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If u have the opportunity to be invited into the "interview room", u will be surprised to see north, south, east, west ppl inside and send back too.
yup...including religious preachers, porn actresses, rock stars, etc...
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Re: Issue with ICA

I have a case of mine to seek advice. In Feb 2013, my wife (not gf then) was caught in street with a client, so suspected being a WL and deported. A year later, me being new and naive try to bring her in to ROM (alr gf status). No surprise, she was refused entry and I was heart broken. A uncle ICA officer at office (kind of pity me) told me she was banned 3 years. We endured, we got marrried in vietnam in 2016. We have the vietnam marriage certificate legally.

The ban had been 5 years, but alas I still failed my most recent appeal in Mar 2018. I been appealing like once every year. My MP also wrote letters to support each of my appeal. My employment payslip (>5k/mth), notice of marriage, my CPF statements, income tax, even my Bx barista course completion cert all duly submitted with the usual form 14A, V39I, passport copies etc. But ICA still not convinced to lift her ban entry. We are fearing itís a life ban. We want to start family here (also stated in appeal letters). We are puzzled, what went wrong, and stuck at how to further increase the success rate. Any kind advice will be much appreciated.
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We are puzzled, what went wrong, and stuck at how to further increase the success rate. Any kind advice will be much appreciated.
We won't know what your wife actually did causing her arrested but u were brave to get married with uncertainty, maybe due to love.

The chances of your wife coming into SG is very low. Meantime, look for a job opportunity in VN and plan more trips there. Save up and start your own biz n stay there....

Try to appeal regularly, who knows ICA might change and approve her. All the best and lucks.... u will need a lot of these.

A lot fake marriage abusing the privilege causing ICA to tighten up a lot.
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I have a case of mine to seek advice. In Feb 2013, my wife (not gf then) was caught in street with a client, so suspected being a WL and deported. A year later, me being new and naive try to bring her in to ROM (alr gf status). No surprise, she was refused entry and I was heart broken. A uncle ICA officer at office (kind of pity me) told me she was banned 3 years. We endured, we got marrried in vietnam in 2016. We have the vietnam marriage certificate legally.

The ban had been 5 years, but alas I still failed my most recent appeal in Mar 2018. I been appealing like once every year. My MP also wrote letters to support each of my appeal. My employment payslip (>5k/mth), notice of marriage, my CPF statements, income tax, even my Bx barista course completion cert all duly submitted with the usual form 14A, V39I, passport copies etc. But ICA still not convinced to lift her ban entry. We are fearing itís a life ban. We want to start family here (also stated in appeal letters). We are puzzled, what went wrong, and stuck at how to further increase the success rate. Any kind advice will be much appreciated.
Not surprised because you are a local man marrying a vietnamese. Sorry to say it sounds racist but have you considered How different it will be if you are a local woman marrying a caucasian?
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I have a case of mine to seek advice. In Feb 2013, my wife (not gf then) was caught in street with a client, so suspected being a WL and deported. A year later, me being new and naive try to bring her in to ROM (alr gf status). No surprise, she was refused entry and I was heart broken. A uncle ICA officer at office (kind of pity me) told me she was banned 3 years. We endured, we got marrried in vietnam in 2016. We have the vietnam marriage certificate legally.

The ban had been 5 years, but alas I still failed my most recent appeal in Mar 2018. I been appealing like once every year. My MP also wrote letters to support each of my appeal. My employment payslip (>5k/mth), notice of marriage, my CPF statements, income tax, even my Bx barista course completion cert all duly submitted with the usual form 14A, V39I, passport copies etc. But ICA still not convinced to lift her ban entry. We are fearing itís a life ban. We want to start family here (also stated in appeal letters). We are puzzled, what went wrong, and stuck at how to further increase the success rate. Any kind advice will be much appreciated.
I suspect you didn't give us the full story. Any ban longer than 3 years will be based on the severity of the offence.

If I am you then I will work in Singapore and build family in Vietnam. You can visit Vietnam every 2 weeks.

Vietnam economy is booming and if you have a legal Viet spouse, you can apply for spouse resident card and allowed visa to stay for at least 6 months.

Invest in Vietnam property and sure you become rich faster than you work in Singapore.
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We won't know what your wife actually did causing her arrested but u were brave to get married with uncertainty, maybe due to love.

The chances of your wife coming into SG is very low. Meantime, look for a job opportunity in VN and plan more trips there. Save up and start your own biz n stay there....

Try to appeal regularly, who knows ICA might change and approve her. All the best and lucks.... u will need a lot of these.

A lot fake marriage abusing the privilege causing ICA to tighten up a lot.
My guess, she was caught with pants down in the hotel. So love is blind and we cannot say what is "love"....

He is earning SGD >5k and not easy to get a job paying that well in Vietnam...

He needs to have babies to get his appeal strengthen becos gahmen look at babies as core family values. Gahmen also understand babies need their mothers...

His case now without babies after marriage since 2013 will be viewed with "suspicious" since no babies....
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Not surprised because you are a local man marrying a vietnamese. Sorry to say it sounds racist but have you considered How different it will be if you are a local woman marrying a caucasian?
I disagree with your views...my friend married a Viet 2 years ago and she is now a Singapore PR holder....oh they also had a baby more than a year old...

Moral of story - marry the right spouse...why marry a WL...
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I disagree with your views...my friend married a Viet 2 years ago and she is now a Singapore PR holder....oh they also had a baby more than a year old...

Moral of story - marry the right spouse...why marry a WL...
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Not surprised because you are a local man marrying a vietnamese. Sorry to say it sounds racist but have you considered How different it will be if you are a local woman marrying a caucasian?
My wife had her 1st application of LTVP approved within weeks and was given LTVP+. Before she had her LTVP+, she regulars her in and out of SG.
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A good gal that was brought up morally upright....no tainted record anywhere...

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Right spouse...

Yup...friend spouse given LTVP within a month and then LTVP+ when she was pregnant...PR approved last year after baby born...
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A good gal that was brought up morally upright....no tainted record anywhere...



Right spouse...

Yup...friend spouse given LTVP within a month and then LTVP+ when she was pregnant...PR approved last year after baby born...
Nice... my friend will be very interested to scold you.
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Nice... my friend will be very interested to scold you.
haha...do you mean I said the right things and will get scolding...

anyway cannot be bothered with what ppl say...
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Hey bros,

Anyone knows what happens to FL ladies after they are caught?

A FL told me that she got caught and is getting her visa renewed every week. According to her, this can go on for years.

Wanted check if any bros out there can validate the story.

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Anyone knows what happens to FL ladies after they are caught?

A FL told me that she got caught and is getting her visa renewed every week. According to her, this can go on for years.

Wanted check if any bros out there can validate the story.

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bro, many similar cases here if you did bother to read....

in brief...she will be allowed to stay pending investigation...once investigation over and she committed nothing wrong then she will be deported and banned from entering Singapore for indefinite number of years depend severity ...
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A FL told me that she got caught and is getting her visa renewed every week. According to her, this can go on for years.

Wanted check if any bros out there can validate the story.
FL words, u can trust only 10%. When she tells u, she needs money, she indeed needs money. When she tells u, her buffalo is sicked at home and needs to see a vet, she is lying.

Yrs?? She must have committed a serious crime and should be squatting in prison instead of spending yrs in SG renewing visa ... she might be caught for selling sex, police will deport her within days or weeks but not yrs. It is silly to believe in her.

Not telling the truth, lying is highest prestigious of a FL.
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