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Old 16-04-2018, 12:45 PM
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Re: Fetish/Role Play/BDSM in HC

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Originally Posted by onsenmaster View Post
Unfortunately for me I think the local scene is still mediocre and filled with wannabe mistresses who don’t know much about their craft at all.

I’m amazed that many of these mistresses do not allow slaves to touch them, and it’s not regarding touching of their intimate regions but in general, legs etc. I’m not sure if this is the norm in the USA or Europe because I don’t session in that part of the world but in many other countries in Asia, touching is definitely ok and to me, that’s an essential part of the experience when it comes to tease and denial sessions.

Maybe it’s just me, but I have been left disappointed after sessioning with several of the local dommes, especially after reading the positive reviews in here.

The above is just my opinion but I’m extremely fussy in my tastes and session requirements and no one in the local scene has been able to provide a gratifying session since the days of old (running back the clock 3-4 years)

Looks like I’m still better off sessioning overseas

On the other hand, I had several positive experiences with Yui, in fact she is the only one I will return to

I want to give the local scene a chance instead of spending on airfares to session overseas. I hope my impression and experience changes in due time
Now this would qualify as a sweeping statement.

I would be inclined to disagree with you about your stance on touching. To me, touching in a pro domme session is not essential and it would be disingenuous for a sub to demand for it in such a context given that the essence of a pro domme session is the power play and the sub's subjugation to the Mistress.

In my opinion, it would be unfair to say that the quality of local mistresses is not up to par simply because a number of them don't allow subs to touch them. Some are able to perform a wide range of activities and utilise their skills in various areas to allow you to experience physical and mental euphoria, without needing to allow you to touch them.

Instead, if some level of touching of non-vital parts of the domme is your preference, I would suggest that this be communicated to the domme beforehand, so that parties can ascertain whether such a session would be comfortable and enjoyable to both, and avoid any misunderstanding or unhappiness.

My two cents.