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Well, in Singapore bills come to us every month. So we got to be realistic. Worse still, if he continues to be slothful, he may become a 吃软饭的(sponger). I am not saying that he may be hopeless forever but at the moment, it is hard to see him waking up to realities in life. So Maybe you should consider moving on. In life, a man is not everything to a lady. You need a companion in life to listen to and talk to you but not sponge on you. A man must have backbones. Applying for jobs and face rejection is common.... In fact many are facing it after the economy slows down. It is more of a matter of whether one press on to try repeatedly despite rejections. But then you should consider this possibility: He may not buck up and become dependent on you with the great comfort of not needing to work. Move on is better. At least it may even help him wake up earlier and enable you to see other guys who may fit well into your current life. Just an opinion of mine.
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Honestly, finding a job in Singapore for new graduate is not that difficult if he is really looking for one. Is he applying entry level job or mid level. I have interview many people who think their qualification means they are upped for the post. To a corporate organizational, qualification is nothing more than a piece of paper than good for wiping ass if he can't deliver or know the job.
So back to the topic, a man living off his parent at age of 20+,my question is, do he still wear diapers and drink milk to sleep? |
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Thank you for your kind advices.
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I need to guide him step by step, from how to answer the interview questions to how to sell himself when he was being questioned. In certain scenarios he has tried his best but somehow he really doesn’t have the luck in getting a job. |
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Those job ads require the person to have at least one year of experience which he doesn’t even have because he is a fresh grad. I am out of ideas to help him now and only can focus in my job. At least I have tried my best to help. Anyway thank you for your kind advices. |
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Ask urself do you think he is the one?
I assume you are 20+? Any guys wooing u? Do u have better choices than ur current bf? And if u do let him go do you think you will regret? Dun ask ur heart cos to me love can only last so Long... Cheers
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Actually a lot of info missing that can make things clearer.
How old is he? Which country is he from? Where and what did he graduate with? Has he even worked before? Did he even try mindless jobs like F&B/packers/flyers distributon etc. A PR will have no problems finding such jobs. And you being in your late 20s, you should know what the answers to these info mean, no need anyone to tell you |
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Well, you answered yourself. And yes, he can always find part time event jobs easily while waiting for job interviews. Telegram and whatsapp have plenty of these event jobs available.
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There is no harm listiening to advise but end of the day you have to be the 1 making the decision not ur fren because you will be the 1 bearing the consequences. |
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Singaporean guy so many yet you like FT.
Plenty of lonely guy to choose over here you will be surpise some are professional as well Singapore for singaporean only!
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Say what?? You mean this country’s gene pool isn’t tiny enough? Soon this country will only have stupid whiny people.
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I have a baby daughter and I will give the same advise to her as in to you many moons from now. Go out and date but when it's time to go serious, you need to think about these few things. 1) Is he mature and responsible? You seem to be as you give allowance to your parents. I hope not begrudgingly, if not siao liao. 2) Is he a MAN of CHARACTER and not someone you cannot depend on when things fall apart. I believe true love is witnessed through pain and suffering, who don't know how to have fun and party? You will confirm one day be out of job and interim in your life, are you treating him the same way as you would like to be treated? He needs to be a man to know what he wants in life. If not, chuck him or is this a stage where he need someone to guide him? They are 2 very different. 3) Money or not, a couple has to work it out. My first pay as a grad is miserable $1,700 before CPF deduction during SARS period. I draw close to 150K a year 17 years from now if combined from my passive income today and I have 2 private properties before I am 40. Never use money to measure a man today. You never know. 4) You need to look into the mirror and see if you can see him as the father to your kid(s) one day. If not, chuck him. You are approaching 30 already, sorry to say sister, we men like younger women and they need to be bearing some kids in their 30s at the latest. Your time is running out. Think I said enough....I hope things work out babe. |
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Actually I am a FT too. I heard many people commented about us(the foreigners) about finding a Singaporean as a bf for something(money/PR status etc) but in fact we actually here to earn so that we have more to support our family back in our hometown. No wrong to criticise us because due to the FTs the job opportunities for locals have dropped tremendously,part of my relatives are locals too and I understand the difficulties. So sorry about this but we have no choice as well. Also, this is why my bf is a foreigner(PR) cause I do not want people to think that we FTs are here to get a rich bf and this is why I have always been trying hard to work together with my bf. If we can overcome this hardship then in the future perhaps nothing can split us apart. I understand my age is quite awkward now cause I am not as young as the teens and should seek for a stable rs but to me age is just a number. What’s matter is we should live our lives with no regrets, getting a compatible partner is nothing easy as well. |
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frankly since u ar professional .... then its good to hav him to be househusb to balance up. someone gotto take care if the kids and house .... u bring hme the bacon.
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