My virgin experience, and some advice?!
 

Hey guys, my first post hahah, I'm 19 and honestly I didn't come to sammyboy to find escorts or what not, but recently I had 'sex' for the first time with my virgin gf and it was horrible. My dick when in her like 1/2, cannot go further, the bloody condom I bought ''Durex Tight Fit'' knn cannot even wear, too tight. I definitely blame my inexperience because I don't think my dick is big, its only ard 13cm. But I imagined my first time to be perfect... Unfortunately full penetration wasn't even possible and we just did our normal petting to end it.
Actually I also have a question, my gf is quite traditional even though she clubs etc but she has never cummed before(She doesn't masturbate).. When we pet I always cum but she doesn't. She moans super loudly when I finger her but it's like she can't orgasm? How do you guys make a girl cum? I heard got such thing as clitoris and G-spot?
Lastly I apologise for the crappy story and hope you guys can give me some advice, thanks to all!! -Curious and Confused

Re: My virgin experience, and some advice?!
 

remember every woman is different and an island for your to conquer.

your gf is probably tensed, hence that explains why full penetration was not achievable in your case.

For a woman to cum, her mind must be ready for it. She must be turned on, and she must be willing to let go of her inhibitions. Most of us are not golden finger masters, hence its really up to herself. Slowly work on this with her.

Re: My virgin experience, and some advice?!
 

Dont worry bro, my first time was worst than your. Barely went in for a min and I came. Oh well.

My gf doesnt cum either, its in her mind like bro freezetheDB says.

Re: My virgin experience, and some advice?!
 

For the first time do it natural without any rubber. Choose a date when she is safe to unload inside.

Start off with a small bottle of olive oil and using it to lubricate her sensitive areas as well as your knob to give you a nice hard on.

With your knob nice and oiled, proceed to mount her in slowly inch at a time until you hit her cherry where you need to give a fast push to pop it and be full in her.

Once full in, pump consistently, shallow first than, push all the way in. Increase speed and intensity by giving her your inches until you reach your hilt. Once you ca do this, you can start to proceed to bang her hard, pull out to the tip and ram it in her until she reaches her orgasm.

For the first time, give her the chance to moan, and reach her orgasm first before you give a final push and finish everything deep inside her pumping till the last drop.

Don't forget to give her a nice kiss on her forehead and hug her well after you are done.

Rest well for the next 2 hours and go for 3nd and 3rd rounds until you are really bone dry empty. That's the spirit for the first time.

Do take care of her as she may fine it a bit difficult to walk or may walk sexily for the next day of two while the effect of her womanhood!

Re: My virgin experience, and some advice?!
 

Do majority of the virgin bleed?
How much is the bleeding range you bros have encounter?

My gf told me she is a virgin but I manage to go in straight in one attempt... Only saw maybe like 2 drop of blood on my little bro at the end...

Re: My virgin experience, and some advice?!
 

my gf also moans while i finger her but didnt climax no matter how i finger.. any advice?

Get her to lie down flat on her back. Make sure your nails are short.

Get a bottle of olive or coconut oil and use it as lubricant while you do the exploring externally and internally with your middle finger.

Girls tend to get excited if they can feel the warmth and friction inside her deep. Using your middle finger, finger her in and out with variable intensity until you can feel her cervix and gspot.

She will come to the max within 5 mins.

Once she has recovered, don't stop proceed on with your knob to give her a good one