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Old 15-10-2018, 08:28 PM
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Re: To annul or divorce

Divorced status not much diff nowadays. Too common. Ask urself how many people u know are d

Can annul better faster over time frame become a d issue more troublesome.

Even then after 3.5 yrs u going to buy over the house as a single or sell it are more issues to face.

Short term pain better long term pain. And dun forget after time frame of annul over if u caught in disadvantageous situation then prepare to pay a lot of $$$. So even more issues for u.

Best have a talk with ur wife and come to a mutual decision
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Re: To annul or divorce

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And I would also like to know what you guys think about the stigma of being a divorced man, is it going to be very bad for me in future finding a mate?

Because I know I can potentially "buy" my wife out of making the decision to drag.. what she wants is to i) recoup financial loss from returning the current flat to HDB and also ii) have a place to stay.

The question is how much is a 'single' status worth and how much I can afford for it...

Haiz.. sucks that I have to go through this because of a naive mistake I made.
YOU been burnt once you already think of jump in fire again, this issue is you want fast quick death or long agonisng death, you wife already doenst look to be steady and reliable, you want to risk 3.5 yrs of financial and emotional stress, 50k over 3.5 yrs not even 20k per year for potential harm.
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Thank you bros.. so far the sentiments is to end it asap, no one has said to recoup financial losses. The only way is through annulment, but it is tricky as it will also require her agreement. She is currently sitting on the fence on this one, unless her friends encourage her in the opposite direction.
Somehow she has quite a few friends who have either annulled or going through divorce. *should have been a red flag but unfortunately i ignored logic.

I hope it is not the case that if she doesn't agree to annulment, I will have no choice but to give in to her wishes and wait for 3.5 years. If that is the case, it is quite a shit situation to be in. I will check with my lawyer on this.




Cleyeo also mentioned the same concern.
3.5 years is not a short time, she might change her words when it comes nearer to the sale and want to fight for more share.
Thanks for pointing this out. Looks like I will have to bring this up with my lawyer when I meet him.

Thanks bros for contributing.
Have u ask lawyer if u can annul? Annulment from my knowledge if u r married less than 1yr. And since u have hdb it might not be possible but only for divorce.

If u r worried she back out on her words, thats where d seperation deed comes in. Thats y u need to do the deed now so 5yrs up, u can carry on d divorce as per d deed.
Once deed is done u can carry on ur life, she as well. No need to be anxious. Even u have another gf outside, u dont even need to worry.
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Have u ask lawyer if u can annul? Annulment from my knowledge if u r married less than 1yr. And since u have hdb it might not be possible but only for divorce.

If u r worried she back out on her words, thats where d seperation deed comes in. Thats y u need to do the deed now so 5yrs up, u can carry on d divorce as per d deed.
Once deed is done u can carry on ur life, she as well. No need to be anxious. Even u have another gf outside, u dont even need to worry.
Annulment is valid within 3 years of marriage.
Its quite complicated. Usually its either special case or both parties have to agree to the annulment. Special cases like spouse left sg for at least 2 yrs and uncontactable; spouse has been married in another country before your marriage; family violence; etc.
For special cases, annulment can even be done > 3 years of marriage. Example: spouse has been married in another country before your marriage. Because the marriage took place before your marriage, by right your marriage shouldn't even be valid because the law does not allow a person to maintain 2 valid marriages. So in this case even 50 years later also can annul.
Got hdb or not is not important in annulment case. Important is both parties agree what will happen to the flat after annulment, or if anyone party can even keep the flat.
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