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Originally Posted by a2014
@fmylife, what is your term as 小三 represent in the first place.
1. Did you give her allowance or anything on regular basis ?
2. You claim you lend her money so what amount are you talking about, do you know dealing with such people, lending money you must well say give her or help her. Don't expect her to repay you.
3. You are being serviced by her day in day out so you would have already make a good deal out of it.
4. You don't have a legal binding contract between you her claiming your relationship so what are you talking about.
5. You do know she has a legal paper with someone else so why are you still claiming it's yours and you are not happy she is providing outsourcing service other than taking a freelance contract from you.
All just because you have give her some money and you feel you have the right to control every single move of her ???
Sorry Bro @fmylife I can see why you are angry, when I was young like you I am angry also, but I guess this is life, you must have not getting something at home so you outsource.
You should know outsourcing means you buy temporary solution. You should know your limit. Maybe it's good to talk among both of you to sort things out. Just don't blow your top in such discussion. Let her review be it true story or not, that is not important. Just to put your stand that you are aware of what is happening and not blind.
I give you one example, assuming you are at her place then someone call and she rejected the conversation a few time then finally she accept the request and said someone is outside wanting to go dinner with her, so how she now ask for your opinion but since she already voice out means likely die die must go so what you going to do ??? gentleman or devil, you choose.
I got a lot of example, handling 小三 indeed not easy, you need a have a big heart, making triple sure you don't screw up you own marriage because of 小三.
Important thing is what you want from your 小三, did you have over paid or you have not paid enough. Make sure you have saving and not mess up your life.
Deal with 小三, have to have the mindset 你要走我不留 kind of mentality. Don't bang your own head against the wall and play trick which eventually kills everyone on sight.
Take Care Bro @fmylife
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Agree. Especially xiao sans who are working in the vice trade.
Dont let a xiao san screw up your life, not worth it.
Just find a new player and be ready to cut off this one anytime.
As for the money lent to her, be prepared for $0 to be returned. U should try to recover some, but its not going to be easy.