How to get him to do more
 

Hi! This is going to be my 1st thread here. I'm 32 malay and married. No kids. I have my fun outside without hb knowing. Went out with a 46yo chinese guy. We hug n cuddle while watching movie at the cinema. But other than that he doesn't kiss me and hold my hand. How do i get him to do more? I don't want to be the more forward one as i like to be controlled and see the guy take the situation. I foresee if he doesn't do more he will be friendzoned as i do enjoy his company and talking to him. He also needs a companion as he was divorced last year and want someone to talk to. Help a sister out. Thank you in advance!

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You need to plant ideas inside of his head. Talk about sex stuff with him, but don't go full-out and ask him for it. Usually men are quite capable of taking charge of a sexually charged situation once the first spark catches hold. Do stuff like dress up in a sexually provocative manner, use innuendos more in your conversations, and gauge him accordingly. If he's got sexual motives with you he'll pick up on all these clues and act on them. If he doesn't then there's no way you can do anything to get him to make a move on you and you'd be better off looking for someone else.

Hi Master.

Anyway if you dress sexi-ly and he doesn't reciprocate. You still attract others man attention. Win win :o

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agree agree agree

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Correct. Sometimes when a man doesn't make a move on you, it could be as simple as "he never had the intentions of sleeping with you in the first place, so he wouldn't be the one driving it!".

Aiyoh I'm not the master here. Just speaking from experience.

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May he likes to see you be seduced and make out with another man?
I can help you explore this option.

PM for details
Cheers:cool:

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Thanks all for the advice and those who pm-ed me. Just went back after 3rd date with him. Still nothing. So will see how it goes

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3rd date still nothing? He deserve to be friendzoned :rolleyes:
For me on 1st dates already try to score :o

Not to worry, many bros here willing to take control.
U just say the word, PM box flooded :p have fun! ;)

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Are u one of the bro who will flood TS pm???:D

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Pls refer to my this post ;):p

https://sammyboyforum.info/showpost....8&postcount=16

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Sis, I am suggesting why not you, get him to tell you his ultimate fantasy and then act it out. Remember to keep an open mind and just go with it. The fact that you might willing to make all his sexual dreams come true will give you serious girlfriend brownie points. Anyway, there is nothing wrong having an intimate evening or more sexy messages:)

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maybe snap a photo and share here ...
we can advice the attire is enticing enough ?

Lol. Fat chance

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ts take it slowly ... with half romance hale seduce ... you sure can succeed :D

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What is hale seduce???:confused:

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Bored. Anyone care to chat? Pm me for wechat

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Babe just wondering what happened with that dude? So was he just not interested? But how is it that he can go on 3 dates and still nothing? Men... :( :(

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PM-ed you (:

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I confronted him about it instead of being frustrated. He says he's very much interested but just taking things slow. Aiya dont know la shy maybe

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ur dating the wrong guy! open ur availability here n prepare to get plenty of fruitful dates :D

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I'm looking for quality. Not quantity. Anyone can get away with a quick fuck.

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Start a topic by saying you and husband has not been doing it for awhile now

ask how was his sex life previously with ex, especially prior to divorce

Then shift the topic to how is he settling his sexual needs now

If he still don’t get the drift, he is probably too timid to touch Married women, maybe he was cheated on and don’t want to cheat on someone else wife, subconsciously he wants it, all men wants it

But the guilt might be holding him back

Hope this works for you, good luck sister

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Is he bro CW, sure sounds like him :p

Can go slow but if taking too long, next better player ;) have fun :D

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Wonder how bro CW looks like? Always asking other's pics? :D

I think if he kena friendzoned also he won't realise it :rolleyes:

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Did you make it clear to him that what you want is sex? It seems like he is in either the zone of where he wants it to slowly build up, or he is satisfied with the hugs, cuddles (he just to feel good).

I think it is important to start spelling out the conditions of the relationship since you both know that you are married and it constitutes to a cheating relationship.

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how do you justify quality when you haven't given any chance to the quantity? :cool:

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Maybe you make him feel more dominate like when he auto-hug you can caress his wee-wee( at least seduce a little bit la ) said something like you bird bird hard liao you want some some or kiss him everywhere especially the nehneh area.... If he still can hold it, just buy some beer or something that can hype you and him mood up before anything can happen... Sometime mature men their "manly" works it other wonders...



If it still doesn't works, maybe take him to doctor.. perhaps he got "dys_________" you know:o

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Maybe his hobby is to collect pics :eek::p

How the going, got action already? ;) enjoy :D

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Sekali he know ur Lao gong lol... :D :D :D

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No, he doesn't.

Lol! Not yet. But we had a talk about it he explained he isn't into PDA. Just some miscommunication cos i thought he wasn't interested