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Originally Posted by nuclearkid
If she isn't fulfilling your needs, like your emotional and intellectual needs, it's probably a matter of time before you get tired of her anyway. Scenario two is like a dog chasing its own tail.
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lol a sex desire isn't a need and its more of a want. Just that most of the time we treat all of our 'want' as a 'need' instead because it give us the excuse that it is more of a 'want' since having sex sure give you a very good feeling (go read more on the psychology about how our brain function).
If you are really in love you wouldn't mind your life partner not giving you what you want because you will give and take, and not dump or get tired just because she don't give you want you need. Our society has become such a mass is because of people just want to satisfy their own needs instead of trying to understand and change yourself to make things better for both of you. So it's very common where couple broke up just because of many stupid reasons.
So in summary is if you really have a sex desire which you cannot control just find a FB or FL to satisfy your need rather than getting into a relationship and hoping the other party will satisfy your need and break up if you didn't get it. Love don't revolve around sex and i had a few friends who been together for 7 - 9 years and they only had their first time after marriage. It's the perspective on how you look things that matter the most, like how girls think make up is important since it make you look prettier but some girls don't because it is very fake and temporary.