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Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior
Revive my thread on FB, Little 3s.
ended a long term relationship with an Ex- FL
just couldn't take her broken personality. I think the work breaks them in ways we cannot imagine
Just imagine, sucking, fucking strange men daily, for years. It makes people change.
I tried to make her normal, but somehow she was too broken to fix.
When I met her she was branded from head to toe, took drugs, gambled heavily, was working as a FL, Social escort etc...
When she quit, thought she was normal, but somehow even years of normal therapy is not enough, she is still broken in many ways, values, morals, ways of looking at the world
Girls that do this trade, have something in them that tells them its okay to do so, and when they leave, they leave scarred. Of course its my personal opinion having dated a ex FL for a long time.
If there is one advice I can offer bros, just do the sex, not the feelings and emotions. Although it's hard because we feel great that we don't have to pay for the sex once we become a couple, we pay in other ways. The price might be too big for some.
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I'm also in a long-term relationship with an ex-KTV girl/FL. She did the KTV/FL circuit for 2 years, then met me and we slowly transitioned into a more normal existence. I has been 5 years now and thankfully things are getting better each year. She has gone back to Vietnam, started a new life. We meet every month to keep the relationship alive, and we talk every day just to share what we are doing with our lives.
Obviously I have had my fair share of misses - girls who either cannot think of another way to make a living, those who are simply addicted to the lifestyle (and the money) and some really sad ones who have parents with a gambling problem that virtually condemn them to a lifetime in nightlife.
Perhaps the one factor for success, is simply the girl's own desire to have a life outside of KTV. A normal existence, subsisting on a normal pay and living a normal lifestyle. Not many can make the switch, because selling their pussies for money become so normalized.
I am extremely lucky, that my girl never wanted a long-term career in nightlife. She likes her boring life, and she has cut off virtually all ties to nightlife. She still meets up with her old friends from KTV, obviously, but she tells me that nowadays they have little in common to talk about.
Have done my fair share of "making a girl normal again" - spent upwards of a few hundred K in the process. In the end, the success factor has less to do with the money I was willing to spend, and more on the girl's inherent view of what she really wants for herself.