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Is love dead?
Sorry bros and sis, gonna be a long post...
Me and this girl are colleagues. We started working with each other 5-6 months ago and we became. We started texting each other every night and started sharing personal stuff about her life and background. She loves my corny jokes and I love seeing her smile and her laughs. At this point, I knew I am already in love and legit saw her as my future wife. So, around 3 months ago, I decided to man up. Told her I really liked her and asked if she sees a future with me during dinner. Take note, we are still just considered friends up until now. She replied saying she do have the same feelings for me too but its best if we just stay as friends. I asked her, "Why? Is there something wrong about me?". She said, she wants to marry a man who is more stable in his career with a better pay. Mind you, we were both on temp contracts and let's just say our pay is enough to survive. But I genuinely told her, that with the two of us being together, I believe we can overcome any obstacle. Told her I will work my hardest to become permanent or even find a better job with a higher salary. She told me that without a degree, our qualifications can only get us so far in terms of salary. At this point, I can see she started to tear up and saying sorry to me. She even said, "Love can sustain us now, but not in the long run". I hate that line but can't argue about that in the end. To lighten up the mood, I jokingly said, "Then I hope you marry a millionaire! ha ha" but deep inside my hear sank lower than the titanic. Ever since that week, she started to distant herself from me. The personal texts stopped and the talking was kept to a minimum at work. I kind of knew she wanted us to just be back to "normal" friends. This is where the worst part comes. Around early December last year, I found out not that she is in a relationship with some MNC manager. And from the sound of it, its serious as they are looking to find a suitable flat. It took her only a month and a half to get over me and find someone? I tried to talk to her personally and all she replied was ,"please leave me alone, I have a boyfriend now". At that moment, I knew there was no coming back for me. That's when I started to break down. Went on here and had bonk-spree for like 2-3 weeks up till the point it became unhealthy. To so called, "relieve" my broken heart. After all that crazy shit, now I just lay on my bed reading back our past messages when we were happy. Deep inside, I knew she loved me but I guess money is still the most important. Thank you again bros and sis for reading this long ass post. I know money is crucial in a marriage, but doesn't factors like love, personality take into account to? Is love dead now in this generation, especially within the younger generations now? I want to see her happy but its killing me seeing her with another guy. At this rate, I definitely have to switch once my contract finishes. |
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If the love for money is so much stronger than the love for u. I think it better to leave it bro. You should still be very young. No hurry
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at least u know she can't go thru thick and thin with u. move on
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Move on bro, she is not the one for you.
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Do me a favour will u? Now start working hard for ur future 5-10 years down the road come back to sbf and read abt this thread that u have started
U will realise what the hell were u thinking at tat time? Move on with ur life... u think it bother her if u feel sad or emotional? Let not bluff ourselves Cheers and a happy new year to u
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Agree with all the sound advice so far. TS is still young. There are plenty of suitors out there in the future. Unfortunately in life we can't control how others feel or think. We are all at liberty to choose our life partners. She chose the MNC manager. As a mature man, you should accept her decision, wish her well and move on. Yes, without a degree, you may earn less now, but if you don't give up and work hard, you will succeed.
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Imagine the guy she's with loses money.... You think she will stay?
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U've more than made up for it by pumping so many gals
If cannot get over it, just imagine it's her face when bonking other gals |
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I find nothing wrong with the girl who is just being pragmatic in this darn materialistic world of ours.
Morever TS say they were only but friend not the bgr type. 爱情不能当面包吃。 |
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Money might be impt but many do not see that true happiness is when you are with your the other half thru the good and bad times, regardless of how much one have. Having said that have 0 money is not possible as well, so must know the word contentment.
Liek some mbrs said here, focus on yourself first. Life is not only love or lust, there is alot more than that. |
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My view is love exist but you need to have minimal money to suvive. Between love and money, love is more important because in singapore, money can be made if you work hard. I guess the girl is either materialistic or she does not see potential in you, which only you and her know. I think if you are young, both of you can still work hard together and make life better together. I think you should take this as a motivation to work harder. You can always take a part time degree and still be able to progress if qualification is really important in your line of work.
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with money, life is easier
no money, life is challenging, it's likely that she has already filtered u out, hence the friendzone 人是现实的 there are plenty of fish out there in the ocean, pick yourself up and move on, this is not the end and this too shall pass |
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Got money, slp with woman. No money, slp with cockroach.
Like it anot, this is reality. U get to choose, so does she. Move on bro. Eventually u find someone more suitable than her. Today whatever things u lacking or doesn’t have, doesn’t mean u won’t have it in future. Just focus on yourself to be better. Cheers and jia you. |
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I think TS is understandably upset and probably looking for some sympathy.
But for those of us who are already older, perhaps a bit more battle scarred and hopefully just a little bit wiser...... The girl is admirable in stating upfront what she wants and not wasting your time (and hers). There is nothing worse than being cheated. She didn't cheat you. She is honestly saying, you don't meet her expectations. Sorry. Nothing wrong with that. I find her honesty admirable. Sorry if this is not the sympathy you're looking for, TS. In my younger years I too "lost" girlfriends to men who are older and richer. It's a stage in life, use the disappointment to be an even better man. |
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