What is an affair? Advice pls

[VoicesWithin]

Curious question. If a married man frenches, hug, kisses, fingers the pussy. But never use his tool to penetrate the woman i.e no sexual intercourse no oral sex, is it still called an affair?

Disregard the emotional aspect. Woman can be FL or friend or business entertainment at a night club.

Please give your own opinion as applied to yourself. Not an impossible standard. Thanks!

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by VoicesWithin

Curious question. If a married man frenches, hug, kisses, fingers the pussy. But never use his tool to penetrate the woman i.e no sexual intercourse no oral sex, is it still called an affair?

Disregard the emotional aspect. Woman can be FL or friend or business entertainment at a night club.

Please give your own opinion as applied to yourself. Not an impossible standard. Thanks!

To me, an affair is simply a married man or woman meeting occasionally with each other or with an unmarried friend of the opposite sex outside secretly for some fun and loving time together esp for such fun things like TS mentioned like hugging, frenching, kissing, fingering pussy. Need not go as far as to have actual sex to be called an affair...my 2 cents worth of tot...hope this helps TS clarify

[Jamesjack]

having an intimate relationship that your wife and Gf don’t know should be consider as an affair. And you started to tell lies to excuse yourself from your wife or gf to meet them.

[VoicesWithin]

Thanks for the feedback. Dont mean to argue. But have you guys gone on business entertainments where the night club girl sits on your lap to kiss you and gyrate on you. And u have to play along bec the biz associates you are entertaining are there? It is intimate. But like this also called Affair? Then how to do business???

[Capricorn69]

Affair is when you go for regular fucking session with a woman who is not your wife

[VoicesWithin]

Originally Posted by Capricorn69

Affair is when you go for regular fucking session with a woman who is not your wife

No sexual penetration then not affair?

[iluvbreast]

Originally Posted by VoicesWithin

Thanks for the feedback. Dont mean to argue. But have you guys gone on business entertainments ..... But like this also called Affair? Then how to do business???

No lah bro, an affair is when you have a relationship with another woman, the fundamental difference is there are feelings involved....

Then it is not just a simple matter of paying for intimacy, you start to buy gifts, spend time time to make the other woman happy....something like that

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by Capricorn69

Affair is when you go for regular fucking session with a woman who is not your wife

and vice versa...a woman who go for regular meeting and fucking session with a man who is not her husband ...hehe...works both ways

Originally Posted by VoicesWithin

No sexual penetration then not affair?

No no...already explained to you mah ...see the bro's very good explanation below too ...ain't it clear enough ??

Originally Posted by iluvbreast

No lah bro, an affair is when you have a relationship with another woman, the fundamental difference is there are feelings involved....

Then it is not just a simple matter of paying for intimacy, you start to buy gifts, spend time to make the other woman happy....something like that.. and vice versa

[Kyrosh]

If you ask this kind of question on a sex forum, can you even trust the answers you're getting? or do you have an answer in mind and you are just looking for people to tell you what you are already thinking?

If you flip the situation around: if your wife french, hug, stroke the cock of another guy, will you consider that cheating?

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by Kyrosh

If you ask this kind of question on a sex forum, can you even trust the answers you're getting? or do you have an answer in mind and you are just looking for people to tell you what you are already thinking?

If you flip the situation around: if your wife french, hug, stroke the cock of another guy, will you consider that cheating?

Yes, definitely is "cheating" even if no actual sex occurs

[Mambotan69]

an affair is an relationship outside of your ongoing relationship.
no sexual intercourse can also consider affair.

Originally Posted by VoicesWithin

Curious question. If a married man frenches, hug, kisses, fingers the pussy. But never use his tool to penetrate the woman i.e no sexual intercourse no oral sex, is it still called an affair?

Disregard the emotional aspect. Woman can be FL or friend or business entertainment at a night club.

Please give your own opinion as applied to yourself. Not an impossible standard. Thanks!

[poi123]

Originally Posted by iluvbreast

No lah bro, an affair is when you have a relationship with another woman, the fundamental difference is there are feelings involved....

Then it is not just a simple matter of paying for intimacy, you start to buy gifts, spend time time to make the other woman happy....something like that

Very agreed!! When feelings developed, its an affair.. F and pay up is getting service..

But from woman’s perspective, everything with girls are affair.. depends on the woman character

[coldshower]

Affair usually links to feelings and leads to emotional cheating. In the eye of the law, having an affair = physical cheating or penetration.

But in the eye of your girl, emotional cheating = affair already.

As for those grinding and kissing during biz ent, as long as your girl can understand, all is well.

[kenneth21]

in my opinion an affair is defined if

1) you go out with someone of the opposite sex but do not dare to tell your wife.

2) that you did something with the person which you would not dare tell your wife too

basically as long as you have something to hide, something is wrong

[VoicesWithin]

Originally Posted by Kyrosh

If you ask this kind of question on a sex forum, can you even trust the answers you're getting? or do you have an answer in mind and you are just looking for people to tell you what you are already thinking?

If you flip the situation around: if your wife french, hug, stroke the cock of another guy, will you consider that cheating?

Actually the truth is I dont mind. Some of us wish we have a hotwife that does that. As long as she keeps me informed, and her heart still belongs to me, she can go sleep with Tom, Dick and Harry. Best if all 3 together. Share with me the FR. Come on, ask the bros here. Most of us happy only. Mai kay kay lor