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Hi, I was online and was searching for a FWB/FL. Posted for one, and eventually someone texted me. All these happened last week on Monday. When we are near to the time to meet, she told me she had some family issues and asked me if I can pay her more. I rejected the proposal and met her eventually.
We went into the room and she gave me a bbbj. I cannot tahan liao and asked her for condom, she says she don't have and she does her checkups regularly. If I remember correctly, I didn't penetrate too deep and I cumed in seconds outside of her, on her crotch.
I remember that I didn't went to shower immediately, and I laid down to chit chat with her. After say, 15 minutes later, I fingered her and she request for me to go deep. She was not wet "outside" on the clit but inside, she is slippery. Not say super wet. After fingering her with my middle finger, i used the same hand to HJ myself and cummed. Then I went to shower and we left the room.
I am currently very paranoid because I raw her and I do not know if I contacted any of the nasty disease because I barely know her. She can claim all she wants, but I am still feeling paranoid and fearful.
Hi, I was online and was searching for a FWB/FL. Posted for one, and eventually someone texted me. All these happened last week on Monday. When we are near to the time to meet, she told me she had some family issues and asked me if I can pay her more. I rejected the proposal and met her eventually.
We went into the room and she gave me a bbbj. I cannot tahan liao and asked her for condom, she says she don't have and she does her checkups regularly. If I remember correctly, I didn't penetrate too deep and I cumed in seconds outside of her, on her crotch.
I remember that I didn't went to shower immediately, and I laid down to chit chat with her. After say, 15 minutes later, I fingered her and she request for me to go deep. She was not wet "outside" on the clit but inside, she is slippery. Not say super wet. After fingering her with my middle finger, i used the same hand to HJ myself and cummed. Then I went to shower and we left the room.
I am currently very paranoid because I raw her and I do not know if I contacted any of the nasty disease because I barely know her. She can claim all she wants, but I am still feeling paranoid and fearful.
Can any seniors advise me?
Since her status is unknown there is always a possibility that she is HIV positive.
If that is the case there is a statistical possibility that transmission could have taken place.
Since it is already too late for PEP which has to be administered within 72 hours of exposure your only option is to get tested at the earliest opportunity.
Check the HIV thread for window periods for the various testing options.
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Hi, I was online and was searching for a FWB/FL. Posted for one, and eventually someone texted me. All these happened last week on Monday. When we are near to the time to meet, she told me she had some family issues and asked me if I can pay her more. I rejected the proposal and met her eventually.
We went into the room and she gave me a bbbj. I cannot tahan liao and asked her for condom, she says she don't have and she does her checkups regularly. If I remember correctly, I didn't penetrate too deep and I cumed in seconds outside of her, on her crotch.
I remember that I didn't went to shower immediately, and I laid down to chit chat with her. After say, 15 minutes later, I fingered her and she request for me to go deep. She was not wet "outside" on the clit but inside, she is slippery. Not say super wet. After fingering her with my middle finger, i used the same hand to HJ myself and cummed. Then I went to shower and we left the room.
I am currently very paranoid because I raw her and I do not know if I contacted any of the nasty disease because I barely know her. She can claim all she wants, but I am still feeling paranoid and fearful.
Can any seniors advise me?
Try to keep calm. At ca 3 weeks you can get a first Gen4 test - prick in the finger and you have your results in 15 minutes. Then you should retest a few weeks later. In general, the likelihood of HIV transmission during a single instance of intercourse is very low, however as was pointed out above, there is a statistical chance.... we can argue whether the conditions would make it a 1:100 or 1:500, but even so, you dont have 100% guarantee until you will get tested.
Hi, I was online and was searching for a FWB/FL. Posted for one, and eventually someone texted me. All these happened last week on Monday. When we are near to the time to meet, she told me she had some family issues and asked me if I can pay her more. I rejected the proposal and met her eventually.
We went into the room and she gave me a bbbj. I cannot tahan liao and asked her for condom, she says she don't have and she does her checkups regularly. If I remember correctly, I didn't penetrate too deep and I cumed in seconds outside of her, on her crotch.
I remember that I didn't went to shower immediately, and I laid down to chit chat with her. After say, 15 minutes later, I fingered her and she request for me to go deep. She was not wet "outside" on the clit but inside, she is slippery. Not say super wet. After fingering her with my middle finger, i used the same hand to HJ myself and cummed. Then I went to shower and we left the room.
I am currently very paranoid because I raw her and I do not know if I contacted any of the nasty disease because I barely know her. She can claim all she wants, but I am still feeling paranoid and fearful.
Can any seniors advise me?
Based on one exposure, the probability of contracting HIV is less than 1%, that is provided she is positive.
I would think that catching STI is more apparent than anything else.
This is very true, you should not have done raw TS, now the only thing you can do is to go for a checkup after the window period and keep your fingers crossed
Go get urself tested lah...very high chance she got HIV. Else where got so nice give u RAW. RAW is WAR dun forget.
And dun believe her if she say she get tested regularly. Ppl who get tested regularly most likely have a fear of catching STDs. So no reason for her to do RAW with u.
Anyway in the event u get HIV, it is not the end of the world for u. Just hold ur head high and wipe away the tears. U reap what u sow after all. Just remember to take ur medication regularly and dun go around infecting others.
Go get urself tested lah...very high chance she got HIV. Else where got so nice give u RAW. RAW is WAR dun forget.
And dun believe her if she say she get tested regularly. Ppl who get tested regularly most likely have a fear of catching STDs. So no reason for her to do RAW with u.
Anyway in the event u get HIV, it is not the end of the world for u. Just hold ur head high and wipe away the tears. U reap what u sow after all. Just remember to take ur medication regularly and dun go around infecting others.
I will not scare bro to say got HIV.
I am young, take it from me - young people nowadays, 18-mid 20s - don't use condom.
Tinder so many times girl never ask for condom, just say cum outside. Do they do regular checkup? NO.
But it is our perception that has changed. Younger generation not as careful IMO, Singaporeans raw too easily. I meet the americans, the europeans, they also a bit scared of the girls here. Too wild, too empowered - they are sexually liberated but alas also not very safe.
That said, go get checked regardless. Nothing to scared now, what done is done. Get checked, and be better. You know better now, don't risk. I myself never raw before also kenna sti/std from bbbj.
Hi, I was online and was searching for a FWB/FL. Posted for one, and eventually someone texted me. All these happened last week on Monday. When we are near to the time to meet, she told me she had some family issues and asked me if I can pay her more. I rejected the proposal and met her eventually.
We went into the room and she gave me a bbbj. I cannot tahan liao and asked her for condom, she says she don't have and she does her checkups regularly. If I remember correctly, I didn't penetrate too deep and I cumed in seconds outside of her, on her crotch.
I remember that I didn't went to shower immediately, and I laid down to chit chat with her. After say, 15 minutes later, I fingered her and she request for me to go deep. She was not wet "outside" on the clit but inside, she is slippery. Not say super wet. After fingering her with my middle finger, i used the same hand to HJ myself and cummed. Then I went to shower and we left the room.
I am currently very paranoid because I raw her and I do not know if I contacted any of the nasty disease because I barely know her. She can claim all she wants, but I am still feeling paranoid and fearful.
Can any seniors advise me?
Don't scare yourself, get it tested. Now the raw rice already cooked, pondering or paranoid, doesn't help at all. It will add to yourself, more stress. With more stress level, body also doesn't function as normal. Soon, when you have cold, sore throat, fever etc, u will think that this is HIV.....
Hi, I was online and was searching for a FWB/FL. Posted for one, and eventually someone texted me. All these happened last week on Monday. When we are near to the time to meet, she told me she had some family issues and asked me if I can pay her more. I rejected the proposal and met her eventually.
We went into the room and she gave me a bbbj. I cannot tahan liao and asked her for condom, she says she don't have and she does her checkups regularly. If I remember correctly, I didn't penetrate too deep and I cumed in seconds outside of her, on her crotch.
I remember that I didn't went to shower immediately, and I laid down to chit chat with her. After say, 15 minutes later, I fingered her and she request for me to go deep. She was not wet "outside" on the clit but inside, she is slippery. Not say super wet. After fingering her with my middle finger, i used the same hand to HJ myself and cummed. Then I went to shower and we left the room.
I am currently very paranoid because I raw her and I do not know if I contacted any of the nasty disease because I barely know her. She can claim all she wants, but I am still feeling paranoid and fearful.