It has been a crazy October. Lots have happened and changed in my marriage. Specifically our sex life. Not really a good writer, but i've decided to write about my crazy October as a form of memory for my wife and I.
A brief background about my wife and I. She is 35 (Belle) and I'm 34 (James). We've been married for 10 odd years and already have kids. Nothing special about us. Just normal married Singaporeans with Mom figure and Dad bod.
Growing up, my wife had only 1 sex partner - her ex bf Ray. While I had multiple experiences with FLs and picking up girls at the clubs. I was always the one with more sex drive and the one that requested for "new experiences". She on the other hand was more passive, but once in a while, she'll accede to my requests, just to satisfy me. Dating days were fun. We had sex in the car, movie theatre, hotels, swimming pool, public toilet and the list goes on...but after we got married, things just slowed down. She just thought that taking care of the family is more important than giving in to things she did not feel comfortable doing. I only found out after we got married that she did not like doing those things when we were dating. Hence, our sex life slowly became dull.
Maybe I've surfed too much sex forums and watched too much porn. My greatest fantasy was to see my wife getting fucked by another man, while stuffing my cock in her mouth at the same time. This topic has been brought up for the past 10 years, and as time went by, my wife got more and more annoyed that I just couldn't stop talking about it, even though she said she will not do it.
Things took a turn on 14 Oct 22...
I was out with my buddies for a gathering in the evening, while my wife was alone at home. My in laws took the kids for the stayover the weekend. i texted Belle on and off during the gathering. Perhaps it was the alcohol talking, but i decided to ask Belle about having a threesome that night..
[I]Me: babe, there are so many hot men and women here in Clarke Quay. IF i manage to find a guy to fuck you tonight, shall we do it?
Belle: WTF! i've already told you so many times! stop talking about this! it is annoying!!!
Me: ok....
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Me: honestly, when I saw the video, I was confused. When I heard it was Ray, I was angry..but at the same time, I was turned on..hearing how you moaned, I'm having a hard on now..
Belle leaned over and whispered into my ears "if you're hard, then let me help you..I still want your dick because it belongs to me.." we had the best make up sex that evening.
At the end of the session, we had another talk about what's going to happen next. and surprisingly, Belle said she wanted to explore fucking other guys...it was like Christmas came early for me..we set out some ground rules, so that we are aware of the bottomline..
1) Condoms are must have with strangers.
2) Belle can fuck any guy she wants, with or without me. but I must be aware of the session. and she must share with me what happened.
3) Open communication must be established and be honest about everything.
4) Codeword "Candy" will be used to terminate all activities if there is any discomfort.
and so with this, my October has been crazy and life changing. In a span of almost 2 weeks, Belle went from having only fucked 2 guys in her life to going out to fuck every day. And I went from have sex once-twice a month to fucking Belle every single day after she finished fucking outside. My kids have been asking why mummy OT everyday??
If time permits, I will update with Belle's sexual encounters and how things develop for us in the future. Thanks for taking the time to read about this life changing October for me.
ps: Ray came inside Belle, and we're still hoping she does not get pregant..