How to end a FB relationship cordially

[TheMentalist]

Originally Posted by BackstageBambi

I asked the guy to delete the videos after the act. Haha!!
But for some others, I forgot to!!

In the future best is to only use your phone to take. It is risky to have any sex/nude videos or photos on the guys' phones.

[BackstageBambi]

Dangggg I’m back after 2 years?? Just bumping this up from its dormant stage. Lol. Hope all of you are good ya.

[redlolale]

Originally Posted by BackstageBambi

Dangggg I’m back after 2 years?? Just bumping this up from its dormant stage. Lol. Hope all of you are good ya.

Welcome back! How was your short stint away?

[BackstageBambi]

Originally Posted by redlolale

Welcome back! How was your short stint away?

Not too bad!! Life went on as normal.. I still meet up once a blue moon with the FwB I talked about in my posts. Lol. It’s kinda died off but still dragging along. Lol

[redlolale]

Originally Posted by BackstageBambi

Not too bad!! Life went on as normal.. I still meet up once a blue moon with the FwB I talked about in my posts. Lol. It’s kinda died off but still dragging along. Lol

Won't it feel like a hassle to keep dragging it along ? It's like passing through motion rather than enjoying it.

[BackstageBambi]

Originally Posted by redlolale

Won't it feel like a hassle to keep dragging it along ? It's like passing through motion rather than enjoying it.

Not really… on my part I still have a soft spot for him I guess. We have been meeting irregularly for 2.5 years and yeah… I just make do with what it is.

[redlolale]

Originally Posted by BackstageBambi

Not really… on my part I still have a soft spot for him I guess. We have been meeting irregularly for 2.5 years and yeah… I just make do with what it is.

Damn a FwB with a soft spot is a dangerous thing. Why hasn't it moved on besides FwB status if I may ask?

[BackstageBambi]

Originally Posted by redlolale

Damn a FwB with a soft spot is a dangerous thing. Why hasn't it moved on besides FwB status if I may ask?

Nah. Not life partner material. It’s purely FwB. But as a female, normally we are the ones who develop some form of illogical attachment even though I know very well it’s really not romance or love. Just ‘something’ there.

[redlolale]

Originally Posted by BackstageBambi

Nah. Not life partner material. It’s purely FwB. But as a female, normally we are the ones who develop some form of illogical attachment even though I know very well it’s really not romance or love. Just ‘something’ there.

I can say guys can develop attachments top(personal experience). Maybe it's just something that clicks between the both of you.

[BackstageBambi]

Originally Posted by redlolale

I can say guys can develop attachments top(personal experience). Maybe it's just something that clicks between the both of you.

I doubt so in my case (for my fwb). I think it’s more like, I’m on his secondary list in case his primary list is unavailable. Lol.

[redlolale]

Originally Posted by BackstageBambi

I doubt so in my case (for my fwb). I think it’s more like, I’m on his secondary list in case his primary list is unavailable. Lol.

I don't know much about you but reading this, kinda makes me feel some sadness for some reason.

[BackstageBambi]

Originally Posted by redlolale

I don't know much about you but reading this, kinda makes me feel some sadness for some reason.

Why so? Would you like to share more? In private, perhaps?

I guess my kind of feeling is commonplace on the part of the girl. I understand that men can totally separate lust from genuine feelings. I am not looking to start a relationship either. But certainly, after having intimate sexual relations with a person, there will be bound to be some form of attachment. It’s biologically wired.

[redlolale]

Originally Posted by BackstageBambi

Why so? Would you like to share more? In private, perhaps?

I guess my kind of feeling is commonplace on the part of the girl. I understand that men can totally separate lust from genuine feelings. I am not looking to start a relationship either. But certainly, after having intimate sexual relations with a person, there will be bound to be some form of attachment. It’s biologically wired.

Sure. Let me know where you would like to talk. Men and women connect differently I guess. But with frequent intimate sessions with each other, feelings are bound to grow and it is up to the individual to either disconnect the feelings or foster them in other ways.

[Lucifer666]

Originally Posted by BackstageBambi

Heh. I’m the girl. My FB is the guy la.

Ha ha ha ha… maybe he is interested in a Guy FB… 😛

[siri]

Originally Posted by BackstageBambi

Why so? Would you like to share more? In private, perhaps?

I guess my kind of feeling is commonplace on the part of the girl. I understand that men can totally separate lust from genuine feelings. I am not looking to start a relationship either. But certainly, after having intimate sexual relations with a person, there will be bound to be some form of attachment. It’s biologically wired.

I agreed totally on this. there's just some feelings involved but it's not like love..? I believe it's an attachment. or like an addiction.