Possible to befriend and fall for an FL?
 

Why is it that I always suffer from withdrawals when i end an overnight session? I love the company and the sex comes last in my mind and heart. I build a rapport with an FL but i want something that's sincere. I sometimes just go through with the sex just because and not because i really want it. I don't want to sounds cheesey but quoting a certain song "We found love in a hopeless place" I mean i really would love to get to know her as a person and not just the person i had sex with because i forked out some money.

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possible
but know that she still needs money

I would rather be spending my money on her and her needs rather than paying for transactional sex. Not in a sugar daddy kind of way but in a way that supports her as a significant other. I don't know if you get what i mean. I mean she can do whatever she want to earn her keep, who am i to judge when i myself am fucked up in other kinds of ways.

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then you kanna her gong tao already
you pay her other than transactional sex? she would still treat you as transactional.
worse, you pay for nothing. she might just post on her social media to mock your actions even.
have seen many like this. just pure stupid.

keep it transactional, but dont make it feel like everytime its transactional. you got a lot to learn boy. its a dangerous world out there

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Any super chio girl can bbbj /w any guilt or conscience and carry on cheating. How about the other way, she provide her bosom to you for l? Never apply chicken farm, never know a woman's heart deep down.

No use to talk further, do watever you want. If u lose ur job and career bec of fl love, dun say it's bec of fl.

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You have come to fuck.
She is just here to suck and make a buck.
So don't be a schmuck.
You could jolly well be feeding her duck.
I wish you the best of luck.

It is not impossible to make friends with sex workers. We are all humans after all. But how many Vivian Wards are there in the world? Don't forget that the "rapport" you think you have, is built on the shaky foundations of cold hard cash.

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do you have a GF? If not, try to find one. If cannot, try to spend more time with friends. Then you not so lonely anymore and if just feel horny can go fuck no problem. but if you lonely and horny and go see FL then you will feel like this way.

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this is After Fuck Syndrome. you feel a longing for her because u just upped her. this may last a few days. bed more ladies and you will become numb to it. :D

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Hahaha omg guys thanks so much LOL. I guess it's just me as a person bah, always getting things mixed up. I'm back to normal already. I was thinking back and then like, wow, that was a great night.... Let's try it out again with someone else too 😉

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Good that you did not fixate.
Continue having no attachment funs :)

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Why would you ever fall in love with the public toilet is beyond my comprehension.:o

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You are a loser when it comes to women . So you choose the easy way out- to pay for it . And it so happen shes the only pussy within your easy reach and you wished you had a REAL WOMAN RELATIONSHIP .

But sadly , shes a whore . Whores are not for loving . They are TOYS for men .


Start a relationship with her and i Guarantee you will be starting another thread Titled . I SHOULD HAVE LISTENED

Or you may have Jumped off a tall building .


:D

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Btw , i have the best medicine for you ....

Put down her contact here and you can start to imagine how we do her .

I will write a very detailed FR

:D

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Just move on le...

More you think about this gal more u sink urself till u lose yourself. Not easy to do so when u like kena kc hard liao.

Overnight not cheap now...even you are her regular how many nights u can pay? Then rest of nights she spend with others u can tahan meh? So dun think so much

Treat it as sex therapy. Fuck and forget. There is always more

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Try to go for the sex and then don't pay her. To a working girl, that's like asking her for charity. PRC girls especially see this as you wanting a free lunch. Then reality will hit you and the truth shall set you free.

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the qn is whether she will fall for u :p

It’s just the hormone oxytocin speaking that is creating a post coital bond. Real love ? Just ask yourself honestly whether you can bring her home to your family & friends. And live with the consequences. Most are just wannabe hooker romeos who want to possess the girl.

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Need to go to gongtao helpdesk le

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hahaha :D :D

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For sure you can make friends and eventually fall in love with a wl, but be prepared to suffer that sour heart whenever she is working until the day either you break off or you throw in your all to provide for her and getting her to willingly give up her work. No girl likes to be touched by guys she does not like if it is not for money.

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Anything is possible. I have 2 mates marrying Thai working ladies. They are still married till date. It is not impossible. One's character is not determined by their trade.

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totally possible, when you screw a woman, you are exchanging more than just money, even though you want to believe its just that

https://www.healthline.com/health/se...xual-alignment

"Prostitution involves the same energy exchange which everyone engaged in sex is subject to.

The energy of both mix, with the person with the higher energy being dragged down a little, and the person with the lower energy level going up a little.

That energy affects the chakras, since sex is an alignment of two sets of chakras and an energy exchange.

Prostitutes tend to have a great deal more sex than normal, and with a much greater variance in the energy of the people they’re with.

The thing about prostitution is, it’s a karma redemption journey. Since they are often subject to violence, rough handling, and being used in all sorts of ways, without being able to retaliate, their karma improves rapidly.

Those engaged in prostitution or sex work of any kind should be doing energy cleanse meditations on a regular basis, if not daily. They should also forgive everyone who has taken advantage of them that day, and even do karmic releases on those people.

The higher they can keep their energy, the better for them in the long term."

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I fall in love with a young massage girl. Ended up realising it is all about money and who can pay more. So much gfe but it is all fake. Worst, I realise she is also fucking with other customer and had ultimately became a whore for the rich.

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Ummm.... out of curiousity and no offence but what were you expecting otherwise?

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WEAwYdBlDwk i would like to share a link for those who understand mandarin. it is about how the women in this game are thinking. myself also fall for an FL, i knew i cannot afford it, so just force myself to stop seeing her

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No self-respecting girl would sell herself to any man with enough in his pocket for an hour. And few of these girls had any decent men in their lives to teach them that self-respect. Sure, their lives were difficult and painful. But that's just an excuse, right? There are plenty of girls slaving away at menial jobs for shit salary that still won't open their legs to just any man that offers a significant sum of cash and would be offended at the proposition.

If you respect yourself, you'll do well to spend your hard-earned money and your precious time on yourself or the people who genuinely love and care about you.

It's possible to get together with a girl with a past like this because people change after all...but probably not if you initially met her as a customer.

True love and friendship is built on mutual respect. If you don't respect her or she doesn't respect you, it's over.

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They are in it for the quick money.
As long as they need the monies for whatever reason eg pay debt, support old age parents, support kids abandoned by husband ect2 , they cannot stop the trade.
However there is a chance if she is towards the end of her career as FL, meaning she has earned enough and need to retire anyway because she is no longer able to attract as many clients and her pricing is getting lower due to age.
So if the lady is in her forties but still attractive, children reaching adulthood and she is no longer in debt, there is a possibility she wants to retire and start a normal life with you.
So unless you are in your forties and above, the chances of successful relationship with FL is almost zero.
The younger they are, the less the chances of being happily married to one

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threes chances of it

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For anyone considering anything long term, please get out of it while you can. there are plenty of trees in the forest which you can absolutely settle with instead of a FL or ML which will end up being a rollercoaster ride. 99% of the time

Damn true. THE 1% literally dont exist