Frequency of Sex of Married Couple

[alea]

Just wondering how many bros here have “ren4 ming4” that your wife will never be sexually active? How to live with it? I find myself very resentful towards her for denying me this basic need. Sigh...

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by alea

Just wondering how many bros here have “ren4 ming4” that your wife will never be sexually active? How to live with it? I find myself very resentful towards her for denying me this basic need. Sigh...

Empathize with u bro... share the same sentiment as u... any husband in yr situation will feel the same way.. sigh, so many wives still denying their husband's sex .. but wat u mean by "ren4ming4"??? ... will up u with my +16 points later

[qwaszx_1235]

Originally Posted by alea

Just wondering how many bros here have “ren4 ming4” that your wife will never be sexually active? How to live with it? I find myself very resentful towards her for denying me this basic need. Sigh...

Bro i totally feel u

[alea]

Originally Posted by Rickey

Empathize with u bro... share the same sentiment as u... any husband in yr situation will feel the same way.. sigh, so many wives still denying their husband's sex .. but wat u mean by "ren4ming4"??? ... will up u with my +16 points later

Ren4 ming4 in Chinese means to accept that it’s sad fact of your life, and that it’s never gonna change.

[maxman]

Many men have been fooled and scammed!

Wedding cake is the best food for less sex. Frequent sex is not guaranteed in marriage, and even in cohabitation, and very often, the sex eventually reduces and is handed out like dog treats. Don't get married.

Here's some good listening and advice for men!

Don't Get Married


The Marriage Racket


Financial Freedom From Women


For those who aren't aware, in western countries, especially Canada, US and Australia, MGTOW is a lifestyle choice that seems to be gaining awareness. It stands for Men Going Their Own Way, but for easier understanding, some call it Men Guarding Their Own Wallets. Men who choose this lifestyle reject marriage, cohabitation, not helping women financially, and avoid having children, because these can legally screw, financially ruin, and psychologically destroy, men when the relationship or marriage ends. The family court often favours women, and men often bear a heavier financial penalty when the marriage ends.

According to Google analytics, among all Asian countries, Singaporeans appear to be the most aware of the MGTOW lifestyle with the most number of searches, ranking around 12th in the world.
https://trends.google.com/trends/exp...te=all&q=mgtow

[Choon Peng]

[QUOTE=maxman;19208520]Many men have been fooled and scammed!

Wedding cake is the best food for less sex. Frequent sex is not guaranteed in marriage, and even in cohabitation, and very often, the sex eventually reduces and is handed out like dog treats. Don't get married.

Here's some good listening and advice for men!

Don't Get Married


The Marriage Racket


Financial Freedom From Women


For those who aren't aware, in western countries, especially Canada, US and Australia, MGTOW is a lifestyle choice that seems to be gaining awareness. It stands for Men Going Their Own Way, but for easier understanding, some call it Men Guarding Their Own Wallets. Men who choose this lifestyle reject marriage, cohabitation, not helping women financially, and avoid having children, because these can legally screw, financially ruin, and psychologically destroy, men when the relationship or marriage ends. The family court often favours women, and men often bear a heavier financial penalty when the marriage ends.

According to Google analytics, among all Asian countries, Singaporeans appear to be the most aware of the MGTOW lifestyle with the most number of searches, ranking around 12th in the world.
https://trends.google.com/trends/exp...te=all&q=mgtow[/QUOTE

In that case we need to eat outside to satisfy our urge?

[yourslovingly]

Newly married 1st year one night 7 times.
2nd year 3 times.
3rd year 2 time with 1yo baby.
4th year 1 time.
Now at free times only. 😆 Because both need take care of babies.

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by Rickey

Empathize with u bro... share the same sentiment as u... any husband in yr situation will feel the same way.. sigh, so many wives still denying their husband's sex .. but wat u mean by "ren4ming4"??? ... will up u with my +16 points later

Originally Posted by alea

Ren4 ming4 in Chinese means to accept that it’s sad fact of your life, and that it’s never gonna change.

Thanks for the explanation n clarification bro ...sorry unable to up your points again as i hv upped you b4

[maxman]

Marriage is like a honey trap scam?


Is Marriage Worth It?
(women marry up, tend to look for a better deal, women get cash and prizes in divorce; family law is often unfair to men)



The ROI On Chasing Excellence Versus Chasing Women
(you could make yourself better and richer chasing excellence for yourself)



Brutal Truth About Hypergamy & Social Media
(like a radar, women are often scanning/looking for a better richer man, even on social media, and if the opportunity arises, may cheat and dump you to secure that better richer man)



Don't Chase Women
(you're elevating her status and giving her pussy power over you)



Relationships Do Not Work
(some women love falling in love but after that honeymoon stage dump men because the daily grind has set in)



MGTOWs Have More Money!
(more money and freedom being single)

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by maxman

Many men have been fooled and scammed!

Wedding cake is the best food for less sex. Frequent sex is not guaranteed in marriage, and even in cohabitation, and very often, the sex eventually reduces and is handed out like dog treats. Don't get married.

Here's some good listening and advice for men!

Don't Get Married


The Marriage Racket


Financial Freedom From Women


For those who aren't aware, in western countries, especially Canada, US and Australia, MGTOW is a lifestyle choice that seems to be gaining awareness. It stands for Men Going Their Own Way, but for easier understanding, some call it Men Guarding Their Own Wallets. Men who choose this lifestyle reject marriage, cohabitation, not helping women financially, and avoid having children, because these can legally screw, financially ruin, and psychologically destroy, men when the relationship or marriage ends. The family court often favours women, and men often bear a heavier financial penalty when the marriage ends.

According to Google analytics, among all Asian countries, Singaporeans appear to be the most aware of the MGTOW lifestyle with the most number of searches, ranking around 12th in the world.
https://trends.google.com/trends/exp...te=all&q=mgtow

Originally Posted by maxman

Marriage is like a honey trap scam?


Is Marriage Worth It?
(women marry up, tend to look for a better deal, women get cash and prizes in divorce; family law is often unfair to men)



The ROI On Chasing Excellence Versus Chasing Women
(you could make yourself better and richer chasing excellence for yourself)



Brutal Truth About Hypergamy & Social Media
(like a radar, women are often scanning/looking for a better richer man, even on social media, and if the opportunity arises, may cheat and dump you to secure that better richer man)



Don't Chase Women
(you're elevating her status and giving her pussy power over you)



Relationships Do Not Work
(some women love falling in love but after that honeymoon stage dump men because the daily grind has set in)



MGTOWs Have More Money!
(more money and freedom being single)

Like tis article posted by bro maxman ...omg !!...so very true, every word written in them about MGTOW...unmarried bros, beware

[kaks]

Originally Posted by alea

Just wondering how many bros here have “ren4 ming4” that your wife will never be sexually active? How to live with it? I find myself very resentful towards her for denying me this basic need. Sigh...

Me. Resentment yes, lots of that. After that comes acceptance. For me, without sex, there is no longer love. Denying me that was hurtful and affected my ego.

Nowadays it’s just like friends getting along under the same roof. For the sake for the family, these friends stays together. That is how I see it.
When you finally accept it, it’s all about taking care of yourself and your needs.
I just outsource and enjoy myself in the process.if I can get a fb, or find another lover, I will do it without hesitation.

[alec]

wah... that friends living under a roof. I absolutely feel you. I jus felt insecured in this relationship without the dates and intimacy. So if i can't get it at home i will have to outsource it. She'd want me to do self development instead of wanting to be intimate and such.

Originally Posted by kaks

Me. Resentment yes, lots of that. After that comes acceptance. For me, without sex, there is no longer love. Denying me that was hurtful and affected my ego.

Nowadays it’s just like friends getting along under the same roof. For the sake for the family, these friends stays together. That is how I see it.
When you finally accept it, it’s all about taking care of yourself and your needs.
I just outsource and enjoy myself in the process.if I can get a fb, or find another lover, I will do it without hesitation.

[cashstar1213]

After reading this thread, i don even want a gf much less get married. Rather stay rich and single and have all the freedom in the world. But sadly i m no handsome man so o well.

Agree with all the videos that bro maxman posted. Very very realistic and true The toxic nowadays is for girls there is no loyalty (Of cuz not all but for those still good-natured, 95% are taken). They can be your gf now and nxt moment a richer and more handsome guy comes around, bye bye.

And then u got all the girls doing FL, sleep around for the excitement. Once they reach say 30 and realize they are out of demand, they will jus become good girl and marry a dumb man for monetary stability. Of cuz when they get questioned:

Dumb guy: O how many relationship u had before?
Girl: One. I m dedicated to u for my whole life from now on [Of cuz she slept with god knows how many random strangers]

Life goes on.

Marriage in this era is like a monetary transaction, sadly.

Jus my thoughts, no hard feelings and peace!

[maturehero]

Originally Posted by Katie956

I think compatibility in bed is very important. And it keeps the flame in relationship going. So I always make an effort to bbbj him and make him enjoy the process. It is also my way of preventing infidelity as I dont wan him to tell me one day that he cheat bcos I didnt satiafy him or give him enough sex. Hopefully it works.

Then again, me too have my needs so when he is busy, i will just satisfy myself at home.

You are such a perfect role model for wives. I wish that my wife is also like you. Men really need sex, and if he don't get it at home, he'll find it elsewhere, especially in this day and age where outsourcing is quite easily available.

Many times when I'm rejected but my wife, I feel weak and also want to go outsourcing, but I really don't want to and feel very conflicted.

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by maturehero

You are such a perfect role model for wives. I wish that my wife is also like you. Men really need sex, and if he don't get it at home, he'll find it elsewhere, especially in this day and age where outsourcing is quite easily available.

Many times when I'm rejected but my wife, I feel weak and also want to go outsourcing, but I really don't want to and feel very conflicted.

Well said bro, most bros here would say the same thing as you... so sad isn't it??.. all wives shd be like sis Kathy .. so no more such problems for husbands wanting sex with their wives...