[MiningXpert]

Would like to share that I have a different take of dominance to OP when it comes to sex (respectfully). As the man of the family I always make my dominance felt, albeit not in any unpleasant 'mcp' way. I just instinctively do it because I shoulder the responsibility of my family and I feel somehow compelled to remind her subtly who's overall in charge. We're happily married with children and still very sexually active.

I seldom get rough with her during the deed as I couldn't bring myself to "hurt" my wife, so choking and hair pulling aren't always common. But I was dominant in a sense she obeys and follows what I ask her to do during the process, and she enjoys it and accomodates most of the time but there are times she shared that she didn't like certain things so I didn't persist. Communication is very important, if you get a somewhat feminist gf you'd likely land yourself a different role during sex. But if your partner is open, role plays can be fun.