby abt the problems we have.. but seems like he is not keen to do anything.. i don't want to 'eat out' cuz if i do, i'll feel terribly guilty...

[sexysoliloquy]

I know of women who invest in a vibrator and uses it to satisfy their urges.

I think they dun need a man...self love using masturbation techniques is safe and effective...

peace:p
Not really leh, I bought a vibrator soon after my ex and I broke up, but didn't feel that good for me cuz I still prefer the real thing. Now I find my fbs or pple online to satisfy my cravings... =p

[squiggle]

High sex drive no problem. As long both you & your partner have the time to do it. Agree to do it will do. Remember always practice safe sex!

But doing sex all the time can be boring also.


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[biglittlehead]

i have a high sex drive too. but, my gf dont. well, i use to have a FB who is high on sex. We often have sex like two to three times a week. that was when i was in poly. was hell of an experience, cause we even did it in the classroom i remembered!

i think it is rare for girls to have high sex drive. but if you are one, your bf or fb will be so so lucky!

[Zacc]

well, i use to have a FB who is high on sex. We often have sex like two to three times a week.

2-3 times a week not really a lot. Normal actually. 2-3 times a day will border on high sex drive. But the thing bout it is that the best sex is bout once per 3 days. When everything has recovered from the sessions. Something like not smoking for one whole day and then the first cig, extra wonderful.

[nukebomb]

老处女got high sex drive lah.:D