Angry with spouse but spouse's birthday coming

[Hunkydunky]

What will you do?
Imagine you had a bad quarrel with spouse, then spouse's birthday coming. Would you celebrate spouse's birthday?

[poi123]

If you want prob free in the family and no headaches for yourself, you see what u need to do.. 床头吵床尾和..

[EtherC]

Makeup sex , go for it! Nothing like a good tumble to end the grumble.

[Hunkydunky]

Ok.. you all don't seem to understand the situation.
If it's so simple... i wouldn't be posting such question here.
Bad quarrel means it's already in bad situation...might divorce anytime...

[Xgenre]

So what if the birthday is coming? So what if the birthday is not coming? The most important question you need to ask is if you wish to save the marriage. If the answer is yes, planning for the birthday is less difficult. If the answer is no, you have bigger issues to deal with.

[bignehneh]

Originally Posted by Hunkydunky

Ok.. you all don't seem to understand the situation.
If it's so simple... i wouldn't be posting such question here.
Bad quarrel means it's already in bad situation...might divorce anytime...

What issue u facing? Quarrel can mean a few things and also due to what cause?

(1) money issue
(2) sex?

[peeboy75]

Your question really damn bo liao... if you want to save your marriage, then celebrate... If not, then don't celebrate la... wah lao...

[sexcision]

Originally Posted by peeboy75

Your question really damn bo liao... if you want to save your marriage, then celebrate... If not, then don't celebrate la... wah lao...

Agree, divorce is already on the plate.
Do you want the divorce? You want to make up? If u want than size the opportunity try to plan a simple birthday celebration to make up. If not why bother?

Also, TS no head no tail write a simple question and expect ppl to understand your situation?

[178noobnoob]

Originally Posted by Hunkydunky

Ok.. you all don't seem to understand the situation.
If it's so simple... i wouldn't be posting such question here.
Bad quarrel means it's already in bad situation...might divorce anytime...

TS, if you need help or advice, at least provide head and tail.
You post such a generic question, we can only give you generic answer or standard answer.
Not that we do not want to help. But how to help if we were not furnish with the story.

Hope this clarify.

[kurtis]

you do celebrate your friend's birthday, right?

what's wrong with celebrating the birthday even if divorce is on the plate.

take it like a man.

[Osimi]

Originally Posted by kurtis

you do celebrate your friend's birthday, right?

what's wrong with celebrating the birthday even if divorce is on the plate.

take it like a man.

Agreed bro. A simple celebration, that's all.

[Apollo]

TS if you still want to solve your wife's problem yourself then celebrate ... if you want bros here and there to solve your wife's problem, dont do anything ,,, so simple

[hijav]

If going to divorce, why do you need to pose such a stupid question?

You got more impt things to settle like getting a good lawyer, settling your claims etc

[sammyhunk]

Originally Posted by Hunkydunky

What will you do?
Imagine you had a bad quarrel with spouse, then spouse's birthday coming. Would you celebrate spouse's birthday?

How old are you? This kinda question still need to seek for advice. Hello. Its your own marriage leh. Do what you think is good for your marriage.

[Datingafter35]

Originally Posted by Hunkydunky

What will you do?
Imagine you had a bad quarrel with spouse, then spouse's birthday coming. Would you celebrate spouse's birthday?

I had several issues with my ex wife. In the end as long as she don't make you wear green cap. (that's the last straw that broke my back)

I think it is salvageable. She let you piak her face still not happy. Doesn't matter. Buy her ice cream or cake or something like a food she likes. Never buy her things. I made the mistake of buying too much things.

Unless you are wealthy. Your eligibility as a man diminish with age.

I can still attract women but mostly waistline bigger than mine. Cannot accept.