How to avoid catching feelings after FL say they miss you?

[eattoomuch]

Hi all.

I think i finally experienced an FL's attempt(maybe? sort of) in KCing.

So about a week ago on a saturday, i booked a girl from dome 1 and had one of the best experiences ever, in terms of service from an FL.

We exchanged contact and i thought that would be the end of it. I would probably just randomly message her after a few months asking when would she be returning.

After the session, she messaged me saying she missed me and asked me what i was doing. She even tried to call me but i didnt pick it up.

I eventually responded by saying that she doesnt miss me, but miss the money instead. LOL. I think she got triggered by that and she said she won't message me anymore.

After a few days, she messaged me again saying she misses me and wants me to come and find her. She even specified how many guys ask her out for coffee but she refused because she didnt want anything from them. She even gave me advise on how i don't trust anyone and i wont find any true love from this.


Bros, i would like to know what are the common things that FL will say in order to try and KC you, and how we can avoid those traps.

Because honestly, its hard to avoid the feeling like you are special to them. Im a newbie in chionging and i hope i wont catch any feelings with them.

[ilovepantyhose]

reduce the portion of carrots in your diet

dun eat too much

[loneyheart]

Ask her if she really missed u can she meet with FOC service result will be the ans

[cuscorex92]

if she had affection towards ya,made a story of tat u r in debt, can tell how 'affectionate' she is liao.

[jonnyboi888]

if you want to avoid being affected by their words..

i think all will agree..

the only advice for you is to


get your own life in order...


date girls. try and date girls.

focus on work and bring in bigger bucks.


FL are just FL. look at admin's signature as well..

FLs are for fucking not loving... the advice has been given by the forum admin, Sammyboyfor account..

[eattoomuch]

No choice.. I have been single for 10 years now.

Feel really lonely at times. I am a simple man. Only want love, affection and concern from another female.

[ilovepantyhose]

Originally Posted by eattoomuch

No choice.. I have been single for 10 years now.

Feel really lonely at times. I am a simple man. Only want love, affection and concern from another female.

pick up a new hobby or join a hobby group, get to know more people and make new friends

there is only one woman whom u receive unconditional love, affection and concern from: your mother, because of the mother-child bond

if u want those from another woman, what are u putting on the table?

[eattoomuch]

Originally Posted by TomMAffolter

sorry but you already make ur self NEEDY type craving for female affection and attention, so what ever we say no matter how logical will be one ear open and you will be thinking illogically with your penis brain.
Basically if you try 1000 different FL you will find that your "good service" is quite common, in the last 3 years i have try nearly 900 gals and in that sample size maybe 1/5 is GOOD but that is still nearly 200 gals.
basically a womans mouth and vagina is used by them to earn money or secure a comfortable life, nothing more, a woman can never love a man the way he expects. Men have a unrealistic expectation love for sake of love and they want to be loved even when they have nothing.
Women say such things but in practice love for the security and comfort a man is providing, not what he has done in past or what he may provide in future

I understand what you mean bro.. In fact, i think i am still relatively aware and in somewhat control of my feelings and havent fully let myself go..

Its just that i believe we all want to feel loved and cared by the opposite sex.. I am no different..

[eattoomuch]

Originally Posted by ilovepantyhose

pick up a new hobby or join a hobby group, get to know more people and make new friends

there is only one woman whom u receive unconditional love, affection and concern from: your mother, because of the mother-child bond

if u want those from another woman, what are u putting on the table?

Thanks for your advise bro.. I love my mother to death.. In fact, she is the only women i trust cause my heart has been broken by a few women whom i gave my heart and soul towards.


I think i am emotionally broken..

At this point of time in my life, i really have nothing much to offer to a woman.. I am not jobless, but i am still trying to build a good career from myself starting at the bottom..

I guess i have to remain this way for another 10 years untill there is something going on in my career where i am attractive enough to a woman

[brotherlim]

No matter how sweet or affectionate a FL is towards you, always keep in mind that there is a chance that they are only after your money. However, that being said you can try texting her or going out with her but just be weary and not fall into the KC trap.

[jenoroth]

Originally Posted by funboi

Read the Dark Side of Man.

Thai FL miss me 555555

I am more interested in your picture for your RAW adventures.

[summar34]

Originally Posted by eattoomuch

Hi all.

I think i finally experienced an FL's attempt(maybe? sort of) in KCing.

So about a week ago on a saturday, i booked a girl from dome 1 and had one of the best experiences ever, in terms of service from an FL.

We exchanged contact and i thought that would be the end of it. I would probably just randomly message her after a few months asking when would she be returning.

After the session, she messaged me saying she missed me and asked me what i was doing. She even tried to call me but i didnt pick it up.

I eventually responded by saying that she doesnt miss me, but miss the money instead. LOL. I think she got triggered by that and she said she won't message me anymore.

After a few days, she messaged me again saying she misses me and wants me to come and find her. She even specified how many guys ask her out for coffee but she refused because she didnt want anything from them. She even gave me advise on how i don't trust anyone and i wont find any true love from this.


Bros, i would like to know what are the common things that FL will say in order to try and KC you, and how we can avoid those traps.

Because honestly, its hard to avoid the feeling like you are special to them. Im a newbie in chionging and i hope i wont catch any feelings with them.

next time you visit her try to steal some money. see whether she'll miss you

[ilovepantyhose]

Originally Posted by eattoomuch

Thanks for your advise bro.. I love my mother to death.. In fact, she is the only women i trust cause my heart has been broken by a few women whom i gave my heart and soul towards.


I think i am emotionally broken..

At this point of time in my life, i really have nothing much to offer to a woman.. I am not jobless, but i am still trying to build a good career from myself starting at the bottom..

I guess i have to remain this way for another 10 years untill there is something going on in my career where i am attractive enough to a woman

its a general statement, on the other hand there are men and women who are fucked up parents

getting hurt is part of life, with such experiences u know what not to look for in a partner

its the way it is, men have to prove their abilities to provide before women choose them as their mates

[Bullshitlar]

Just say u got retrenched. No money already how?

[dahai]

Originally Posted by loneyheart

Ask her if she really missed u can she meet with FOC service result will be the ans

Well said bro haha