Having trouble cumming when doing with GF

[dman19]

Originally Posted by Laker

When I met my ex gf, I also had the same problem. Can erect cannot cum. In the end sweat and arms tired from the position.

I attributed to 2 things:
1. Too much porn and pcc. Porn changed my expectation. Pcc will make my body get used to the grip and I sometimes need mipple stimulation.

2. Too little sleep. When I was with my ex, it was actually on official business so we were not supposed to be hanging out together during event hours. Had to find time during the wee hours of the event to do it. That was when it was exciting but at the same time tiring after a few consecutive weeks of 6 hour sleeps.

Eventually my gf felt like a failure that she could not make me happy as I didn't cum. It is true for women that seeing the man cum from having sex with her makes her happy. Just like how men want to make sure the woman cumms when fingering/giving cunninglus.

That’s exactly right. Sleep is important to for many areas of our rejuvenation.

[bomberman18]

Originally Posted by dman19

That’s exactly right. Sleep is important to for many areas of our rejuvenation.

sufficient rest very important. i realised when some times i can sometimes i cannot, then i only do it when i got sufficient rest and it improved alot