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Old 12-06-2018, 03:49 PM
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Re: An experience to share - my marriage and my outside girl

thank you for sharing your story. Gives me perspective on why the spouse cheats yet refusing to let go of the marriage after being found out. I realised many (if not all) of failing marriages results when one or both parties stopped putting in the effort like they used to, and just watch the relationship deteriorates. The excitement is no longer like the dating days, now that kids come into the picture.

I really really like your quote >> spend your time on those who love you unconditionally. Don’t waste it on those who only love you when the conditions are right for them.

Happy that you managed to salvage your marriage with your wife who stood by you no matter what.