I fucked up - falling for a "sugar babe"
 

It has been an emotional roller-coaster ride for me these few months ago.
I got close to her.
We communicated via Facebook messenger (she using her fake profile while I stupidly used my real one).
She tried to keep her real identity secret but I found her all her information but I pretended I didn't know.
She was 8 years younger than me and I was infatuated by her.
We would meet up for dinner and go out to shopping malls etc.
Sex was good but limited to about once a week. (She had a real life boyfriend).
But stupid me gave her money as a token for the sex and I begin spoiling her with gifts etc.
I basically became her sugar-daddy.
There was a time when she broke up with her boyfriend and basically spent everyday with me. Then it started becoming hot and cold. (Don't know if she went back to her ex or got a new guy as I found her uploading pictures in a BMW dressing nicely, with gifts etc.)
I knew I was the rebound comfort and I got a bit emotionally attached to her.

Bros here would likely give me a good talking to, but have any of you guys fell for your sugar babes before?
I have been really careful all my life to not fall for such, and laughing at people when they do. Now as it became my turn, i realized it really is a brain wrecking feeling.
Have a good day all.
Zarniz

Re: I fucked up - falling for a "sugar babe"
 

Do you RAW when sex with her?

Re: I fucked up - falling for a "sugar babe"
 

When you pay her and pamper her, she break up with her bf. If the BMW is true and exist, then the question is “do you have a fararri ?”

If she kept her identity away from you, then it only mean there is no sincerity, so what have we to say. Emotion is common between people of opposite sex coming together especially when the sex bid is good.

If you want to survive in such environment then there is a chinese saying in your situation “if you want to go, I will not stop you”, “你要走，我不留”. you can always find better girl everywhere.

Re: I fucked up - falling for a "sugar babe"
 

7 pts for u.

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If you can afford the lifestyle having a sugar baby. Means you can always find another one.

What's there to worry about? Unless your gift are chocolates and candies :o

Re: I fucked up - falling for a "sugar babe"
 

relationship that involve money will not last, come back to reality. you can't change the whore in her.

Re: I fucked up - falling for a "sugar babe"
 

A relationship based on material provision is a transaction. The female party of this transaction is commonly known as whore.

Please refer to the SBF motto of dealing with whores.

You are not falling in love with her. You are just infatuated by her. This can be cured with the following prescription.

1. Go to www.jetstar.com
2. Book a flight to Jakarta
3. Go to classic, club tipsy, club colosseum
4. You will forget about her very soon.

Re: I fucked up - falling for a "sugar babe"
 

Much as they would like to say otherwise sugar babies are just a synonym for overpriced hooker. The same amount you pay to a sugar baby can net u >10 times more ROI with a regular hooker. Look deep into their lies/wiles and you will realise that they are rarely exclusive nor do they offer real feelings in return or are the real highly educated classy babe. Do a bit of checking and you’ll see with much clarity. Focus on those who really love you for what you are & give your love n $ to those more deserving.

Re: I fucked up - falling for a "sugar babe"
 

Willing buyer willing seller, Caveat emptor

Re: I fucked up - falling for a "sugar babe"
 

sounds like its worse than falling in love with a prostitute

Re: I fucked up - falling for a "sugar babe"
 

Return you +5 bro.:cool:

Re: I fucked up - falling for a "sugar babe"
 

4 pts for u :)

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I had been meaning to reply to this for a while, and I have been there. I think my post history from about 7 years back will shed some light.

Unfortunately I have a lot on my mind right now, so all I can say is that when something like this happens, it’s often more a reflection of the rut we find our lives in.

That our happiness has become intertwined, or worse dependent upon somebody else’s feelings for us when the fact is what is needed is for us to break out of that rut.

Address the feelings of emptiness or unhappiness that drove us into the arms of somebody professional ‘trained’ to appeal to our manly instincts (or lack of rather).

Think about what is really troubling you in your life, whether it’s your wife, career or something else, and address that.

Remember that most instances of ‘falling’ for a commercial sex worker are usually nothing more than us taking the easy way out of addressing the real troubles we face.

Re: I fucked up - falling for a "sugar babe"
 

If it starts with sex for money, chances are that it won't turn out well. Its a matter of who can pay more. I won't debate if there are successful cases but money talks, almost all the time. Any girl will just need to experience the luxuries and pampering once to decide. If they decide to go down that road, there is no looking back, the road to materialism will be endless. Take care.

Re: I fucked up - falling for a "sugar babe"
 

Average per fk $130x3500 can buy a 4room flat liao