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Re: Seeking for method to forget a 4 years Ex-FL PRC Relationship
Bro, you are hurting mainly because subconsciously - the 4 years you have invested into this relationship has evaporated and its causing you the pain.
Be thakful you never married her otherwise you will be in this same forum topic sharing with us how it all went South anyway. Judging from what you wrote - for her = it was all about the money - it was never that she loved you - she loved your bank account and wallet and what it/you could provide. Mercenary to the core. There is a saying "one door closes another one will open" and I am sure you will find someone worthy of your love soon cos based on what you wrote you are kind and charitable person with a good heart. Dont dwell on it - spend your time looking for a good girlfriend who is wife material, and in the future you will look back and thank heavens that you broke up with this girl. Good luck.
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Re: Seeking for method to forget a 4 years Ex-FL PRC Relationship
Just go out find another one... its a forest out there...
It take a new one to forget an ol one |
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A fit slim guy going around with a fat girl is a LOSER.. |
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Re: Seeking for method to forget a 4 years Ex-FL PRC Relationship
Bro TS, you kenna KC already.
Look at all the money thrown in and all for nothing. Cut your losses, take it as tuition fees for learning about life. Then, count yourself lucky not losing anymore. Many fishes out there in the ocean and not FL, ML or WL. Don't waste your life bro. |
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From what you say, i sense you pity her and try to justify her actions while looking out for signs that she has true feelings for you. Seems like you can't put a stop to this relationship by yourself, probably because you have invested so much emotion, time and money. Understanding "sunk cost fallacy" might help you sort out your thinking Take care and i hope you feel better, sooner |
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Totally agree!
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Re: Seeking for method to forget a 4 years Ex-FL PRC Relationship
Bro, please move on as i having the same problem. We need time to recover
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Re: Seeking for method to forget a 4 years Ex-FL PRC Relationship
bro, please move on as I having the same problem. we need time to recover
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1. Her parents are a bunch of gold-diggers. 2. She listens to them. C'mon man. 200k SGD bride price? Gotta buy them a house and a car? Dude, these are a bunch of vampires. What is the cost of living in China? They're expecting a major upgrade in their lifestyles just because you're marrying their daughter? What the fuck bro? Parents shouldn't be profiting off their daughters in such a manner. Yea sure if you can afford it, it would be a nice thing to do to upgrade their lives, but it should be something you want to do out of your own initiative, never an expectation. So here's the bottomline - it doesn't matter if this girl is a frugal person by nature. At the end of the day, she listens to her parents, and by extension, is a gold-digger herself. Quote:
Can you live with that? And c'mon man, obviously she's not going to quarrel with you. It doesn't further her agenda in any way. Will she get money for her parents by arguing with you? Nah bro. She's been with you for 4 years, you think she doesn't know how to push your buttons? Quote:
With the amount of money and effort you are spending on this girl + the fact that you don't seem to be a bad person, you can easily find a decent, down-to-earth local girl. Someone who is on the same wavelength and can communicate properly with you. Someone who enjoys the same things you do (other than sex). Someone you can build a life with. Not every romance has a happy ending. You have already invested 4 years, lots of money and effort on this farcical "relationship". I think its time to cut your losses and walk away. Ultimately, this is your life. Where do you see yourself in 5 years? Think about it. Good luck bro. |
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accept the fact u are kamlung, wasted 4 years of youth, time & $$$ on a street wild chicken prostitute. move on, find a job, find a life, volunteer in RC or religion work & u will ok |
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Re: Seeking for method to forget a 4 years Ex-FL PRC Relationship
[QUOTE=peanodood1337;18218889]Bro you've already tested her once. She has failed. And now you're thinking of giving her another test? Sounds like you're shifting the goal-posts for her to "pass". Just so that you can justify continue being with her.
Well said by bro peanodood1337. TS is only trying to justify his actions to let her pass! Love is blind and TS is too blind to see the whole picture that this relationship is toxic. I know TS feels very sad, depress, confuse and feels like dying right now. But trust me, TIME heals everything. Just give time more time! |
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Technically she isnt an ex-fl since shes back in the trade. But anyway those bros in HN chat grp will prolly know which fl she is. TBH for the life of me i will never understand how a man of means such as yourself can actually fall for such a girl.
I knew u bao her, but to the extent of entering a 4 year relationship with her and even intending to marry someone who has, in your words: "love to play, lazy to work, not smart and not good in talking" just befuddles the shit out of me. You only entered a relationship with her in the first place because of her being "good in sex and have a body which I always dream to bonk". But good sir, all looks fade in time, in the end what you want in a wife is her character and values. At least for me, and in my opinion that girl is sorely lacking. Its only been 2 months, no one can get over a 4 year relationship in that short time span. And imo, her looks and body were just average. With your deep pockets you could be bonking girls leagues above her in the looks department. idk how young you are, but just enjoy your life man. You have the means to do so. Dont beat yourself up or torture yourself mentally over her. Shes not worth it but then again, who am i to judge her for what she means to you? I dont know what memories or experiences you have shared with her, i dont know what she has done to reciprocate the time, effort and money you have spent in your relationship with her. But what I can safely judge is that her parents are disgusting pigs. I really wonder if you had the means to pay that exorbitant sum back when they requested it would you have agreed to it? To answer your question of how to forget her, im suggesting the only answer is time. Time heals all wounds, it may not heal fully but it will heal. Exercising or going around on a fucking spree dosent do much in healing the pain that you feel in your heart. Because it all gets meaningless after awhile, nothing can recapture the satisfaction and happiness that true love gives you. Maybe in a year or two you will come back to visit this thread and see how much you have changed emotionally and mentally. Or you might meet someone sweeter & younger than her who might recapture your heart all over again to help u forget her.
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Re: Seeking for method to forget a 4 years Ex-FL PRC Relationship
Save your money for hard times...
I've seen people who have it all - money, women - in the 90s Now begging for money... not enough to eat... These are just family members... |
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