Hello there Alenia,
My name is Ben, just came across your thread and would like to have the chance to "apply" too? Tried to PM, but seems your inbox has been "flooded" and yet to be freed up. :P
I'm also local chinese, 38 yrs of age and single. Working as an Assistant Engineer and sometimes work can get really busy as well. I believe we can both relate to this on a very personal aspect and hopefully this will help us clique better together.
Do you have any other places where we can converse easily other than here? If you would like to wait till you feel more comfortable i'll respect your wishes and we can begin by conversing here 1st.
I look forward to hearing from you someday soon.
Cheers
