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then my elder sister know of my situation, told me to be hard hearted for once to end it or else it will never end and i end up sufferring. she gave me an awakening life lesson. we break up, commit suicide, hurt herself or what is not our fault. they themselves decide to hurt themselves physically. end i i took my sis advice broke up whatever threat etc i ignore end up she never do anything just carry on with her life. after more life experience, people who guilt trip to get what they want? toxic people. u need to get that person out of your life. |
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No mortal has the power to tell the future correctly. Only what our ancestors, whom are flawed beings but through trial & errors, & found the right path for progress for descendants - we today -can we learn from, to never take another Human life for granted, more so those whom loved & cared for us.
We Humanity had progressed for millennia. Thanks to our courageous forefathers, today we are able to communicate at light speed, to share thoughts & feelings. While such tech had been abused by others, many MORE benefitted through genuine heartfelt thoughts to others. Singapore is a progressive nation, & sadly, due to survival as a mere island state, we made many sacrifices that other nations need not do so as they have backyards to rely on. We don't, & not everyone can earn fortunes easily. Our forefathers understood such, but it did not stop them from experiencing love & love to others - to family & one's own kids, to relatives & friends & thus our todays, thank to their sacrifices. We each today, must NEVER take another fellow Human for granted. It is love that compels us to reach heights that we never know achievable. In marriage, the vows made must be kept, no matter the circumstances & need to find solutions to resolve & keep the vows true, or we will only dishonor ourselves, & our very words meaningless to another. It is only comprehensible that the meaning of love to a male is different to a woman. Love comprises more than just sex act. It comes with higher responsibilities - to start civilization & is the foundation that civilization is built up - the care, the concern, justice, peace, progress, etc. For males, it's just an itch to be relieved, but for females, it is the need to be wanted, to be desired & never to ditched after the male's itch is relieved. She too needs security. Without females, there would be no males. It's only science. Thus both male & females are partners and NEVER to be taken for granted. It's not just about the sex acts, but care & concern, to never be taken for granted. The internet was meant for the progress of Humankind, to keep in touch always. Just a simple text of care & concern will go a long way to keep our female partners happy:- The english lingo is versatile & one needs not send the same text daily or else it will be meaningless as no effort is applied. Many other version or variations in the same or different language will help keep the partnership alive & vibrant. |
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I did all I could believe me. I suggested that we take days off for couple dates but he just say no time. I bought lingerie and stuffs and I do keep myself attractive. But it doesn't work. There's no initiative from him at all and he doesn't kiss me passionately nor touch me suggestively. But now the problem is I feel like I want to cover myself when I'm with him. I don't feel comfy being naked in front of him. Let alone initiate now. I think it's too late. Even if I continue my marriage it'll be like this no sparks. Ill do my duty as a mother but I don't feel attracted to him at all. In fact, I feel disgusted sometimes. No doubt yes he is my husband but I feel like he is my brother. |
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And I honestly like him v much. We have this connection that I cannot find with anyone else. I have lotsa guys in convo but I don't find this chemistry like with him and likewise he with me. I keep on because I love this being in a relationship feeling. And that I sometimes hang on that also perhaps I can make his life happier by just making him his favourite cookies and soup. Which he doesn't get at home. (在外面偷吃 literally *laugh* ) but of course as I have said I'm in a fix..many times I called this off but its him who is pulling me back by stalking me in all my social media and he knows where I live. I'm just afraid he will meet my husband face to face |
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I am trying..I'll try talking to him 1st
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Sounds like you got to put your feet down and establish boundaries. Sex without strings, how many times a month, etc.
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From my personal experience, you can't maintain this.
Once a guy falls in love with you, they can't go back. |
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Thanks Qwerty6969 for responding & your further thoughts. It was unexpected, at least by me as most that we helped usually dont respond back, & can only presume that they had found solutions either here or elsewhere.
My heart goes out to you both - you & your lover. Love is a power that compel us to great heights of achievements in life, or it can burn us to cinders, to undescribable depths of despair that we may not be able to get out from, if not properly managed & controlled. Take 5 - calm down & chill out, for a few days & think issues thru when quiet time permits. There is no hurry. Often, solutions & what needs to be done will come after some time of retrospective deliberations. We mortals have free will, but it comes with responsibilities & consequences to others. Thus we have to choose wisely. So long as the consequences & responsibilities are made known, for sure then a wise decision can come forth...even painful as it is... to be together or be parted.. Realities of life is no fairy tale... All the best to you, your lover, your husband who loves you & to all your kids & future... |
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There will always be better guys/girls out there at sex, blame it on the lust where no one escapes that? HAHAHA.
Once someone signs the marriage certificate, it is equivalent to signing your whole life down to a specific set of rules that you shall follow as a human being which is governed by the law. Hence, the law makes you guilty of adultery and so forth. As TS has already registered and signed the ROM, should you be following the oath and law set by the Government OR would you rather go back to the primitive ways of fucking like animals following their own lust is entirely up to your choice. That being said, no amount of reasoning with regards to husband/wife is unable to satisfy hence committing adultery will be deemed valid as per the current rules/laws set by the Government. HAHAHA. Last edited by sbwow; 30-03-2023 at 09:37 AM. |
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So this whole wanting to leave him is just one big load of nothing and self-deception.
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