Re: Cheating Spouse - To forgive or not?
I am sorry you are in pain. Be brave sis. For your child. You are doing fine. See, he came crawling back. He is just using the baby as a reason to persuade you. It is a good thing.
Go talk to him about your fears. Talk to him about the thoughts that haunt you. The visions of him and that slut together.
Reconcile. This is a pull.
Few days later, do a push. Go "cranky" again. He needs to see you hurt. He needs to see how much he has hurt you. See you pushed to the point of insanity. For him to realize what he has done.
(Sis, women are born jealous creatures. I do not know how you are still so calm to type here. You got to let it all out. At him. And when with him.)
Continue your push and pull cycles. Rem to include the lawyer part at some point (jmho).
Push and pull for how long? Only you will know. Months? Years? Take your time to heal.
Believe in yourself. Look to your child for inspiration.
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