Looking for SD/ Weekly & biweekly arrangements

[SnowLeopards]

Originally Posted by Cuntworth

Cat fight ah??? *meow* or *roar*???

Spread the legs.

Pierre.

[BoLiang]

Originally Posted by vivianward

A little bit of correction and clarification here about what does the premium membership has and why do I think that it is worth it

1) Premium membership gives bigger exposure when SDs are on the search page for SBs, however this also depends if you are online or not. Accounts that are active will be on the first few pages of the search page. Online doesn't mean logged in and surfing other pages/apps, online means you are surfing that page at that very moment.

2) Premium membership approves uploading of photos / updating of profiles much faster

3) It shows you if you messages has been "blue ticked" by that SD or not.

4) If the SD is not a premium member, don't bother replying or initiating chats with them. You know why? Lol... Non premium SDs cannot read messages. They need to upgrade to read. 1 month membership for them is I think S$120? So ya, this kind don't bother.

Ok I am lazy to recall all the good functions because I have been inactive on SA for a long time lol but you guys can check out this link:

https://blog.seeking.com/2014/11/04/...ts-difference/

My favourite function is actually the "Boost". What does the "Boost" do? I think for just less than US$30 you get 10 "Boost". Forgot the exact price already la. But the "Boost" will show you as a featured member on search page. Which means you will appear as the first 3-4 SB on the search page. ALOT OF DIFFERENCE. I remember I can get like 5 to 10 messages instantly from clicking the boost and have got lucky too. Imagine like 1 boost is US$3 then I meet someone who gives me a few thousand for that month lol.

And noo, I do not post revealing sexy photos of myself and I think this is one of the reason why I have met quite a number of quality SDs. These quality SDs has never asked to see my body pics over chat (Yes they are respectful like that. Face yes, but I have always declined for discretion). You do not wanna pay for something that many people has "seen" it for free. So I suggest keeping it classy.

Personally I find that SDs (age 45 onwards) who prefers dating older women alot better and more experienced. The arrangement lasts longer too and it is more meaningful. No offence and even I myself is included in the old category as a SB. Those who have strong preferences for "tender grass" are usually those who will say stupid and disrespectful stuff.

The young category for SB is probably about 18-24? 24 years old onwards is not considered young anymore for a SB. But I am not ashamed of it and I don't think any SBs of that age range should. And definitely no need to play down our age just to attract these SDs.

I think TS is still in a "trying to figure out" phase so there is no need to put up unnecessary comments like "let SD trial" or "just be another FL" ya? If possible I am sure she also wants things to go smoothly.

Be kind

last paragraph is for sure. Just my opinion that if TS states her requirements clearly, it will save alot of needless msg or inquiries. Golden question of how much is not even stated.

[Panaceajuice]

Originally Posted by ExBro

Helping u bump for the weekend!

Thanks Bro!!!

[Panaceajuice]

To all the guys who emailed me in the past day....

Pls do allow me some time to respond. I need to clear the pile of emails batch by batch. Thanks!

[vivianward]

Originally Posted by BoLiang

last paragraph is for sure. Just my opinion that if TS states her requirements clearly, it will save alot of needless msg or inquiries. Golden question of how much is not even stated.

Trust me, put $10,000 also will have time wasters - people will accuse her to have golden vagina. Put $1000 also will have people who try to negotiate to $500. So there is no point stating how much she needs.

There is no price indicated (of course there is a minimum sale price) on items in a bid auction, item goes to highest bidder. Only qualified bidders are invited to the auction.

Price is sensitive and only experienced SDs will know what is the market rate. If someone can afford and is willing to pay TS more than what she needs, why not?

[BoLiang]

Originally Posted by vivianward

Trust me, put $10,000 also will have time wasters - people will accuse her to have golden vagina. Put $1000 also will have people who try to negotiate to $500. So there is no point stating how much she needs.

There is no price indicated (of course there is a minimum sale price) on items in a bid auction, item goes to highest bidder. Only qualified bidders are invited to the auction.

Price is sensitive and only experienced SDs will know what is the market rate. If someone can afford and is willing to pay TS more than what she needs, why not?

u cant lump everyone as one. Precisely there is no price indicated, so it is a matter of willing buyer willing seller. At least, if the requirements are clear, ppl like me wont even bother if it is out of my budget.

then it is a matter of filtering cheapos and time wasters.

[vivianward]

Originally Posted by BoLiang

u cant lump everyone as one. Precisely there is no price indicated, so it is a matter of willing buyer willing seller. At least, if the requirements are clear, ppl like me wont even bother if it is out of my budget.

then it is a matter of filtering cheapos and time wasters.

Aiyooo cannot please everyone one la. Just send her an email and see if you can afford her or not lor.

[jabwemet]

Originally Posted by curiouscatagain

Interesting POV you have there
Hello..! ^^
I am a wife ..(And No No No...I am not here to judge anybody or care to argue over other people choice of life). In case you wonder what i am doing here, I am just curious and like to observe and learn other people characters and mentality throughout many online forum.
Can say it is just a weird hobby (my husband said)

Ms. Vivian, I am very sure you are a super SB, super smart and super pretty bcoz many SDs willing to pay you lots of $$ and treat you like a queen, so u can firmly said "stick with your wife at home if you are "scared", $50.000/year means a little, and pretty sure that ALL girls want money for exchange for a fuck (correct me if I am wrong?)

I am here not for picking a fight and I am not here to judge whatever choice of life you are into for earning money.
I understand that some ladies are probably just lost their faith on the word "love" and "fidelity" so it is all up to each person
My husband is the type of a husband who "stick to your wife if you are scared" one...too bad tho. I grant him a green light to F any girls he wants with 3 terms and conditions but he never wanna use that privilege. How do I know? ^^ just say that I do..! perhaps love does exist?..LOL

Anyway..kindly allow me to disagree on you for saying giving a fuck = not free must give money and all girl if not asking money from a man is stupid.
I never ask a single cent from my husband when he only had earning less than $50K a year when we were dating and even after marriage, and now when his earning is $300K/year I still feel the same attitude and feel grateful that he works and earn hard for whatever amount of money he makes.

I earn more than $250k/year by myself (working and own a business), I am not bullshitting you dear Ms. Vivian. Several SBF brothers here know me personally and chat with me til this day through my phone. They know my daily activities very well and what i have.

dear Ms. Vivian and friends:
There are 4 ways to be rich in this world:
1. You marry the wealth (not you fuck the wealth)
2. You inherit the wealth
3. You Strike a lotto number 1 price
4. You work and earn the wealth

Unfortunately, I choose the hardest way, that is number 4.

I wish you all good luck and thank you for the opportunity to let me speak out my disagreement with you (matter or not matter). Thank you

peace bros and sis? if you feel like to zap me because of what I said here, I cant stop you but if you are be kind enough not to zap me, I am grateful! ^^

Your advice is really poorly worded and you did misunderstand Vivian’s post.
Sad to see such misunderstandings turn into a flame war.
I am a very senior Samster here so I alone can verify if you truly are rich or just #fakenews.
Please transfer $25k (10% tax for ‘Wealth verification fee’) to my account.

Also if you are not willing to provide proof of statements which tbh have no point except penis wagging, don’t bother posting it.

Enjoy the rest of the forum! Keep an open mind, ya! It helps! A lot of perverts here!

[BoLiang]

Originally Posted by vivianward

Aiyooo cannot please everyone one la. Just send her an email and see if you can afford her or not lor.

prefer not to add oil onto fire.

I rather buy you lunch!

[iceage]

Originally Posted by Panaceajuice

Thanks again for speaking up for me babe. You are a gem. <3

I had a pretty shitty experience in SA. Its Full of salt daddies who wanted ppm. And always see the same old salty daddies floating around cos they cannot find SB. (GEE WONDER WHY!)

I think maybe i will try the Premium membership and see if its better.

There are many good SDs too. Just that you dun see them floating around as they are quickly tied up with SBs. We usually dun apply to SB, we just invite them out for a meal and close the deal quickly if we find a match.

[vivianward]

Originally Posted by iceage

There are many good SDs too. Just that you dun see them floating around as they are quickly tied up with SBs. We usually dun apply to SB, we just invite them out for a meal and close the deal quickly if we find a match.

Agree with IceAge Don't take too long babe! Lol

[Panaceajuice]

Originally Posted by vivianward

Agree with IceAge Don't take too long babe! Lol

Agreed.

Those who are floating around in SA for months and months on end are just time wasters. Period.

[Panaceajuice]

Interesting observation so far:

Many guys expressed disinterest/ disgust/ anger when I told them for weekly arrangement, it will be non exclusive. Now, that does NOT mean I will be taking 10 or 20 or 30 guys. It just means it wont be only 1.

Otherwise u expect me to pay $300 for the hotel and not earn much? Or do YOU wanna pay $300 for the hotel on top of my allowance then?

So many guys refuse to commit to monthly arrangement, and damn scared of getting scammed. Want to only pay weekly/pay as u go. But violently reject the idea of sharing with anyone else. This is selfishness at its fucking best.

The gist: "I want to put my eggs in many different baskets and sample as many chicks as my budget will allow. But she is supposed to ONLY fuck me."

What makes u think a woman will put all her eggs in one basket when you are not?

Ever heard of quid pro quo?

Cant afford $2000 country club or $200 fancy gym membership? No problem, go to public pool lor. Nobody will judge u. But dont go to the public swim pool and pay only $2 but demand for exclusive use of the pool. Fucking absurd. Even country club also not exclusive use of facilities pls.

Yes then there are the guys who argue that this way I am no different from FL. Well. A REAL SD doesnt pay his SB per time/ weekly either so your point is?

[chaoslord]

Originally Posted by Panaceajuice

Interesting observation so far:

Many guys expressed disinterest/ disgust/ anger when I told them for weekly arrangement, it will be non exclusive. Now, that does NOT mean I will be taking 10 or 20 or 30 guys. It just means it wont be only 1.

Otherwise u expect me to pay $300 for the hotel and not earn much? Or do YOU wanna pay $300 for the hotel on top of my allowance then?

So many guys refuse to commit to monthly arrangement, and damn scared of getting scammed. Want to only pay weekly/pay as u go. But violently reject the idea of sharing with anyone else. This is selfishness at its fucking best.

The gist: "I want to put my eggs in many different baskets and sample as many chicks as my budget will allow. But she is supposed to ONLY fuck me."

What makes u think a woman will put all her eggs in one basket when you are not?

Ever heard of quid pro quo?

Cant afford $2000 country club or $200 fancy gym membership? No problem, go to public pool lor. Nobody will judge u. But dont go to the public swim pool and pay only $2 but demand for exclusive use of the pool. Fucking absurd. Even country club also not exclusive use of facilities pls.

Yes then there are the guys who argue that this way I am no different from FL. Well. A REAL SD doesnt pay his SB per time/ weekly either so your point is?

Chill out sis.

Fact is that there are alot of time wasters out there. Ranting on a public forum is however counterproductive in your search since this reflects a negative vibe towards a potential SD. Simply block and go. Don't waste your time in engaging them, ultimately they would have wasted their own time.

[jabwemet]

Originally Posted by Panaceajuice

Interesting observation so far:

Many guys expressed disinterest/ disgust/ anger when I told them for weekly arrangement, it will be non exclusive. Now, that does NOT mean I will be taking 10 or 20 or 30 guys. It just means it wont be only 1.

Otherwise u expect me to pay $300 for the hotel and not earn much? Or do YOU wanna pay $300 for the hotel on top of my allowance then?

So many guys refuse to commit to monthly arrangement, and damn scared of getting scammed. Want to only pay weekly/pay as u go. But violently reject the idea of sharing with anyone else. This is selfishness at its fucking best.

The gist: "I want to put my eggs in many different baskets and sample as many chicks as my budget will allow. But she is supposed to ONLY fuck me."

What makes u think a woman will put all her eggs in one basket when you are not?

Ever heard of quid pro quo?

Cant afford $2000 country club or $200 fancy gym membership? No problem, go to public pool lor. Nobody will judge u. But dont go to the public swim pool and pay only $2 but demand for exclusive use of the pool. Fucking absurd. Even country club also not exclusive use of facilities pls.

Yes then there are the guys who argue that this way I am no different from FL. Well. A REAL SD doesnt pay his SB per time/ weekly either so your point is?

Yeah ignore everyone except me.
I am the only non #fakenews here!