Is she hinting me?

[Johnnydebt]

Originally Posted by redarrow

Just causally ask would she do it? You can start with some famous personality first, before looking to turn the attention to yourself. Cheers!

This is a good suggestion too!

[joo10]

Originally Posted by faultify

You can try invite her for some drinks and then move on from there, if she rejects you can just say sorry you had too much. But if she is okay, you are in for a treat

Use alcohol as excuse? haha

[ZanShen]

Ask her out for a drink in the night and see how she reacts. If she agree for the drink in pub, disco etc, there is a chance.

[daring70]

try to get her to make this comment again and when she does, just cheekily asked if you can join the queue since she so chio, if you dun sound desperate, you may stand a chance. just speak confidently as if it's just a normal conversation and take it from there.

Originally Posted by tsohsoh

she always says "it's ok if noone finds out what. why they so stupid".

[ilovepantyhose]

there are some possibilities:

1) she could be stating an opinion matter of factly

2) she could be subtly cock teasing

3) she could be really hinting

so, how to know which is it? its down to your judgement liao

if only men can read minds hue hue hue

[merseykop]

Originally Posted by tsohsoh

Need opinions from bros and sis here.

Have a chio colleague that I want to make a move on. We've been working together for almost two years but nothing has happened, but recently when we are in the car and talking about people we know who are married and cheating, she always says "it's ok if noone finds out what. why they so stupid".

I'm married.

Is she dropping hints that she's open to a NSA affair? If so, how should I "test water" without scaring her away permanently?

Any update?

[tsohsoh]

Update from company retreat:

Went to Phuket with the company (40+ people). Very boring trip except the Muay Thai.

Damn sian cos didn't manage to make a move cos she was always w friends. However, on the last day of the trip, bumped into her at the lobby in the morning and asked her if she wanted to hang out. She said she is okay for lunch.

Met her and what she was wearing really got my hormones raging. small white tshirt tied to show off her flat middriff, and short tattered jean shorts that really accentuated my favourite asset of hers - those super fair, slim and proportionate legs.

We started talking casually but drifted into relationships. Slowly revealed that I just broke off with a girl i was dating (she knows I'm married). Didn't seem to faze her that I had a affair and she prompted me for more details. Ended up sharing how we got together and she was super interested.

Then she started talking about her current bf. Saying that he is very boring and they share no interests. She's just together with him cos he takes care of her.

Then something interesting happened.

I accidentally knocked over my orange juice and some spilled on her thigh. I took out some wet tissue and starting helping her to wipe. She didn't resist and moved her hand away to let me.

I was damn excited alr and wondering what to do for the next move.

Just nice damn suay, some other colleagues came in and spotted us. We had to say hi and tell them to join us.

Nothing happened because we had to fly back already.

We don't work in the same proj so we didn't interact much after we came back. She continues posting pic of her bf and her going movies, eating at cafe etc.

Do you guys think that she is interested, or just enjoying the attention?

Thinking of going for the kill when she comes back but also scared to ruin our friendship.

[ken_v2]

scare to ruin friendship better don't try, coz successful or not, the friendship no longer the same...

[acidicavex]

See which of your head is thinking lo

which is worthy to keep friendship or your own lust

[keaikeai]

Since married and should stay faithful.

[Aria]

Originally Posted by tsohsoh

Need opinions from bros and sis here.

Have a chio colleague that I want to make a move on. We've been working together for almost two years but nothing has happened, but recently when we are in the car and talking about people we know who are married and cheating, she always says "it's ok if noone finds out what. why they so stupid".

I'm married.

Is she dropping hints that she's open to a NSA affair? If so, how should I "test water" without scaring her away permanently?

Actually, do you like to stay employed? With a company that size, there’s like at least 40 pairs of eyes looking at you and her, isn’t her ‘suggestions’ the least of your concerns?

Don’t be surprised that some females are clueless about leading guys on with their behaviour. Let’s say in the scenario she’s not into you and you went for the ‘kill’ but got rejected.

Who has more credibility than a married man trying to pull a fast one? If this consideration has never crossed you mind then by all means! Go for the ‘kill’
人言可畏！

[LordVader]

Originally Posted by Aria

Actually, do you like to stay employed? With a company that size, there’s like at least 40 pairs of eyes looking at you and her, isn’t her ‘suggestions’ the least of your concerns?

Don’t be surprised that some females are clueless about leading guys on with their behaviour. Let’s say in the scenario she’s not into you and you went for the ‘kill’ but got rejected.

Who has more credibility than a married man trying to pull a fast one? If this consideration has never crossed you mind then by all means! Go for the ‘kill’
人言可畏！

Also depend on how high your position is in the company.
The higher you are the more you can bochap.

[Lucifer666]

Originally Posted by bigass

Time for medicine

LOL 😂 funny replies

[Capricorn69]

Originally Posted by tsohsoh

Update from company retreat:

Went to Phuket with the company (40+ people). Very boring trip except the Muay Thai.

Damn sian cos didn't manage to make a move cos she was always w friends. However, on the last day of the trip, bumped into her at the lobby in the morning and asked her if she wanted to hang out. She said she is okay for lunch.

Met her and what she was wearing really got my hormones raging. small white tshirt tied to show off her flat middriff, and short tattered jean shorts that really accentuated my favourite asset of hers - those super fair, slim and proportionate legs.

We started talking casually but drifted into relationships. Slowly revealed that I just broke off with a girl i was dating (she knows I'm married). Didn't seem to faze her that I had a affair and she prompted me for more details. Ended up sharing how we got together and she was super interested.

Then she started talking about her current bf. Saying that he is very boring and they share no interests. She's just together with him cos he takes care of her.

Then something interesting happened.

I accidentally knocked over my orange juice and some spilled on her thigh. I took out some wet tissue and starting helping her to wipe. She didn't resist and moved her hand away to let me.

I was damn excited alr and wondering what to do for the next move.

Just nice damn suay, some other colleagues came in and spotted us. We had to say hi and tell them to join us.

Nothing happened because we had to fly back already.

We don't work in the same proj so we didn't interact much after we came back. She continues posting pic of her bf and her going movies, eating at cafe etc.

Do you guys think that she is interested, or just enjoying the attention?

Thinking of going for the kill when she comes back but also scared to ruin our friendship.

Just go for it . You won't regret it

[aedward12345]

Don't assume.

Remember the Benny Hill quote about ASS-U-ME-ING?

Now, if you are really into it, yeah like some bros asked, invite her out for night drinks. If she declines, that's it.

If she is ok, then during the convo, drop hints that if you could reverse time, tell her that you wish you had met her earlier or you'd trade your soul blahblahblah to go back in time to know her before you got married.... since to you, she is a rare find.

Wait for her response. If she says that there's no need you are already married, then cut the crap and just forget about it coz she sees you as a colleague not as an office spouse.