wife and mistress

[kurtis]

why the hell does she know so much things about you.

[smoker]

She knows all the information abt me and family...
That is the mistake.....
Sigh.......

[toldo]

Hi. Read your post n understand your trouble. Well, i may have a good solution here.
1st i can catagorise u as a well to do gentlement (investment of 2 unit of industrial property n 1 unitbof condo). So basically, u can try to arrange all your 3 kids to study overseas + your wife tug along with them. U may need to sell some of your asset to finance that. But trust me. U will earn those back in future.
Once all your family in overseas, u can deal with this girl openly (no longer any threat).
U may end this nicely n being gentlement by giving her break off fee. Or u can just "dump" her right away. Dont worry u have no fear anymore. She has losr that last "A" in her hand.

[campane]

Originally Posted by toldo

Hi. Read your post n understand your trouble. Well, i may have a good solution here.
1st i can catagorise u as a well to do gentlement (investment of 2 unit of industrial property n 1 unitbof condo). So basically, u can try to arrange all your 3 kids to study overseas + your wife tug along with them. U may need to sell some of your asset to finance that. But trust me. U will earn those back in future.
Once all your family in overseas, u can deal with this girl openly (no longer any threat).
U may end this nicely n being gentlement by giving her break off fee. Or u can just "dump" her right away. Dont worry u have no fear anymore. She has losr that last "A" in her hand.

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[Propermaniac]

Is your wife the 记仇type? If yes...then you have to b mentally prepared...ultimately i belive in marriage, we should b willing to b open....speak to ur wife...seek her forgiveness tgat you have done something really really really stupid n now you fully understand that family is way above everything else...if she forgives you, she will now gave a husband who will b 101% live her and kids as if there is no tmr...if she did not...then just one word...divorce

If course, you can choose not to telll n let the issue drag...but if the gal findz your wife and spills the beans first, then 没有挽回的余地了。

Think abt this...give it some thought...you have done something stupid...do you want this issue to drag forever?

Just my 2 cents worth...ultimately you have to make a decision...to tell or not to tell onky you can decide...

[smoker]

Originally Posted by toldo

Hi. Read your post n understand your trouble. Well, i may have a good solution here.
1st i can catagorise u as a well to do gentlement (investment of 2 unit of industrial property n 1 unitbof condo). So basically, u can try to arrange all your 3 kids to study overseas + your wife tug along with them. U may need to sell some of your asset to finance that. But trust me. U will earn those back in future.
Once all your family in overseas, u can deal with this girl openly (no longer any threat).
U may end this nicely n being gentlement by giving her break off fee. Or u can just "dump" her right away. Dont worry u have no fear anymore. She has losr that last "A" in her hand.

How to suddenly relocate overseas? I dont have that lobang to work overseas or financially strong to go overseas... and my only parent left here? If my wife and kids are not here.. i agree it would be easier.. but she knows her social media account and she still can message her. i am trying to stop her doing that... nicely can't.. nasty worse.....
She said she has nothing to lose... just want to play me to death

[smoker]

Originally Posted by Propermaniac

Is your wife the 记仇type? If yes...then you have to b mentally prepared...ultimately i belive in marriage, we should b willing to b open....speak to ur wife...seek her forgiveness tgat you have done something really really really stupid n now you fully understand that family is way above everything else...if she forgives you, she will now gave a husband who will b 101% live her and kids as if there is no tmr...if she did not...then just one word...divorce

If course, you can choose not to telll n let the issue drag...but if the gal findz your wife and spills the beans first, then 没有挽回的余地了。

Think abt this...give it some thought...you have done something stupid...do you want this issue to drag forever?

Just my 2 cents worth...ultimately you have to make a decision...to tell or not to tell onky you can decide...

Bro.. my wife is... and she will definitely leave the family....
Be it from me honestly or from her.....
So i say or she say.. the outcome also same...
I am trying to keep her away and also trying to keep my family...
It is really tough playing two roles...
Yes.. i admit i really did something stupid and beyond repair....

[toldo]

Originally Posted by smoker

How to suddenly relocate overseas? I dont have that lobang to work overseas or financially strong to go overseas... and my only parent left here? If my wife and kids are not here.. i agree it would be easier.. but she knows her social media account and she still can message her. i am trying to stop her doing that... nicely can't.. nasty worse.....
She said she has nothing to lose... just want to play me to death

I mean your kids n wife tobe allocated overseas and you still be in spore continue to work as usual.
But again if your kept women insist of distroying u, she can do it via the social media. Well, sad to hear that.....
Bro, in short run u can continue to step 2 boat with 1 leg. But in long run, u r facing a dead end. If she still doesnt change her mindset, u have to plan for the worst..... divorse..... u must have contingency plan. Perhaps u can start consulting a lawyer (as what some beo mentioned here ealier)

[toldo]

Originally Posted by smoker

How to suddenly relocate overseas? I dont have that lobang to work overseas or financially strong to go overseas... and my only parent left here? If my wife and kids are not here.. i agree it would be easier.. but she knows her social media account and she still can message her. i am trying to stop her doing that... nicely can't.. nasty worse.....
She said she has nothing to lose... just want to play me to death

1 more issue. U mention your kept women threaten to open out your relationship to your wife. Ok.... does she have any proof of u guy having a relationship? Like intimate photoes or any other proof?

[larue]

Originally Posted by toldo

Bro, in short run u can continue to step 2 boat with 1 leg. But in long run, u r facing a dead end. If she still doesnt change her mindset, u have to plan for the worst..... divorse..... u must have contingency plan. Perhaps u can start consulting a lawyer (as what some beo mentioned here ealier)

Told him already, he refuses to listen. Prefers to sit around, cover his face, worry until he feels suicidal, and hope that the problem just disappears.

Truly illogical.

[zeefee71]

Originally Posted by larue

Told him already, he refuses to listen. Prefers to sit around, cover his face, worry until he feels suicidal, and hope that the problem just disappears.

Truly illogical.

He is praying that the time bomb will not explode when detonated

[iluvbreast]

TS,

Actually, I think your mistress don't love you.

Maybe she feel that you have fucked her so you owe her something and you need to be with her for the rest of her life?

If you can leave your wife for her then I am sure you can leave her for another.

Then what is the point?

Have you ever asked her: supposed I leave my wife for you, and one day I am tired of you and I have a gf, will you let me go?

[LED...]

Usually the most expensive bonk is the one you never pay.

You fuck it up, come clean and face the consequences in your situation since you have no capability to resolve it.

You say better then she say. Beg for forgiveness, with 3 kids you have better chances to save the marriage. It may take time but if you show your sincerity you may succeed.

If she say first. You're done.

Be a man do the right thing.

[toldo]

Originally Posted by LED...

Usually the most expensive bonk is the one you never pay.

You fuck it up, come clean and face the consequences in your situation since you have no capability to resolve it.

You say better then she say. Beg for forgiveness, with 3 kids you have better chances to save the marriage. It may take time but if you show your sincerity you may succeed.

If she say first. You're done.

Be a man do the right thing.

Definately true.
Its better to spill it up on your own rather than that bitch.... why? Coz when u admit abt your wrongdoing u r doing it at a appologetic manner. But if that bitch spill the bean, well its gonna be messy n rude n may add in some untrue strory too. So pls avoid that scenario.

I am sure for the sake of children, your wife will "forgive u" (wont go to divorse). Coz divorse is not just both of u but the kids are involved. Well, unless your wife doesnt live the kids n wish to get a large wealth of your from the divorse process.

Again times up. Admit it sooner the better. U hav cause a serious damage but still can be salvage. Dont wait till that bitch to make her move first.

[CumExplorer]

Originally Posted by LED...

Usually the most expensive bonk is the one you never pay.

You fuck it up, come clean and face the consequences in your situation since you have no capability to resolve it.

You say better then she say. Beg for forgiveness, with 3 kids you have better chances to save the marriage. It may take time but if you show your sincerity you may succeed.

If she say first. You're done.

Be a man do the right thing.

well said bro ... cannot agree more