GF won't give bj

[cute19801]

Hello all brothers out there ! Please help me ! i have the above problem cos my gf say its very er xin and she keep on refusing to give me a bj and she won't let me eat her pussy too ! i try to tell her we bath ourself clean then maybe can try putting some honey then will not be tat er xin right ! but she still don't dare leh ! Can any brother here advise me how to make her to gimme a bj ? or at least let me lick her ! Our sex life are getting boring.... :(

[HorseD77]

Trying to force your gf to either bj you or let you kiss your pussy wont do any good.... you need to be patient and explain to her that this is part of the love making process. This can be done thr some porno film or some literature on this act of oral sex.

On 2nd thoughts, you better skip the porno, she would find that more er xin:D

[PussyEater]

Too bad you won't get a chance to eat her pussy.

:D

[lovely]

For goodness sake lah if she dun wan then dun force her lor. Can sumone force u eat shit or not? If she dun wan to do sumthing she dun wan then no point mah. There must be willing then will be fun mah if not wats the point leh?

[mullah]

Coaxed her into reading woman's mags...There are a lot of articles about sex(the good and the bad)...But the articles usually stressed about foreplay...how important oral sex before the actual action itself...Maybe after reading it she would oblige to your needs...Who knows rite..?

Or maybe you can write to Aunt Aggie about your problem...whatever it is do write us a FR if she she decide to blow for you...Good Luck...

[evo3]

u can always finger her until she cum n high, then slowly start to change position and once she get high then shaft it into her mouth n same time u lick her pussy then she will find that ther will b no tomorrow for her. the very next time she will sure ask for more.

[henryl721]

The trick is to coax her

[cute19801]

I'm not trying to force her ! i just want our sex life to spice up more ! The question is how to make her overcome the fear? I've try many ways but she still dowan leh..... sigh..... :(

[Qingren]

Originally posted by cute19801
I'm not trying to force her ! i just want our sex life to spice up more ! The question is how to make her overcome the fear? I've try many ways but she still dowan leh..... sigh..... :(

Aiya, your level not high enuff lah. You just start the game with level 1 power then you wanna fight the last king liao. Keke. Girls are very funny one. Must slowly coax and brainwash them. With gals, you must also be patient. There are actually lotsa ways to make her change her mind. Maybe I publish book for you lah? Last time my VJC Gf also say can only hold hands becoz she is a very pious catholic and her family are very strict. Kissing not allow also. In the end, after 1 week, I had her blowing me off.

[sgiceboy]

Me same problem....gf never blow me....:(

[Deadmaninc]

Originally posted by cute19801
Hello all brothers out there ! Please help me ! i have the above problem cos my gf say its very er xin and she keep on refusing to give me a bj and she won't let me eat her pussy too ! i try to tell her we bath ourself clean then maybe can try putting some honey then will not be tat er xin right ! but she still don't dare leh ! Can any brother here advise me how to make her to gimme a bj ? or at least let me lick her ! Our sex life are getting boring.... :(

Please lar, if she dun want to do it then forget it lor... Your gf is just to provide you with bj? If you really dying to have a bj go to Geylang lar... If you really love her, then you will respect her and dun think about it again... If you really dying to have a gf to give you a bj, change a new one and rememebr to ask her if she does bj first...

[VTEC]

Tell her abt this forum. Let her know cunnilingus & fellatio r the current IN thing. Convince her nowadays every couple is doing it


Originally posted by cute19801
Hello all brothers out there ! Please help me ! i have the above problem cos my gf say its very er xin and she keep on refusing to give me a bj and she won't let me eat her pussy too ! i try to tell her we bath ourself clean then maybe can try putting some honey then will not be tat er xin right ! but she still don't dare leh ! Can any brother here advise me how to make her to gimme a bj ? or at least let me lick her ! Our sex life are getting boring.... :(

[pinkie]

Originally posted by cute19801
Hello all brothers out there ! Please help me ! i have the above problem cos my gf say its very er xin and she keep on refusing to give me a bj and she won't let me eat her pussy too ! i try to tell her we bath ourself clean then maybe can try putting some honey then will not be tat er xin right ! but she still don't dare leh ! Can any brother here advise me how to make her to gimme a bj ? or at least let me lick her ! Our sex life are getting boring.... :(

i wonder if brudders here ever experience before...wat i can suggest is either 1) to get her drunk, but u sober la...otherwise how to do 'sports'...then tease her bad enuff to allow her to be licked, then slowly position your body to a 69, then u know la, it's a home-run...2) make her so high by fingering, that she can't resist a lick-job, then follow the last part of part 1 .

i have tried both techniks, worked pretty well to my favour....

juz my 2 nuts worth of suggest....

[smiler]

A piece of advice...........Watever you do, make sure both you enjoy throught out the whole procedure. No point forcing into a sure lose situation....wat we wan is a win win situation....Think about it.:D

[easyeasy]

get over it, go and pay for a good bbbj

[kenylogan]

Originally posted by pinkie


i wonder if brudders here ever experience before...wat i can suggest is either 1) to get her drunk, but u sober la...otherwise how to do 'sports'...then tease her bad enuff to allow her to be licked, then slowly position your body to a 69, then u know la, it's a home-run...2) make her so high by fingering, that she can't resist a lick-job, then follow the last part of part 1 .

i have tried both techniks, worked pretty well to my favour....

juz my 2 nuts worth of suggest....

Pinkie, you said it all... well done. Alcohol is man's best friend. Used to be my dog. But he doesn't work on women anymore. :D

[cute19801]

thanx brothers! will give it a try! its not tat i dowan to go gl to pay for bj ! have try it at hc, gl b4, but prefer gf to do it mah !
its part of sex play right?!! so just want to spice up our sex life mah !:D

[rabitsu]

Well getting her drunk works!.
But note that she can charge you in Court for
"outrage of modesty/rape maybe".
Beside this will start breaking down of you and gf's relation.

Think with your head not with your dick.....

[Dekachin]

Originally posted by cute19801
I'm not trying to force her ! i just want our sex life to spice up more ! The question is how to make her overcome the fear? I've try many ways but she still dowan leh..... sigh..... :(

It may be spicing things up for you but may not be for her. Sometimes it's not a fear, it may be something she really die die do not want to do. So speak to her and ask her what about it she doesn't like about it and if you can change it then change if cannot then accept it.

[alphalaw]

Glam82 post,
It may be spicing things up for you but may not be for her. Sometimes it's not a fear, it may be something she really die die do not want to do. So speak to her and ask her what about it she doesn't like about it and if you can change it then change if cannot then accept it.

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Like the starter said, the girl complain very er, so refuse to do it mah. My first gf also like dat, in the end broke up. Regretted now, coz maybe in the near future, she giving bj to her other bfs den, lan lan.

Must try to work it out, dun force!
Lawrence

[newlife]

Like the starter said, the girl complain very er, so refuse to do it mah. My first gf also like dat, in the end broke up. Regretted now, coz maybe in the near future, she giving bj to her other bfs den, lan lan.

Must try to work it out, dun force!
Lawrence [/B][/QUOTE]

Dun tell me u both broke up because she dun want to bj for u??????
Think it take time and love to let ur gf to do a bj for u, end of line she herself still must feel comfortable wif it.......

[mullah]

Yo brudder cute19801...your gf manage to give bj oredi or not..?Its been awhile since you ask us brudders for help...and I think they have been generous enough to you give advice...If it still never works...then my advice to you is...FORGET IT...Juz hop to GL or any HC and pay for their services...But you don't come back and start a thread of 'I paid for BJ but the gals still don't want to do me'...then obviously there is something really wrong with you...

[BigBadDaddy]

Originally posted by cute19801
Hello all brothers out there ! Please help me ! i have the above problem cos my gf say its very er xin and she keep on refusing to give me a bj and she won't let me eat her pussy too ! i try to tell her we bath ourself clean then maybe can try putting some honey then will not be tat er xin right ! but she still don't dare leh ! Can any brother here advise me how to make her to gimme a bj ? or at least let me lick her ! Our sex life are getting boring.... :(

Back in the GOOD OLD days, things were so MUCH EASIER, WE MEN just CLUB the BABE CONCUSSED and then DRAG her back into CAVE...tsk! tsk! tsk!

[cute19801]

well thanx to all bro who reply my thread ! i've given up the idea loh ! she dowan wat to do ! go hc, ktv and gl loh ! but with protection not tat shoik loh ! anyway thanx again brothers ! :D

[werty97]

That's how I do it.

1. Rubba her pussy until she's wet.
2. Slowly position yourself till U face the pussy. If she asked, say U just wanna have a closer look.
3. When she's not looking, dive! dive! dive! Dive into her pussy & make she U give her thorough lick. She'll try to push U away but must resist. After a while the defence will drop & she's enjoy the oral attention.
4. Next slowly swing yourself till 69 & position yr "rooster" near her mouth. Most likely she rubba it if she's horny. Keep your oral & intensify it. Once she can't tahan, she give U the oral service.

[Travelman]

Latest in the market!! go to 7-11, look for this dick shape lollipop cost onli $1.80 buy afews and sent it as a gift to ur gf, eat it at the same time praticing it :D the shape realli look like a dick and the funniest part is when u press the body, jelly juice come out ( like sperm )

had bought one for my wife for fun and she said she rather eating my dick than eating that lollipop hahahahaha.....

[dirtbike08]

do alot of foreplay to her,,,,,never ever mention to her that u are going to lick her,,,catbath her whole body at the same time finger her as well,,,,make her very very wet,,,,and very very high,,,then u slowly move down and lick her without her knowing,,,,only after she have experience the shoikness then u tell her...
the nthe next time try again and slowly move into 69 and ahhhh,,,,,,,

never fail before

girls always says no no no,,,i dun wan,,,i dun wan,,,,but the moment they get real wet and horny,,,everything also they wan

just my 2cents worth

[Xiaoyanzi]

Speaking from a woman's point of view I can say that it's not easy to get over those inhibitions that you have had for many years, especially since many parents tell their children that the genitals are 'dirty' and 'cannot touch'. To overcome this first there must be a bit of desire in the first place and the right conditions, a lot of support and patience.

First time I give BJ I was also quite apprehensive, didn't know what to do, nervous and a bit turned off by the smell, even though the guy was actually very clean and well groomed, it's just psychological. Now, no problems.

[DarkLord]

Originally posted by Xiaoyanzi
Speaking from a woman's point of view I can say that it's not easy to get over those inhibitions that you have had for many years, especially since many parents tell their children that the genitals are 'dirty' and 'cannot touch'. To overcome this first there must be a bit of desire in the first place and the right conditions, a lot of support and patience.

First time I give BJ I was also quite apprehensive, didn't know what to do, nervous and a bit turned off by the smell, even though the guy was actually very clean and well groomed, it's just psychological. Now, no problems.


lolz I din know we have sisters reading this forums too!!

Cheers!!

[lawry]

Originally posted by Xiaoyanzi
Speaking from a woman's point of view I can say that it's not easy to get over those inhibitions that you have had for many years, especially since many parents tell their children that the genitals are 'dirty' and 'cannot touch'. To overcome this first there must be a bit of desire in the first place and the right conditions, a lot of support and patience.

First time I give BJ I was also quite apprehensive, didn't know what to do, nervous and a bit turned off by the smell, even though the guy was actually very clean and well groomed, it's just psychological. Now, no problems.

hi just for general knowledge sake.. and the welfare of the guys here..

i just wonder... how old did u tried ur first BJ.. and how long does it take for u to get use to it??

2 question.

appreciated... *bow*

cheers

lawry

[lightweaver]

My personal experience,
be patient.

Wat i do is to get her to really relax and feel me.

give her a back massage,
then kiss her back and work my way down...making sure she's really relaxed.
......
well....hope u get the point, us be extremely gentle when u approach ur TARGET.lolz

[Xiaoyanzi]

Originally posted by lawry


hi just for general knowledge sake.. and the welfare of the guys here..

i just wonder... how old did u tried ur first BJ.. and how long does it take for u to get use to it??

2 question.

appreciated... *bow*

cheers

lawry

Of course there are ladies in these forums... but don't call me a sister cause that's slang for a transvestite right?... anyway won't give too many details but

1. I was still in uniform.
2. I was okay with it after the first two-three times, and now I'd say I'm quite good.

[Rainman]

Originally posted by Xiaoyanzi


Of course there are ladies in these forums... but don't call me a sister cause that's slang for a transvestite right?... anyway won't give too many details but

1. I was still in uniform.
2. I was okay with it after the first two-three times, and now I'd say I'm quite good.

Hi Xiaoyanzi...

I Like your name.

Yes, Sister is often used on Transvestite but in this case. It is with respect to a nice lady.

Cheers....

[Blowjob_lover]

Just would like to contribute my experiences....

I am married for 5 yrs now and so far my wife had only given me <10 blowjobs... Each time lasting only < 30 secs as she feels that it is er sin to do it... likewise, she does not want me to do it for her too...

I have given up persuading her abt 2 yrs back and since then, she did not offer to blow for me and would only do hj for me... or sex...

Since then, I had asked those HC girls or girls met from Alamak chatrooms to blow for me...

Sometimes, u just have to accept our own fate...

[Youngsing77]

initially my gf also don't give bj... but after 6 months of sex together, she is the one who wants bj, and she is enjoying every bit of it.

[risingeast]

Previously my gf would not do BJ, even though I pester her very often. Then one day, she said she watched VCD and found it very exciting and asked me whether I like to have BJ and to hear her moaning. So we took a bath together where she washed my cock very clean and gave me a fantastic BJ. I even CIM. After that, we washed up, and quickly went to bonk and she was moaning and enjoying herself, until she come. Now she BJ me all the time.

[dean]

I always make sure that my GF enjoys every session with me. The trick is to satify her fully, then she will also try her best to do the same for me.

[Youngsing77]

I guess u are right. my gf and sex with me for 6months and no BJ all along. Till we went KL for HongKong for holiday, we got a Adult Channel on the Hotel's paid Channel and got a Blue movie. We watched together and it stills she is more hard-up than me. Hahahahaaa... anyway, she is my wife for 2.5 years and she is still enjoying the BJ almost everyday.

Good luck my friends!

NB: It just take them to try one time and they (GFs) will definitely enjoy it, but never (never) force them, which is something gals dislike.

[creative_tec]

brother,

i guess what you can do is to get your gf to watch porn with you. what i meant by porn is those XXX, uncensored one. Watch together with her, ask her if your cock really that smelly? Ask her to imagine your dick as a ice-cream, tell her to taste the ice-cream slowly. Once she start tasting it, that will be the start of wonderful sex life.
Just like me and my gf who is going to be my wife on the 22th of Sept (less than a month away) , initally she think like your gf, keep saying very er xin. So one day i suggest watching porn together, after watching, she was kinda high as i was massaging her pussy while watching. then i start to kiss her neck and slowly move down. Who noes...... she turn ard and pull my shorts down, take off my underwear and start blowing. I was shocked but i just carry on to enjoy it. After that day, she will bj me everytime we have sex. The best part is that...... sometimes when her period came and we cannot have sex, when she cannot tahan, she will give me bj until i shoot into her mouth. wah shiok man, but i told her its a bit disgusing for her to have that thing( sperm) in her mouth but she say she is alright with that. Anyway, this is one way to make your gf blow for u. I am just sharing my experience with you but its not 100% that it will work for you. :D

[lovely]

I really hate guys who keep on insist their gf to do BJ for them as the gers already say she dun wan why keep insist wor? Can't just respect her decision abit? :mad:

[Blowjob_lover]

lovely,

agree with u... thus never want to force my wife to do it for me... In fact, she would do it for me whenever it is my birthday... that makes it very special... really...

[lovely]

Originally posted by Blowjob_lover
lovely,

agree with u... thus never want to force my wife to do it for me... In fact, she would do it for me whenever it is my birthday... that makes it very special... really...


if love her then dun force her if u dun love her then go find sumone else BJ for u lor wats the point forcing wor. I Look down such guys! :mad:

[PrinceD@rkness]

Originally posted by Blowjob_lover
Just would like to contribute my experiences....

I am married for 5 yrs now and so far my wife had only given me <10 blowjobs... Each time lasting only < 30 secs as she feels that it is er sin to do it... likewise, she does not want me to do it for her too...

I have given up persuading her abt 2 yrs back and since then, she did not offer to blow for me and would only do hj for me... or sex...

Since then, I had asked those HC girls or girls met from Alamak chatrooms to blow for me...

Sometimes, u just have to accept our own fate...

must be damn cool to have u as my teacher:D

[Blowjob_lover]

PrinceD@rkness

Teachers do have their own social life after school just in case u think we just do marking and marking...

I don't think I am wrong to go to HCs at times, say once a month to relax after weeks of stress... Teachers nowadays work abt 12 hrs a day, 7 days a week --- just for info...

Man should not force their wife or gf to do bj for them... we should have some ZiZun, right? Thus, I would only go to HCs for blowjob since my wife doesn't want to blow for me...

[PrinceD@rkness]

hehe imagine going to hc n gl wif ur school teacher. SUPER COOL!!!!!:D

[Blowjob_lover]

PrinceD@rkness

Teachers are like normal beings who chose to pass knowledge (the right type, I mean) to the younger generation... It does not mean that teachers are saints who have all the goodness and have little or no sexual urges... It is just that most male teachers like me can control them...

Men and afterall men and there was a research that says that Men are preoccupied with thoughts of sex while women are preoccupied with thoughts of eating chocolate...

[tantjpx]

if really cant get from gf
and u wan it badly
just spend some $$$ to get it elsewhere then.............

[lightweaver]

Hmmm....

Gals: Eat chocolate
Guys: sex


Sex + eat chocolate= Choc coated dick :D

[tantjpx]

Originally posted by lightweaver
Hmmm....

Gals: Eat chocolate
Guys: sex


Sex + eat chocolate= Choc coated dick :D

haha
lolx................

[Blowjob_lover]

hi tantjpx,

I certainly agree with u... no point begging or forcing your gf to do it for u... just pay someone else and get it though the feeling is quite different..., i must agree...

[tantjpx]

Originally posted by Blowjob_lover
hi tantjpx,

I certainly agree with u... no point begging or forcing your gf to do it for u... just pay someone else and get it though the feeling is quite different..., i must agree...


ya lor
otherwise why governement allow such places like geylang to operate?????

[kelvin66]

I agreed with U that more of the girl dont like blow job, but I am lucky to know a Phillippine girl that really horny in blow job, she even rate better than some girl in HC and GL. she love to blowjob and lick my ass as nobody business when make love. Best of all, she drink all my juice I jerk EVERYTIME. she even ask me to jerk into her glass that she make coffee and drink in front of me. No joke. In fact, i have stop visit all HC after found her.

[tomleo]

i was with my gf for almost two years be4 she was willing to do it...for one and a half yr,every week,everyday ask for it,finally my wish come truth after one and a half yr:cool: but she do it for less than a min or 2 and practically after every 15-20 secs she will spit out her saliva into a tissue paper cause she say wat salty...u can bet sometimes it a turn off for me...:( what can i say..when she want to do it..she will do it.no pt asking again and again

[tantjpx]

Originally posted by tomleo
i was with my gf for almost two years be4 she was willing to do it...for one and a half yr,every week,everyday ask for it,finally my wish come truth after one and a half yr:cool: but she do it for less than a min or 2 and practically after every 15-20 secs she will spit out her saliva into a tissue paper cause she say wat salty...u can bet sometimes it a turn off for me...:( what can i say..when she want to do it..she will do it.no pt asking again and again

ar?
but u ask it again and again leh
lolx
"for one and a half yr,every week,everyday ask for it,finally my wish come truth"

[Blowjob_lover]

To kelvin66,

you are such a lucky man... but not many men are as lucky as u... really...


:)

[tantjpx]

Originally posted by Blowjob_lover
To kelvin66,

you are such a lucky man... but not many men are as lucky as u... really...


:)

ya
i agree
u r one damn lucky guy........

[Mazda]

Question: wot will u do if u saw ur student working there when u going for a bj?

Just curious....

[newlife]

Originally posted by Mazda
Question: wot will u do if u saw ur student working there when u going for a bj?

Just curious....

Think u will be the talking point the next day.........or she be the talking point.........but think both will face turn red like the monkey backside........

[kelvin66]

If you admire me, u can try luck at Lucky plaze, plenty of opporunity, but u must treat them well before u enjoy this service.

[tantjpx]

Originally posted by Mazda
Question: wot will u do if u saw ur student working there when u going for a bj?

Just curious....

i will ask her how much? and try her..........

[Blowjob_lover]

Recently, just tried one girl named lucy at Bugis HC.. She gave really good blow job and serves me really well.. . Allow me to use my fingers to penetrate into her vagina... she lets out a moan each time I penetrate her with my fingers...

[deffery]

sure a not? Bugis all ah-gua and lao quay bu u know?

[Walrus]

Recently got a new gf. first night of being my gf she stayed over at my hostel, in the middle of the night i woke up to find her going down on me! Ask her what she's doing she just looked up and looked at me with this notti look........didnt noe she is so horny when i was chasing her. She just kept on sucking, licking. The feeling was fantastic....told her i can't tahan much longer and need to cum and she just continued....after a while i really can't take it and unload into her mouth and to my surprise she took it all in her mouth and swallowed! After she swallowed she even gave me a smile! I was really surprised cos my previous gf though willing to give BJ won't even let me unload into her mouth. And now everytime she stay over at my place she will wake me up eery morening with this special treat! Personally i think you cant force your gf to go down on you. But maybe you can try getting her accustomed to the fact that oral sex is normal.