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Re: So you want a FB, or just a ... date?

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FB, FWB or quite simply, you want a date...

It's not that hard, and what's holding you back is frankly not:

A) not being rich
B) not having a car
C) being good-looking

If you believe what's preventing you from getting one is any of the above, quite frankly you are just looking for excuses. Anything you can use to excuse yourself for FAILING.

Getting a date/fb is far less daunting than you think,subject to the usual caveats (eg if you have no money, no looks and no nice car, you should probably not expect to get a date or a sex session with somebody who is obviously OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE). Yes, this shit happens.

But if you cut your clothes according to your cloth so to speak, there is NO reason why any of you guys should not get a date/FB.

I have seen many other guys here giving good advice on how to score, but I have seen even more giving terrible easy-to--accept advice that is as easy to digest as it is untrue designed to make you give up without trying.

You guys do not deserve to be alone. You can break out of that cycle.
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Re: So you want a FB, or just a ... date?

Each individual is so unique that you might come across a girl who prefers to make the decision or take the lead.

Better to be flexible like a wise man once said,

"Empty your mind, be formless, shapeless, like water. If you put water into a cup, it becomes the cup. You put water into a bottle and it becomes the bottle. You put it in a teapot it becomes the teapot. Now, water can flow or it can crash. Be water my friend
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Re: So you want a FB, or just a ... date?

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Each individual is so unique that you might come across a girl who prefers to make the decision or take the lead.

Better to be flexible like a wise man once said,
Yes, every individual is unique. But hopefully guys won’t take you too literally and think they’re gonna find someone ‘who prefers to make the decision or take the lead’ because there really aren’t enough of such women to go around for the guys who are waiting around.

Most women just prefer having the man take the lead.
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Re: So you want a FB, or just a ... date?

The opening line, as far as social interaction apps go, that is...

And I think where many guys don’t even get beyond (this is coming from reading another thread by Unsung of his formidable exploits):

The initial engagement needs to be polite, and most importantly engaging.

A dick pic, or an invitation to have ‘fun’ (according to the ridiculous male definition) is definitely not it.

It is not enough to be polite. Your introduction needs to be engaging, and to an extent, thought provoking.

Obviously a ‘hi’ will not suffice because the only way to rely to a hi, is with a plain hi back. And women, tend to get so many that ‘hi’s’ automatically get trashed. Even good intros get trashed, so you want to minimise the chance if that happening.

Ask them something that’s:

a) specific (to them, or to you. Which is is would depend on their profile vis-à-vis yours)

b) it must not be too open ended. You’re the man, online, women expect you to lead the way. In rl they may end up asking all the questions, but initially it will be up to you to ask the right questions

c) do not compliment them on appearance right off the bat. Any half decent looking female will get so many insincere compliments about their looks that another one won’t mean anything unless you’re frighteningly witty about it.

Women love compliments, but they can easily tell when it’s blatantly insincere because that smacks of a horrible combination of laziness and desperation.

d) it has to pique their interest enough such that they will allow you a little bit more into their lives. At the very least, they must decide very quickly whether you are intriguing enough to be worth replying to, or just as boring as the last guy who messaged them.

No one can tell you what that line is, because

1) it’s our fucking line and we aren’t gonna share it with you, and

2) only you can make your line come to life because it will have been built on either what you are, or what you’re after

Go get creative.

As every dating website will tell you, and my guess is you haven’t actually researched any if you’re reading this for advice, you don’t get a second chance to make a first impression.

So learn and practise making it count or carry on getting nowhere.
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Re: So you want a FB, or just a ... date?

Just a quick tip, trying to befriend women online is like classic advertising. Always be testing! Heard of A/B testing? Yes, that applies for dating too! Try to come up with several opening lines, rotate them and see which one gets more/better response. You will find one or two and stands out from the rest. The point is, don't be lazy dude!
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Re: So you want a FB, or just a ... date?

Wow this is really gd advice... I esp love the part about being proactive. Sg men love to say anything u decide I hate it even though I do want a say on where to go... I hope more guys will put into practise what u advice bcoz frankly u r right when u said everyone has needs it’s just who to give to....
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Re: So you want a FB, or just a ... date?

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Just a quick tip, trying to befriend women online is like classic advertising. Always be testing! Heard of A/B testing? Yes, that applies for dating too! Try to come up with several opening lines, rotate them and see which one gets more/better response. You will find one or two and stands out from the rest. The point is, don't be lazy dude!
Q(uoted)F(or)T(Ruth). QFT.

Not directly related,but I remember an IKEA (sg) ad many years ago.

It was about some gangsters trying to get some guy to reveal the location of a certain item.

And the guy being ‘interrogated’ said: ‘我不知道’. And ‘我真的不知道’ (I don’t know followed by I really don’t know) and the camera panned to his apartment which was completely cluttered like a karang guni house.

And I thought that ad was fantastic and I’d love to have a chat with the people behind it. Not only was it funny, it was incredibly suggestive. And that’s what every opening pm/dm should be: interesting/funny:challenging yet suggestive of something more. And the only way to achieve that is to have something of your own.
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Wow this is really gd advice... I esp love the part about being proactive. Sg men love to say anything u decide I hate it even though I do want a say on where to go... I hope more guys will put into practise what u advice bcoz frankly u r right when u said everyone has needs it’s just who to give to....
Again truly, it is shocking how little men want to take the initiative which gives any guy willing to put even an ounce of effort such a big head start.

So for those of you guys willing to step out of your comfort zone even a little, your odds increase dramatically.

And it really really helps to be passionate about something. A man who’s passionate about something, anything is simply more interesting than a man who shrugs his shoulders and isn’t passionate about, or interested in anything at all. Besides copulation with a female.
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Re: So you want a FB, or just a ... date?

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Again truly, it is shocking how little men want to take the initiative which gives any guy willing to put even an ounce of effort such a big head start.

So for those of you guys willing to step out of your comfort zone even a little, your odds increase dramatically.

And it really really helps to be passionate about something. A man who’s passionate about something, anything is simply more interesting than a man who shrugs his shoulders and isn’t passionate about, or interested in anything at all. Besides copulation with a female.
Probably because most of us are conditioned to be a follower so not being comfortable to stick your head out and truly lead. And sometimes SG women can make you feel intimidated as a man due to their bahavior as independent, capable gals.

But deep down, most (or nearly all) women wants a man who leads. A man who makes her feel like a woman, want to be a woman, and act like one :-D
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Re: So you want a FB, or just a ... date?

Heyyo! Newbie here. I got a question guys...how d’you know if girls on dating apps are open to FB/sex or not? Because many girls are truly there to make friends/find a serious rs and I hate offending them by asking otherwise...
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So you want a FB or just a date

Hey, Tahlia. I know this is the games board, but this thread does have a topic, so could you please stay on it? If you want to spam, go in shout spam.

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Heyyo! Newbie here. I got a question guys...how d’you know if girls on dating apps are open to FB/sex or not? Because many girls are truly there to make friends/find a serious rs and I hate offending them by asking otherwise...
You ask them whether they’re keen to let you fuck without commitment from you and see what happens lor. Girls love feeling like they’re only being used for sex after all right?

I mean I don’t know if anyone actually asks a question like that. It’s like asking to be slapped.

Make it a point to never make promises, or give false assurances that you are looking for a life partner, or even a long term relationship that can lead to marriage or something like that. I make very sure never to even hint at that even if they ask outright.

And then it’s up to them. Don’t presume you can think for them. What they want to find is up to them, what they can accept is also ip to them. What is up to you is what you can offer.

Finding one who won’t feel some sort of emotional attachment to you would be hard though. Most women just can’t put out for a guy unless they have at the very least nice warm feelings about the guy.

That said, best steer clear of those that clearly want only a serious relationship if that’s not what you want at all now.
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Re: So you want a FB, or just a ... date?

It’s been a stressful day for me, so I’ve decided to come update this thread just for kicks.

This is probably a bit more advanced, but a something most experienced guys already practise, but more often than not unconsciously. For less experienced guys, doing this may actually require some thought and planning.

And what I am referring to is this, harnessing the power of suggestion. This brings to mind a fabulous Ikea TV spot I remember from maybe 15-20 years ago.

There’s this man being interrogated by a bunch of bad guys who are trying to get him to reveal the whereabouts of a certain item.

Said man denies knowledge of where item is. The baddies ask again, more menacingly this time.

The guy says ‘我真的不知道’ (ie I really don’t know) in a somewhat drawn out exaggerated tone, and the camera pans out to the rest of his apartment, and iris a total mess, almost like a karang guni house.

It was brilliant. At no point did the ad exhort you to go to IKEA and buy anything. But because everyone already knows IKEA is in the business of furnishing, the implication is clear:

IKEA can help you clear up your mess. It is never said, never even implied yet totally understood.

In terms of dating, I suppose it works like this. You don’t ask a girl or a woman out by promising them a good or interesting time.

Because in prior communications, you would already have suggested it. Subliminally and unconsciously. That when you ask them out, you already know the answer will be yes.

Because you had previously already ‘suggested’ to them that they will enjoy it. And they feel that way already because that is a big part of the goodwill you will have built up with them already.

There are several ways to build up this goodwill, or 好感 towards you. Certain techniques are very, very effective as a finisher or clincher.

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