Some frens or relatives are pests and rely on others to feed them. They will just hope to get a free meal or loans. No way they will pay back.
Life is all about money and no way throw money at them even if money come from wazoo. Rather do charity to feed unknown needies.
Cheers.
Bro,
Difficult for STI to drop below 2,000. Perhaps we should start accumulating below 3,000.
Be fearful when others are greedy, and be greedy when others are fearful.
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Originally Posted by bigyellowbird
Bro WB
Just want to highlight GURU forum which u posted during back in boxing day 2011.
The guru was trying to determine those uncool moochers.
Just ignore these moochers and move on. Avoid them at all costs.
Cheers.
Bro, tks.
There are many moochers n freeloaders in the world. The scammers and cheaters are even worse though. They are all parasites.
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Originally Posted by Deceptive
Waiting for it to fall below 2000 too.
Bro WB, thanks for an awesome thread, have a fun weekend!
Bro, tks.
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Originally Posted by prcmm
Bro WB
Classic James Cagney and his charm with women. He was simply masculine and dance very well. His awesome display attracted many women in his life. Too bad he died 1986 but enough of his classic movies.
Humphrey Bogart was another marvelous characters who also fearless with women. His speech in that movie above charmed the librarian so much that she was stunted. He died in 1957 when many of us were not even born.
Your point for sexual mojo was well received and important part of dating. Losing weight and be fit also important mojo besides looking dashing.
Thank you for such a lovely thread.
Enjoy your weekend dear.
Bro, tks.
We must increase our sexual mojo and radiate sexual charm and energy. Cagney and Bogart were very short by Hollywood standards, but they had the right sexual vibrations.
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Originally Posted by prcmm
Let me quote some of the past compliments and comments for this excellent thread.
Bro WB deserved all the accolades.
Well done Bro WB.
May the force of syt keep you young and keep going for years to come.
Bro, tks so much for your extraordinary efforts. I'm working very hard to improve myself constantly, to search for my type of SYTs...
It's not where you start, it's where you finish that counts.
That is why I hv made the generous offer to bro Don Juan to bring me two "super chio" SYTs. I expect to be dazzled.
I hv waited over three years n he has vanished into thin air. I'm now making the same offer to ALL SAMSTERs. Just PM me. My offer has no expiration date.
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Originally Posted by naysayers
Bro WB
Another classic example of what happened in real life. Guy can be funny beings when met with match and just lost it.
This guy AD was just naive and needy. He should have remain cool and behave badass and the girl would have love him more.
I had seen two of friends in his situation and just totally gone bananas. Typical of irrational thinking.
Congrats to bro WB for been able to possess self-mastery. True that you do not need to tell her what you think but only give her hope. Is up to her to bite the carrot.
"You use your whole life to talk about love, then this love will not succeed; you use all your energy to fall in love, then you will be killed by people; you spend all your time in love, others will be annoying . Because of love, the more diligent you are, the more you invest, the worse the result will be. Only like a lazy person who grows flowers, love is ignored, and occasionally concerned, it will be fresh. The less you care, the longer you love. When a man doesn't love a woman, he can often make this woman fascinated. He thinks that he is a MAN, a special taste, a special romance, and he can control the overall situation. Women like to even worship such men because they feel that there is a feeling of a bird."
Have fun guys and take care!!
Bro, tks for your post.
Bro AD became a wuss n super nice guy when he got KC-ed by his special one. History is replete w/ such men. King Fuchai and King Edward VIII...
Here is a brief article on an interesting topic. Your comments!
WHAT TO DO WHEN SOME OTHER GUY TRIES TO TAKE YOUR
GIRL
There aren't many dating coaches who write about how to handle
potential conflict situations presented by other guys who have
their eye on the same woman you do.
That's probably because it's not a particularly fun or amusing
subject to talk about.
But the fact remains that you've got to know how to handle yourself
when faced with sudden--and perhaps obnoxious--competition.
Such sticky situations can take various forms depending on the
scenario, but today I want to cover a very specific one. It
happens to be the one that I'd say most guys dread the most.
Let's call it the "Cut In".
I'm sure you've seen those old-school movies where a guy and his
chick are dancing in the ballroom at some fancy party, when some
other guy walks up and asks the guy, "May I cut in?"
I've never understood that whole transaction, personally.
I mean, if it's a wedding and the bride's Uncle Pete wants a quick
dance with the bride because his train leaves in 25 minutes, that's
one thing.
But what d-bag who appears out of nowhere trying to dance with the
woman you're with is so polite about it?
And who in their right mind answers such a ridiculous question
affirmatively, right?
Well nowadays, at least, it would seem that when a guy would rather
HE be the center of a woman's attention than YOU, things tend to
play out a bit differently, even if his desired results are similar.
These other guys tend not to ask if they can "cut in". They just do.
The other day a guy scheduled some phone time with me specifically
to get my thoughts on THIS very issue.
"So Scot", he started, "here's why I wanted to talk to you."
"OK man, what's on your mind?"
"Alright, here goes. Let's say you're at some sort of party or
social event. You're talking to a girl, and WHAM...some other guy
literally steps in between you and the girl, just blatantly turns
his back to you and starts talking to her instead?"
Ouch, right? I think just about all of us have had that one happen
to us...and it SUCKS, doesn't it?
I mean, talk about feeling like the wimp at the beach who just got
sand kicked in his face. That's about as close to the non-seaside
equivalent as I can think of.
And I have to tell you, the guy asking me the question was a
military guy about six-feet tall.
So no matter who you are, there ALWAYS seems to be someone
cocky enough to impose his will upon you with his physical
presence.
That's the part that makes this such a difficult situation to handle
for most guys.
What in the world are you freaking supposed to do?
Well, here's the deal. There IS an answer to that question, and
it's the RIGHT answer.
Fair warning, though: You may or may not particularly like what
I'm about to suggest at first. But if you're willing to think about it
for a while it just might start making sense.
You see, 99.9% of all of us make a critical error in judgment the
moment something like that happens to us.
We make it all about US--how WE'VE just been disrespected, how
everyone much be watching US, and how WE are going to salvage
OUR dignity and feed OUR ego.
That's a big mistake because it almost invariably leads to a stupid
knee-jerk reaction.
Think about all of this for a second. What would you do?
For example, if some apparently overconfident guy who you think
you could "take" in a fight does such a thing, you might grab him by
the shoulder, spin him around and invite him to take a hike.
Heck, even if he's twice your size you may find the stones to do
the same thing.
But if the guy really is twice your size, you might instead find
yourself tapping him on the shoulder and saying, "Um...excuse me
sir. I was...um...talking to the lady there. I don't know if you saw
me, or um...whatever...so if you sort of wouldn't mind, um...?"
Or let's face it, you might just throw up your hands in frustration
and walk away...in shame.
Well, here's something I trust won't surprise you. NONE of
the options I've just presented are good ones.
That's right. Not even the one that sort of looks like you're
"defending your manhood".
What I suggest instead is stopping in that split second when
everything inside you tells you to "do something".
Instead, take a deep breath, get out of your own head and watch
the woman.
Her reaction to what's happening will tell you everything you need
to know.
What you're probably not thinking about in the heat of the moment
is that the other guy has not only just committed an aggressive and
downright rude act against YOU, he's committed one against HER
also.
What's aggressive and rude in someone's eyes is usually aggressive
and rude in EVERYONE'S eyes...or at least everyone who has
legitimate social skills, that is.
And where I come from, aggressive rudeness is contrary to
everything the "big four" represent. (At least, the last I checked.)
Since the "big four" qualities attract high quality woman, it follows
suit that what's contrary to them wouldn't, no?
So if you're patient for what amounts to a matter of a few seconds,
the woman will express distaste to the guy for what he did and tell
him to get lost, especially if she was enjoying her conversation with
you.
"Um...excuse me", she might say, "I'm in the middle of a conversation
here. How rude!"
And if the guy continues trying to talk to her at that point?
THAT'S when you can leverage the very real "power shift" that just
took place.
At that point YOU are the one who's back in the dominant position
with the woman.
You simply walk around the guy so you're standing next to the woman
and give him a look as if to casually indicate, "What, didn't you hear
her? How awkward for you, man."
Then you can let a smile cross your face as if you're trying to
restrain laughter.
Importantly, understand that it's that shift in the power position
that will cause the other guy to back off.
Things will not have turned out as he arrogantly expected them to,
so he'll likely make some lame excuse and pretend like nothing
happened.
Unless he's not right in the head, he's not going to get aggressive
with you for the same reason he's not going to continue running his
mouth: He already looks like an idiot and anything further would
only dig the hole deeper.
Every red-blooded man alive is violently allergic to that feeling.
And hey, if it turns out that he is in fact totally nuts, you simply take
the woman's hand and remove her from the situation. All bets are
off at that point.
So then, what if, on the other hand, you watch the woman's reaction
and she appears to LIKE talking to this other guy better, for some
crazy reason?
Let me assure you that this will NOT be the case a high percentage
of the time. But if it DOES happen, consider two very logical thoughts.
First, if she entertains such aggressive rudeness, you're almost
certainly dealing with a woman who would be a BAD choice for a
girlfriend anyway. You're better off without her.
But more importantly, you've GOT to conclude that if she DOES
allow the "cut in" to happen with her consent, she wasn't digging
your chili to begin with.
Chalk it up to the game and find a woman more worthy of your
conversation...without making anything of it.
"But Scot," someone said, "isn't that being a wuss?"
Listen up. I fully understand why you'd really want me to recommend
slapping on a set of brass knuckles and clocking the guy one.
But what good would that do you, really?
Never mind the age-old truth that "he who hits first gets the assault
charge". You don't want to spend the night in jail over this jerk or
this indifferent woman.
The real point is this, however. The first rule of not giving your
power away is that you can't "give away" what you never really had
to begin with.
If this woman didn't like you, there IS no "power", and there never
WAS any.
So then, even if you do try to break bad with the guy or somehow
salvage the conversation when the woman would rather be talking to
him anyway, what happens?
Give yourself a gold star if your answer is, "He'll stand beside
the woman, give you a look as if to indicate, 'What are YOU still
doing here?' and try not to laugh his head off."
There IS no "getting your power back" when she has no interest in
you, and that goes for any situation with a woman, by the way,
whether you've known her ten seconds or ten years.
The best move is to re-charge your personal power elsewhere by
moving on to a woman who is more interested.
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“知彼知己, 百战不殆。"
得失随缘，心无增减。活在当下， 分秒感恩。
I accept whatever is happening to me at this moment. I'm relaxed, self-assured, happy, thankful, and at peace NOW.
We must increase our sexual mojo and radiate sexual charm and energy. Cagney and Bogart were very short by Hollywood standards, but they had the right sexual vibrations.
Bro, tks so much for your extraordinary efforts. I'm working very hard to improve myself constantly, to search for my type of SYTs...
It's not where you start, it's where you finish that counts.
That is why I hv made the generous offer to bro Don Juan to bring me two "super chio" SYTs. I expect to be dazzled.
I hv waited over three years n he has vanished into thin air. I'm now making the same offer to ALL SAMSTERs. Just PM me. My offer has no expiration date.
Reading your thread gives me excellent in-depth knowledge of relationship and understanding more about my ownself.
I have plenty to learn from you and experts, gurus, etc.
Below are excellent meaningful words that can be the key to open the girls door locks.
What does every chio woman want n need from a MAN?
1) She needs to be respected by his man as a special n unique individual.
2) She needs to hv intimate, emotional communication n bonding w/ her man.
3) She needs an exciting man to make her feel beautiful, sexy, sensual, feminine...
4) She needs hot n passionate sex w/ her man. She wants to be seduced, enticed, teased n satisfied over n over again. She wants to experience new ways n new adventures n she wants to hv her sexual fantasies fulfilled...
I strongly believed I will be much better after reading.
Thanks for comprehensive topics in your thread.
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Originally Posted by warbird
I hv learned quite a bit in the last couple of yrs on RS, female psychology n sexology n on BY-ing.
I hv also diversified into BY-ing non-WLs.
For example, CL is not a WL. I also know a pretty PRC student in Senkang who doesn't work anywhere. She has been in SG for a month, but her student visa has been rejected by MOE? Her school has appealed on her behalf. In Nov last yr, when she went to Singapore Embassy in Beijing for an interview, she squabbled w/ the receptionist n was probably blacklisted. She would be a very good potential mistress. She is very sexual n open-minded n told me when she had a BF, she would like to make love everyday...
After reading many books, newsletters n listening to tapes, I would make an attempt to answer an age old question.
I must first state that most healthy women r incredibly sexual creatures n they hv awesome sexual potential n powerful sexual urge. This potential has been suppressed by social-religious conditioning. It takes a real MAN to activate n release this dormant potential...like a dormant volcano, hehehe.
What does every chio woman want n need from a MAN?
1) She needs to be respected by his man as a special n unique individual.
2) She needs to hv intimate, emotional communication n bonding w/ her man.
3) She needs an exciting man to make her feel beautiful, sexy, sensual, feminine...
4) She needs hot n passionate sex w/ her man. She wants to be seduced, enticed, teased n satisfied over n over again. She wants to experience new ways n new adventures n she wants to hv her sexual fantasies fulfilled...
Such a good MAN is difficult to find, even for a very beautiful n high quality woman.
Recently, I listened to an audio on "Want to hv more intimacy n sex in ur RS?" in which there was a dialogue between 2 Ang Moh gurus, a male n a female. Below is a brief summary:
3 Biggest Mistakes We Men Make When Trying to Improve Our Intimate RS n Sex Life w/ Our Wives/GFs/Mistresses:
1) We think that a new or superior technique can fix problems in our sexual RS. There is a place for technique, but u can't fix a RS problem w/ a sexual technique. There is such a disconnect from where the man is, mentally n emotionally, to where the woman is, mentally n emotionally.
2) We truly don't believe our partners like sex n so we approach sex by pushing, manipulating n coercing. At her core, a typical woman is a very sexual being...but her sexual potential has been constrained n even stifled by social-religious conditioning since a young age.
Her need for real sex is actually greater than a man's cuz her drive comes from her mind n her deeper need to connect, as compared to the more shallow n often urgent need to release which is the norm for a typical man.
3) We try to "nice " our way into more intimacy...but any good thing overextended becomes a weakness, even a disaster n by over extending a good thing, we may totally ruin our sex lives. We use niceness as a strategy to get sex. But it destroys everything a woman needs in a man to be turned on by him.
Any comments?
I don't completely agree w/ 3). Am I missing something?
Happy New Year - oops supposingly in our forum below.
Was reading with keen interest and stumbled upon below. Then made a search and found the story of "bigwigs" who face jail time. Did another check and only served 6 months jail time granted early release. His career is finished in this tiny red dot.
Miraculously the other one acquitted but still equally bad name.
What bro WB stated correctly must possessed self-mastery. Why worry there is no gal so long you have the masculine traits.
Knowing that certain emotions ( n resultant actions/ behaviour) such as anger, hostility, fear, jealousy, insecurity, shyness, guilt, timidity, etc. r extremely unattractive to gals/women n to everyone else for that matter...n, in some cases, may even put us in hot soup or worse. Yet most of us r unable to control our negative n destructive emotions.
If we don't hv self mastery n excellent emotional control, we r not MEN, but merely immature n pathetic little boys trying to be adults. We will get KC-ed when we don't want to be KC-ed n do things we will later deeply regret.
Let me give u an example.
I read w/ interest two former Govt bigwigs who hv lost their coveted n powerful positions n may face fines n get to stay free at Changi Hilton, hahaha.
The story is still unfolding but, from what I can gather, I think they granted some lucrative Govt contracts to a certain co in return for some perks n fringe benefits, but not much money?!
What is inexplicable is that they got seduced by the one n same pussy! What amazes me is that this woman is much, much older than ur average MILF. She is in her 40s n has two children!
C'mon, I understand that one man's meat is another man's poison, but losing such powerful positions, getting publicly disgraced n facing jail time, all for the same 40 plus yr old pussy which has given birth to 2 kids??
Fact is stranger than fiction. I don't get it! I seldom consider fxking, let along BY-ing, gals/women who r older than 25, despite the fact that I'm OLDER than these two disgraced jokers.
I surmise that these two hapless crowns had very strict, perhaps religious upbringing, had studied n worked hard...but, unfortunately, they hv had little real life experiences w/ a variety of pussies of their preferred type. In othe r words, hey had very few options, hehehe. Had they been SBF bros n read all my posts...
Yes, these two former govt bigwigs r immature n insecure little boys w/ zero self mastery n they r hypocrites as far as I'm concern.
Knowing what is the right thing to do n doing it r very different. That's why self mastery matters, n matters a lot.
After CL posted this in her QQ space:你用你的全部生命去谈一次恋爱，那这次恋爱必然不能成功；你用全部精力去谈恋爱，那你一定会被 人玩死；你用全部时间去谈恋爱，别人一定会嫌你烦。因为爱情这事，你越是勤快，投入越多，它结果就越差。只 有像懒人养花一样，爱搭不理，偶尔关心一下，才会新鲜。关心越少，爱的越久。当一个男人不爱一个女人的时候 ，往往能把这个女人弄得神魂颠倒，觉得他特MAN，特够味儿，特浪漫，特霸道特酷特能掌控大局。女人喜欢甚 至崇拜这样的男人，因为她们觉得有一种小鸟依人的感觉, she had not ctc-ed me for a wk. I thought she had learned her lesson. Good for her!
She hasn't. A few days ago, after I sent a msg w/ one word: 在, she has resumed her daily msg n voice barrages thru QQ. Can't blame her for hving no self mastery as she is only 17. The more I avoid her, the more she craves me...
I may not want CL to come to SG when she turns 18 in June cuz she could be trouble for me. She will be too sticky n needy...it's better if I go to meet her in PRC or HKG n spend short time w/ her.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Bro WB
Classic example above.
Don't be too hard up and just ignre gal after making your offer.
Great thread by bro WB, hope to learn more things here.
Cheers.
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Originally Posted by macking
Bro WB
Happy New Year - oops supposingly in our forum below.
Was reading with keen interest and stumbled upon below. Then made a search and found the story of "bigwigs" who face jail time. Did another check and only served 6 months jail time granted early release. His career is finished in this tiny red dot.
Miraculously the other one acquitted but still equally bad name.
What bro WB stated correctly must possessed self-mastery. Why worry there is no gal so long you have the masculine traits.
This bro posted a great forum. Think if not wrong Bro WB called him Mr Chairman.
Read and you understood why so many foreigners came to our little country to earn moolah.
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Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ
Bro, before I begin my post, I've been informed that my reply to you yesterday is a bit harsh???????
If it was, please accept my most humblest apologies as it was not my intention.
If at any 1 point you feel you've had enuff of me, just say it, not only will I not freak or go crazy, but I will accept your decision as well as still maintain that respect that everyone is their ship's own captain.
My theory is very simple, though many may not accept, but hey, I've yet to meet a failure. Maybe bcos I know when to pull the plug.
Tonight's escapade is totally a WIN to her.
Why?
1) She earned that 200 bucks
2) She didn't have to drink 跑台 and risk meeting jerks or colour wolves
3) She was brought to a night out of relaxation and R&R
For us to be players, not that I'm saying you're not, we must learn to tune our brain like theirs, then we will be able to read and anticipate every move they make and all the strategies they use and why they use them.
Here's my take on this situation from a WLs perspective
1) I'm here to earn $$$$
2) With him damn shiok, he's no colour wolf
3) He brings me for dinners
4) He bring me for movies
5) We go shopping
6) I call him when I'm bored and he'll keep me company
7) He never asks to bed me
8) He's so concerning & everything also can talk and nego
9) He never pushes me to do whatever I do not wish to
10) He's such a gentleman to me
11) I don't need to perform oral sex on him neither does he grope me unless I allow him
12) What have I got to loose, it's WIN WIN WIN all the way for me
Yes, money you may have, how much, it's really not important to me but, make it work for you.
Remember, no one comes into this line now in this day and age from PRC, ok, maybe 1% a total greenhorn!
If you still believe, then you already fooled yourself.
Most if all not that are here have already honed their skills in the motherland and mind you, I'm sure we as businessmen know that PRC men are worse of a sleazebag in many ways than we are.
As WarBird knows, my style is more of a MCP extreme, even at havelock & I'm sure you may even have heard of my rep there.
WarBird can be my witness.
Why are we here in this forum?
To discuss and to brainstorm on how to get the meat in the shortest time and the least $$$$$ invested.
But, many things need not be asked between gal & guy, sometimes it has to be initiated and all it takes is for someone to take the lead.
I saw your link & nope, I was not aware of the other post until you shared that link.
So my post last nite to you was based on all things equal.
Lonely you may be, bored you may be and read back what you posted.
You already justified all your activities with her, bearing in mind that this tree has bear no fruit for you.
As a bystander, i won't call friend cos i dunno u, i can read between the lines and say confidently, this is no WL to you in your eyes since a while ago.
Strongly suggest you do a refresher on what you wanted in the 1st place and focus on achieving it and not stray too wildly in the realms of KC.
Your posts, I can sense truth, so I can say, you're a nice guy and it's a good trait but be warned, WLs LOVE such people.
Be nice to deserving people but learn to put your foot down and say, ok, now this is the situation and we must blah blah blah!
Be the captain of both your boats if you want to see results.
Honestly, I can also sense your sense of being in limbo everytime after you send her back and pay her for her social escort services.
Well, like i said, we're our own ship's captain and I wish u all the best & hope you bring her to shore real soon!
Hope i didn't prick a nerve this time & if i did, apologies.
If u know me in person like WB does, you'll know the way I am in real life also sama sama, no BS, chop chop to the point whether offensive or not.
Great that you started another thread. However seem like the support in this thread is amazing.
Let's share more musings and stories of mackings.
Cheers.
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Originally Posted by warbird
Good morning!
I hv more musings on bedding KTV gals.
I started another thread on "KTV kakis" n I hv received many responses.
Some kakis r rich, others r not.
Let me stress that money is a prerequisite for getting into the pants of these PRC WLs, even for those who r regular gals n non-WLs back in PRC.
You need money to connect w/ them, then n only then u can give them COS n/or KC them.
There is another way.
If a bro has little money, the only way is to pick up a pretty gal outside KTVs n connect w/ her n develop deep rapport w/ her. Not knowing that she is a KTV gal or WL is an advantage.
Who knows, if u hv formidable self confidence/self mastery, a healthy sense of humor n, though still poor, u are a man going somewhere, dedicated to a definite purpose or path in life, a very chio SYT might just fall for u, hehehe. Of course u must give her regular COS no man has given her n never, ever be needy n can walk away from her anytime...kudos to u!!
BTW, hving real self confidence is abt improving urself, improving others n improving something. You r genuinely comfortable in ur own skin n hv NOTHING TO PROVE.
If u hv something to prove or like to show off, that is arrogance, which reflects ur innate insecurity n inferiority complex. Can't fool me, hehehe.
On the other hand, I hv some frens/bros here in SG n a few frens in Gotham City who r very wealthy. BY-ing a gal for 10-20K a month or hanging 10-20K flowers for a singer is like spending $10-20 for an ordinary "salary man," no, maybe only $1 for some of them, or even $0.10 for at least a couple of them. They want to keep as many chio gals as humanly possible. I dun expect hem to hv time to pick up or court any gals.
There r different paths to chio pussies, just like there r different paths to enlightenment, hahaha.
The "alpha male" most people come to understand is a self-centered, domineering, arrogant, aggressive n quick-tempered male. Such a male actually lacks self confidence n self mastery n has something to prove to the world. He tries to bed as many chio gals as possible cuz it gives him validation n boosts his fragile ego. Whereas a real MAN has nothing to prove. He has real self mastery n he wants to improve himself, improve others n improve everything around him...
A woman of strong character? Pls define such a woman.
Every healthy heterosexual woman, even if she is a fanatic feminist, is hard-wired to be attracted to a real MAN w/ masculine traits n formidable self mastery.
A woman displaying pervasive disrespect towards u??
Why r you still talking to her?? Pls walk out of her life asap even if u love her n truly believe that she is the most beautiful woman in the world. I'll say calmly n gently to such a woman as she is begging me not to leave n wondering what she should do n where she should go:
"Frankly my dear, I don't give a damn."
You know the rest of the story, hahaha.
If she is a PRC gal, this will be be my last words to her (delivered calmly n gently):
“坦白地说,亲爱的,我现在一点也不在乎（你的死活）.”
Be a MAN bro.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Bro WB
“坦白地说,亲爱的,我现在一点也不在乎（你的死活" - I don't really give a damn if you are alive?
Very interesting quote and meaningful.
This proves that you achieved shifu level.
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Originally Posted by Big B
Hi Bro WB,
I think we're thinking the same thing, just expressing them differently.
How about this then. Even if a person is the completely confident man as defined in your post, can this person say he can win every woman he desires?
The answer is no because there are too many variables to consider. Even the bad@ss that is Sean Stephenson can only win a certain category of gals (those who look for inner strength/beauty of which he is a highly evolved specimen).
What if a girl has too much pride to ever beg or show she needs you? Saying "Frankly my dear, I don't give a damn." heralds a complete end to a potentially viable relationship. Such a man chooses to walk away because a relationship of "almost" equals is not what he desires.
This dominant male wants to possess, own and control. Essentially, "my way or the highway." Push-pull techniques are simply lures to ensnare the unwary into falling in love with you. By the time the victim(s) realise it, the poison has already spread.
Letting a strong woman "appear" (I cannot stress this word enough) as the boss while you secretly pull the strings is a completely workable and successful technique. The power couple Bill (the thinker/doer) and Melinda (the charismatic "shock and awe" speaker/presenter) Gates is just one such example and they bring out the very best in each other.
So far, the ladies (and please forgive this presumption) you have conquered are:
- young
- potentially immature
- lacking in self-mastery (in comparison to you)
- money minded
To a MAN like you, this is the equivalent of sending lambs into the tiger's mouth. Fortunately, young + super chio SYTs are exactly what you are looking for. You can never fault a man when he is genuinely happy.
BTW, I have realised that my topic is on winning a true life partner that helps a man achieve self actualization. Nothing absolutely to do with "Picking up KTV gals outside KTVs" so I shall conclude my little diatribe with apologies for derailing the original intent of the thread.
What have you done goodpartner!!?
LOL
Big B
Bro Big B reply was a great forum.
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Originally Posted by warbird
Hi Bro Big B,
Even if a MAN has absolute self mastery, there will be many, many women (married women n those in love w/ other men, etc) beyond his reach. He is perfectly happy w/ that. Otherwise, there will be chaos...
No, I was not talking abt gals who r "proud," confident, poised, aloof, cool ...n never needy or overly possessive... they hv very attractive qualities, to me at least; I was referring to gals who display PERVASIVE DISRESPECT towards me. I couldn't walk out on them fast enough.
I know some men who get KC-ed by such "strong" n abusive women who show pervasive disrespect towards them, n chose remain in the RS, thinking that it's a potentially viable RS. It's not, n will never be. It's a very miserable RS for both partners.
IMHO, all healthy heterosexual women r attracted to a MAN w/ masculine character traits, high ranking on the Male Dominant Scale n strong self mastery. If You're such a MAN, u will attract ur true life partner, soul mate, true love, etc., not just a lover or mistress.
My mindset has changed radically since I started this thread in June of 2009.
Now I'm not trying to conquer anything or anyone, or to prove anything to the world. My singular mission n purpose in life is to improve myself, constantly n relentlessly, everyday n in every way possible, to improve others n to improve everything around me...
My interest in n focus on this thread hv evolved profoundly in the last 32 months n are not just abt picking up KTV gals or any gals or even man-woman RS. It's more abt self actualization, self discovery n SELF MASTERY. My RS w/ everyone else n w/ the world I live in is merely a reflection of my inner true self n my self mastery...
Your comments n criticisms will be appreciated.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Bro WB
Tour reply to him was another masterpiece.
Agreed with you that no matter how a man will not be able to conquer some girls because of bazi conflict.
24-09-2018, 11:58 AM
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