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friends change after my life after behind bars, any advice is much appreciated
I have a senior account here previously.
However after considerable time behind bars, I am out again. Everything goes back to square one. No money no nothing so I went to look for jobs but was rejected multiple of times (at least 20 times) due to my history and my academics. So I was thinking of returning to the past (I was a web administrator) however I do not have the funds to set up one. I consulted an old friend of mine asking him for $8000. What is unbelievable is that he asked for 75% of the potential revenue (about 90k to 150k a year). I was stunned as I felt exploited. How can people change that quickly? In the past, I treated him drinks and helped him out when he has no one. His terms is that he will fork out $8000. Principal has to be paid back to him once business picks up. 75% of the profit goes to him. I will be entirely be in charge of the business. However if shit hits the ceiling, I have to shoulder it. I am sure many brothers think that $8000 is little but I doubt I have the capability to get it since I have been kicked out by my family and many friends have avoided me after my times behind bars. |
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Re: friends change after my life after behind bars, any advice is much appreciated
When u treat people to food/drinks and help them out. You should not be expecting anything in returen in the very first place. To have expectations such as this will leave u with a lot of disappointment in life.
If u dun think that borrowing money from ur friend is feasible. Simply go find other jobs like becoming a cleaner, security guard...etc. Then slowly works on saving up the $8000 u need. End of the day, no one owe u a living. U land urself in jail coz of choices u make. Whatever repercussion u get as a result of jail time u will just have to accept it.
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sorry to hear this . 8k is not big not small .... jus ur credibility in question. in singapore i am sure you are able to save 8k with some discipline. if u hav skill in IT .... then i m sure some form of freelance work might be good to test ur skill and gauge market demands .... good luck and update us ur progress bro .... dont give up .
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i can offer you 10k . please pm me to discuss |
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Re: friends change after my life after behind bars, any advice is much appreciated
TS, why dun you speak with your aftercare officer / counsellor?
From what I know the YellowRibbon project has sponsors on standby to lend a helping hand to ex-offenders that genuinely want to start a fresh life...... unless you are thinking of going back to illegal activities again. |
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I am currently staying at a friend's place which is government subsidized. |
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Re: friends change after my life after behind bars, any advice is much appreciated
@luke1 you said you are being a web administrator, and you want to setup something of your own due to difficult to land a job for some know reason.
I guess YES, your past may have hinder you in the first instant. Next is the what are the special skill you has that the current trend in the market require your skill especially in the IT industry that things changes every few months, technology, skill knowledge and know how keep changing. Next is whether are you keen in trying new trade. Well not money investment, but rather use your hand and legs to earn a living. Take Care. |
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Re: friends change after my life after behind bars, any advice is much appreciated
I know many will "shoot" me on the face but I am just here to rant. Everyone got their own way of doing things. Be it perception on a certain issue or maybe I just take it. Anyway a update, I maybe leaving for overseas with a friend. He may have some opportunity for me. Still contemplating over it.
I thank everyone for the input. |
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Honestly, if i were you, ill just take it. When you are SO DAMN GOOD, you can call it quits after you pay off, take the money you earned AND saved, and start your own business by yourself, doing web admin or whatever is beneficial for you. Reward comes to those who doesnt give up and try out things the right way(not the stubborn way) |
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bro you know 25% more can cost about 2-5k a month. Sigh |
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Re: friends change after my life after behind bars, any advice is much appreciated
Brother egresnow is right. Another option is to find an investor here who is willing to invest on you. You can try posting on other thread. If you do not mind revealing how much will you be generating once the site is stable over this post, if the return is good. I am sure many brothers will want to pump in 8k just for that.
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It's good to see some brothers willing to step up to the plate to help. There's hope in this world after all
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