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Old 25-03-2023, 10:40 AM
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Study: Why do guys cheat?

If you have a great partner who gives you her time and commitment nevertheless satisfying your needs. Why would one cheat despite the above mentioned?
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Re: Study: Why do guys cheat?

Sexual temptation is very hard for me to resist

How difficult?

Powerful men with everything to lose from sexual indiscretions still commit career or family suicide every single day over some pussy. Or cock.

It doesn't help that men can be totally unfeeling when it comes to sex. Hard for many women to internalize and many a woman has insisted that a man who loves one woman cannot be sexually unfaithful.

That's just not true.

He meant it as a joke but there is so much truth to the saying that a man is only as faithful as his options allow.

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Re: Study: Why do guys cheat?

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If you have a great partner who gives you her time and commitment nevertheless satisfying your needs. Why would one cheat despite the above mentioned?

I have a good quality car which fulfill my needs. But no I still yearn for a Porsche, an Aston Martin and perhaps a Bentley.
I have 3 pairs of good shoes which fulfill my needs from casual to formal settings. But no, I still yearn for another 20 pairs
My mum always prepare home-cooked meals which are both nutritious and tasty. But no I always yearns for outside food.

It’s not that difficult to understand why people cheat. We are now living in a world of abundance. Temptations and options are unlimited. Life in developed countries is like a buffet. Would you want to try everything or only limit yourself to just 1 dish.
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If you have a great partner who gives you her time and commitment nevertheless satisfying your needs. Why would one cheat despite the above mentioned?
Your scenario does not reflect the reality as actually now more females are cheating on their partners. But many of these cuckoos greenhats are forced to remain in the marriage as divorce is not an option to them due to the WC.
As a PI.... sometimes I wonder why they engage us to find evidence of the betrayal but refuse to follow up with further action.
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If you have a great partner who gives you her time and commitment nevertheless satisfying your needs. Why would one cheat despite the above mentioned?
I think somehow it's the need to feel young and wanted again. The pator feeling. Cos after being married for 15 or 20years, there's frankly nothing much to talk about too. It's always the topic of children(if any) or paying bills and worse still if living with in laws there's stress in everyday life. Or worse if there's no sex at all for years, of course there's a need to go eat elsewhere.

Take it as a way to distress. And make belief with another person completely different from ur spouse or somewhat similar but different at the same time.

No doubt the guilt though...sigh
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Re: Study: Why do guys cheat?

Girls are usually tempted when love exist or there are some monetary benefits. However in my case, I choose the former. I believe that with love, I can overcome alot of things in life. Love cupid isn't on my side this time but I guess I will have to reorganise my life again. Greed is what men is about
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I satisfy his needs so I don't understand why this happens
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I satisfy his needs so I don't understand why this happens
It's not just the frequency of sex.

Like any male monkey, a human male wants to have sex with a lot of different females.

The only way to avoid this is for a couple to have a sex life so exciting that the man's brain-penis combo gets tricked into thinking it is fucking multiple females.

I saw in interview once where a Chinese woman said that the true test of a man loving his wife is that he never allows himself to get caught. Or ever again after the first time. A perspective that no doubt divides opinions.
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I satisfy his needs so I don't understand why this happens
maybe you can share more about what exactly happened?
those bros who can relate with his situation can help you understand better
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Re: Study: Why do guys cheat?

Sex is like food to man If everyday eat chicken rice will also get sian Can U imgaine what is like to eat chicken rice 24/7 for 50 years!!!! So even if they know they will lose their woman/wife if kena caught, they would still try if got opportunities
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Sex is like food to man If everyday eat chicken rice will also get sian Can U imgaine what is like to eat chicken rice 24/7 for 50 years!!!! So even if they know they will lose their woman/wife if kena caught, they would still try if got opportunities
Everybody quotes this eating the same thing everyday for men, but women also get sick of eating the same thing every day but incidence of women seeking men purely for sex outside of marriage is far lower than for men.

If women got bored enough of the same vanilla sex with one partner to seek out other men just for sex like men do, surely there would be

a) a lot more male sex workers catering to women than there are currently, or
b) multiple sex partners for every man?

Yet as we all know, there are probably one hundred female prostitutes catering to desperate men for every one male prostitute catering to straight women, and a few men get most of the sex and most men struggle to get even one pussy without having to hand over his money.
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Girls are usually tempted when love exist or there are some monetary benefits. However in my case, I choose the former. I believe that with love, I can overcome alot of things in life. Love cupid isn't on my side this time but I guess I will have to reorganise my life again. Greed is what men is about
Just happened to listen to this song. Suits your situation perfectly. Just give a good cry and forget it. The world doesn't wait for anyone. No point finding out. HAHAHA.
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Just happened to listen to this song. Suits your situation perfectly. Just give a good cry and forget it. The world doesn't wait for anyone. No point finding out. HAHAHA.
You would have aggravated my current emotion
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You would have aggravated my current emotion
Good to hear. That means I would be right on track to hitting the right emotion. HAHAHA.

So what if you found out why do guys cheat? What can you do about it?
Prevent yourself from getting hurt again? If so, how do you prevent it?
Situation might look perfect now, how do you know it won't change in future? HAHAHA.

First question in my Hardest Questions FFA thread below is similar to your question and even broader in scope, no one has answer to this, Not Even google has answers. HAHAHA.
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