Thread: Self-justification
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Old 10-01-2019, 10:25 AM
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Re: Self-justification
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Originally Posted by nanakochang75 View Post
She did calm down on the on start of medication but she blamed the drugs for her weight gain and started to take them on irregular basis. Now the medication has ran out but she is not keen to go back to the psychiatrist and the problem comes back that we can start a bug quarrel over super trivial matters. Damn shag thinking about it...
I don’t think there’s anything else to add really. You can choose to put up with it, and seek sexual relief elsewhere.

But you really really need to think about how this is affecting your son because you owe that to him.

If you think it’s bad enough that it affects his mental state, and the signs aren’t always easily obvious, then you cannot let the situation persist. Nothing fucks a child up more than a atraumatic childhood.

If you compel her and yet she will not change, and you decide that it is better for you and your child to be free of her, start making the necessary preparations.

It’s not just about sex, it’s about your son.