Lost in a difficult marriage

[Greenfrog]

Originally Posted by AUDIFANSG

lol not to add salt to your injury but i feel girls who don have respect for their husband/quarrel often with their husbands are more likely to eat outside.on the bright side you are also eating outside so its even. on the serious side kids are often the most affected by divorces. My kid loves me a lot and i can never imagine letting him experience wat a divorce feels like.

on the other hand, single parent kids mature faster.

[Stimsia]

TS
2 strangers coming to live under one roof is never an easy thing. Fate bring the two of you together.

What did you see in her in the first place?
Focus on that and you may bring out the better her.

What did she see in you? Accentuate that.

Women tend to be emotional compared to guys.
Maybe something is troubling her outside and she let go on you? What is family for. To be taken for granted..
When she start to flare, instead of retaliating, maybe say something to the effect
" i know you are angry now. Can we resolve the issue? What do you recommend?"

Maybe try to restart the courtship process. Bring her out for dinner. Buy her flowers.

Of course 3rd party cannot comprehend the real situation. I can only reference from news about stars divorce. If can resolve, by all means maintain the marriage for the children. When all else fail, again for the sake of children, it might just be better to separate instead of letting the kids constantly facing toxic situation.

Note
With smartphone nowadays, there is no reason not to set alarm for important dates?