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She knows that she is the main problem for the unhappiness in the family but she said that she cannot help it... just like a drug addict who cannot stop taking drugs.. i cannot do anything to help. Keeping finger crossed.. |
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Should just directly go to IMH outpatient. I used to suffer from sleep disorder and just go IMH directly to see the doc. They more specialised in dealing with mental issues. Though i dont have high hopes from IMH doctors, still probably much more effective than polyclinics...... |
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But you really really need to think about how this is affecting your son because you owe that to him. If you think it’s bad enough that it affects his mental state, and the signs aren’t always easily obvious, then you cannot let the situation persist. Nothing fucks a child up more than a atraumatic childhood. If you compel her and yet she will not change, and you decide that it is better for you and your child to be free of her, start making the necessary preparations. It’s not just about sex, it’s about your son. |
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You have a lovely family. Whether or not your wife has a problem. Your have your son who will grow u in a family you have control in right now. You want him to have parents separated or a father who goes out to satisfy his own relief? If you have done that whenever you come home you will distance from your family even more.
Also, be mindful if you decide to find FL. Read up on the risks of getting HIV and STDs. Don't regret your actions. Decision is up to you. Make informed decision. |
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Women.. most of them longs for affirmation, words of comfort, affections (lots of them) and moral supports.
For men.. we dont even understand what those words mean I am not an expert on this matter.. but maybe if you try to put some action to materliase those abstract concepts in paragraph one.. you might see some changes. Dont solely focus on the OCD.. focus on how you can win back her heart and trust. Do the extra miles on small things that make her happy (play with ur son.. do house chores.. etc). Hopefully this can deepen your "connection" and trust with her. If this can be achieved, hopefully two of you can work together to face the OCD. She will feel more "supported" and loved. |
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