[Karlman]

It’s cool if you just need a place to rant. After all this is a forum. However I believe alot of the people here just want to help, out of goodwill and in good conscious. Nobody’s judging you. To question a person’s intention to help is in fact an insult do you even think about that. You can also reject politely.

In mandarin there is a saying. "别把好心当作驴肝肺.”

Let that sink in.