[casannova03]

Well. well well!! what i have missed out these few days? Haha seems like quite a bit....i will try to address as many points that were discussed as possible.....some my opinion and some general hearsay..

1.) relationship with a working girl.

well, most of these gals are here to make money and that is their top priority. Most of them will put relationship aside but instead be seemingly involved in a relationship in order to sponge money (this is the general sentiment).

I think that this is a very general stereotype by many people and many man who maybe are having sour grapes. Vietnamese gals are not as scheming as some gals from Ch... True, they may be here for the money but i have heard from many that they come to work with the hope of finding someone they can spend together with for life. Most of them are trying to kill two birds with one stone. Cos if they go through agency need fees. So true love can be and have occured many a times amongst these working ladies and our singaporean bros. I have known a few that are going strong and have been together for at least 5 yrs and above.

2.) True Love?

As one bro here was pondering if his gf really loves him, all i can say , like what bro singviet had mentioned is that time will tell. Do not be too quick to make a judgement especially when you do not know each other well enough. Spend more time with her and find out what kind of a person she relly is.
But i would like to think that most gals are in fact savers of money than spenders.(P.S Bro Singviet what say you on this??) Anyway, here i end with my fav. quote for this paragraph: Love Does not Measures; It just Gives!

3.) Loyal??

Yes!! Absolutely!! Once a Vietnamese gal alls for you, boy you are the luckiest man on earth. to avoid sounding stereotypical, i would say that the Majority of them are very loyal. I have seen many gals who stopped working completely or have made many sacrifices just so that they can be with the man they love. And Yes, they do expect undivided loyalty from their other half cos they will feel damn hurt if they found out their partners cheating!!! its a crime punishable by Death!! haha no la but u see my point right?

One think i found quite common amongst vietnamese girls is that they tend to keep damn quiet and ignore when they are angry with you. well, i dunno but it seems that they expect you to be able to figure out why they are angry and so make apologies to them. This is one thing that i have been trying to change in my wife cos sometimes i REALLY dunno what i have done and she will keep quiet even whwn i keep asking her. hmmmm anyone bros face similar situation when ur other half is angry with you???