Dear Brothers,

I have a flip situation for you guys to consider.

What if wife has become out of shape, put on weight & no longer appeals to you ?

Yes, there is still 'kum cheng'/love, but subject is just not sexually attractive any more.

Yet she wants to 'it' & probably even more gian as years go by?

Then how?

Tell her you no longer turn me on?
Then die die, one have to imagine something exotic while doing it, all in all, a very counter-productive experience that leaves each party worse off.

I am some husbands are in this situation.

Then how ?

At least, this sexless marriage thread situation easier to handle, wife not interested - then no pressure what - just pcc or eat outside.

Easier to handle then the other scenerio I ust describe right ?