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Old 15-04-2018, 06:19 PM
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Re: Cheating Spouse - To forgive or not?

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Originally Posted by JieJieJiaoWo View Post
so fierce, but i think you are right.

if he is easily forgiven, he will think that he will be easily forgiven again the next time his sperm rush to his brain. of course it wont be a one time thing. as many male has said, every day eat chicken someday also want to eat pork.

if you love him so much, the best you can do to help him keep eating chicken everyday is to cook the chicken in different ways. of course it isnt fair to push the responsibility of making the chicken onto you alone. discuss how you guys like the chicken and experiment with different ways of making the chicken will help spice up your meals.

another way is to do pot luck with other couples.

chinese got a saying 一次不忠,百次不容, the first time, will decide their next hundred times.

a question to think about, if you were the one who cheated, will he forgive you?
when I thrashed out with him, he did said if tables turned around and I am the one, he will not hesitate to divorce right away without any ding dong, given his characters.