Any one of you ever up a virgin girl before?

VirginBoy1990 · #1 08-12-2010, 10:16 PM

My virgin gf decided to give her virginity to me soon for my next bday...

as both of us are still virgins, we're a bit excited and scared at the same time...

what is the best sexual position to enter?

what to do next? I heard like must stop, ask her pain anot, etc... must take good care of her and cannot just mindless ramming like in jap AVs...

I heard there may be blood? Will there be alot or just a little? I also heard sometimes no blood cos hymen may be torn when doing excercises...

any advice will be appreciated! Thanks!

Pilot Preceda · #2 09-12-2010, 03:13 AM

please go back and ask your school teacher...
oooopppsss, now still school holiday i guess...
then please wait for the holiday to finish and go back and ask your school teacher...

maxman · #3 09-12-2010, 05:41 AM

Congrats! It appears that you may have progressed in your relationship. Hopefully she didn't feel pressured into giving you sex.

There is no such thing as best position regardless virgin or not!!! Since both of you are new to this, you will eventually discover which positions you like best later, but then you both may like different positions to each other.

What's most important is that before you vaginally enter a woman, she has to be aroused sufficiently, only then will she be wet enough to enter without causing her pain, and maybe to the man too. This is a common problem with many men who don't realise it, or are misguided by porn or prostitutes thinking all/most women are wet enough the moment they drop their panties. Generally women take a much longer time to be aroused and become wet.

Also remember to use condoms. You both are probably young. The younger a woman begins unprotected sex, and the more partners she has, the higher her chances of getting cervical and throat/mouth cancer due to HPV virus.

maxman · #4 09-12-2010, 05:47 AM

Bleeding does not always occur, virgin or not, but surely if it does there would be pain to her. Bleeding means a rupture and a sure chance for viral infection.

Just keep in mind that inside the vagina is like inside the mouth -- soft tissue whereas the penis is protected by skin which is much tougher. For this reason, women will ALWAYS be more vulnerable to any infection including STDs and HIV.

Johanna · #5 09-12-2010, 06:25 AM

One word of advice: "Just Do it"

Xgenre · #6 09-12-2010, 08:07 AM

Since she's a virgin now, tell her to get the cervical cancer vaccine. It's called Cervivix or something. See your GP. Once she has sex, she's not eligible for the vaccine anymore. It helps reduce the risk of getting cervical cancer by 80% I think.

Most of us start off with missionary position. She lie down on bed with legs open and her face is lookingat you.(she is looking the ceiling). You are on your knees facing her. Then you can see how to place your penis into her. You don't have to stop to ask her if it's painful. She will tell you before you ask her. A little discomfort is normal before the joy sets in. Don't go asking her if it hurts. Otherwise every little pain becomes a big pain.

If you need help, let me know. I'll book a hotel and walk you through the process step by step. No touching or photography.

magixskin · #7 09-12-2010, 10:26 AM

The first sexual intercourse is not necesarily always painful,
nor accompanied by great gushes of blood from a torn hymen.
Any intercourse can be painful if the man rushes in without
adequate preparation, and if the woman is unprepared, anxious and
tense. If the couple is well prepared, the first intercourse need not to
be a painful experience.

Remember to use condoms

magixskin · #8 09-12-2010, 10:31 AM

It is not necessary for there to be bleeding at the first
intercourse. The hymen may not have many blood vessels.
Usually there is no heavy bleeding, sometimes no bleeding at all.

Remember to use condoms

maxman · #9 09-12-2010, 08:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Xgenre

Since she's a virgin now, tell her to get the cervical cancer vaccine. It's called Cervivix or something. See your GP. Once she has sex, she's not eligible for the vaccine anymore. It helps reduce the risk of getting cervical cancer by 80% I think.

Yes, it's a very good suggestion. Unfortunately, many young women are ignorant of such life-saving vaccines. Any woman who has had unprotected sex would get the risk of this cancer, and if she has had at least 6 partners, her risk of cancer rises very high (almost certain she will develop the cancer in future). This is scary. For this reason, I would recommend not kissing any sex workers who do BBBJ on their clients.

The vaccine you mentioned is Cervarix. There is a newer and apparently better vaccine invented in Australia called Gardasil.

Since its invention and approval, Gardasil injections were given free to all high school girls of a certain age in Australia full paid for by the government. Otherwise the cost is quite high, roughly about A$280. I'm not sure but Gardasil may not be approved in Singapore.

naturegreen · #10 09-12-2010, 08:32 PM

I would suggest that I guide her and train her up so that she can better serve you the 2nd time and not feel so painful. 1st lesson is free.

leecs · #11 09-12-2010, 09:01 PM

Someone kan cheong liao......

alan0338 · #12 09-12-2010, 09:10 PM

few things to take note when u bonk a virgin especially when both are virgins

1. make sure to use a condom

2. make sure the gal not underage

3. make sure she wont tell her mummy and daddy about what u did

lastly, make sure u get the correct hole

newyorker88 · #13 09-12-2010, 09:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by alan0338

few things to take note when u bonk a virgin especially when both are virgins

1. make sure to use a condom

2. make sure the gal not underage

3. make sure she wont tell her mummy and daddy about what u did

lastly, make sure u get the correct hole :

I agree on point 2 n 3, and 4. hahahhhaha.

samsam33 · #14 09-12-2010, 09:51 PM

The most important point !

Quote:

Originally Posted by alan0338

few things to take note when u bonk a virgin especially when both are virgins

1. make sure to use a condom

2. make sure the gal not underage

3. make sure she wont tell her mummy and daddy about what u did

lastly, make sure u get the correct hole

kirk69 · #15 09-12-2010, 10:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by alan0338

few things to take note when u bonk a virgin especially when both are virgins

1. make sure to use a condom

2. make sure the gal not underage

3. make sure she wont tell her mummy and daddy about what u did .

lastly, make sure u get the correct hole

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