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Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior
Well long story so here's the brief
I am in a sexless marriage so years back I feel so rejected I started with a Wl/FL and she became my gf and wl
and the 7th year affair ended today
just got tired of hiding, lying and feeling guilty
tired of the abuse, and the unevenness of the treatment.
funny thing is years ago couldn't walk away, somehow over the years I started to fade too.
today is a new beginning.
wouldn't want to have a affair again, heavy price to pay. almost left my family for someone like this.
that would have been the worse price to pay.
Funny joke is I cheated on my wife to start with the FB but we ended with her cheating on me. Irony of life...
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Bro, you are not alone. I had (still having) similar fate like you:
married for 20 years
sex was boring, no spice, no passion, nothing to look forward
no oral sex from her, just little foreplay and then missionary
tried spice her with sex toy, porn, massage, talk dirty. Nothing works. She just not interested
touch her breast, she will cover and turn away
do kinky stuff on her she will not play along and walk away
outside brush her breast or touch her to spice up the mood, she will give me the "killer" stare
always got communication problem
she sees every small issue BIG whether with me, kids or my parents
moods swing most of the time
So......
had affair for 10 years and ended recently but we still keep in touch
sex was heavenly, hotel, parks, carparks, beach, cruise, club, toilet... u name it, we did it. Even after so many years, we were alwasy on fire when we see each other.
if we meet 7 days a week, we will have sex 7 times even during her periods
ended becos she wanted more of my time, gets very jealous (and will quarrel) when she knows i go out with wife
didn't want to hurt my family, especially the kids
miss her alot and still love her alot... but am not willing to pay the price at my family expense