Going ML when baby is 2 months old ok?

[soccerfreak]

Hey, just want some advice. My wife just delivered 2 mths back. Havent had sex since 3 mths before she delivered. Our sex life isnt say very active to begin with. Around like once every fortnight. I usually go ML to settle if I can find time.

But now that I have baby, I am trying to fight the temptation to go. It has helped that I rush home immediately after work and weekends I am taking care of baby. My wife is still not ready, or also doesnt have the mood or time for sex. I live in a tiny house with a new maid as well. So it is quite hard to find time. Whats more I also cant find a slot to hj at home (sometimes I do it in office toilet), plus doing it urself is just different feel.

I found out recently that a ML I rtm (i have never rtm before), is now back in Spore!! This made me even more gian!! Can you lao jiaos advice how I can curb it? I have been trying to find all the reasons to justify I can go...even thouh deep inside I know its wrong...

[muthu_curry]

If u feel wrong just pcc and chant scriptures

[Greendevil]

TS simple, spent every spare cash u have on baby powder.diaper and putting into your baby new baby bonus account. and that a pretty good deal since every dollar you put, government matches it. so no money, no need to think going massage liao lor

[archer69]

Originally Posted by Greendevil

TS simple, spent every spare cash u have on baby powder.diaper and putting into your baby new baby bonus account. and that a pretty good deal since every dollar you put, government matches it. so no money, no need to think going massage liao lor

That's right! Start saving for your baby.

[red-perrier]

depends on your spending power when it comes to anything out of the ordinary.

1. if u want to uphold your fidelity to your spouse, have a proper discussion with her, or if u find it awkward to verbalize it, then write to her. if she understands, she will try within means to accommodate.

2. if u want to uphold your integrity to your family, put the $ into a milo tin can, go to the toilet, listen to taylor swift, and 'shake it off'

3. u dont want distractions in your life, u indulge your time & energy to building another income stream, for better & more meaningful future for your kid... after all, inflation is a bitch