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Seeking for method to forget a 4 years Ex-FL PRC Relationship
Hi all,
I am seek ways to forget her and even after 2 months the feelings is terrible. Sleepless night, no mood for any thing in life, frequent mood swing. I believe all these stories all senior bros have heard before. Mine started about 4 years ago and nearly got married with her till a recent quarrel and I stop my finance with on her and hope she will come back and admit her mistake. In the end all waste wrong, she went back to old trade....I know all of you will scold me for being stupid and I really must admit I am a pig in relationship. Love means unconditional love. I can forgive the past but not present. All senior bros will know who am I talking about as this use to be a FL under Haonan and she work merely for 3 weeks and I fall in love with her. I understand she is in debt and offer her to pay off her debts of RMB$170K in return she will quit serving customer. Of course during her stay in Singapore we had very good times and we really love each other so much. I visited her in shenzhen for past 4 years and very month I will go 1 or 2 times for a stay of 5 days or more. I even met up with her parent to negotiation on marriage. She is 23 years old 4 years ago and character is love to play, lazy to work, not smart and not good in talking. She in only good in sex and have a body which I always dream to bonk. First year of relations, she started to work in shen zhen and change several jobs due to unable to take the stress and workload. I gave her a monthly expenses of SGD$1500. We will arrange for frequent travels to nearby country not requiring Chinese to have a Visa. We been to Bang kok, phuket and bali. the first year pass with happiness. 2nd year of relationship started with I encourage her to open a shop since she is too fragile to work. Top open a shop at shen zhen long hua district cost me RMB$400K. Proofs to be a nightmare, the rental is RMB$9K with monthly losses for 1.5 years. Due to this, I have to increase her expenses to SGD$2.5K per month. I also encourage her to study english so that she can live in Singapore. Enroll her for English class which course me RMB$60K and in the end she cannot cope and never finish the course with still worst then primary school level of English. Coming to end of 3rd year and I am thinking of settling down with her and arrange for a trip for her to come with her parents to Singapore. I am quite culture shock that in fact I do not know I need to provide a house costing RMB1m+, bride price of 1M and a car of RMB300K. She is from hubei and that area have more man then women. Everyone is paying high price for bride there. I started to negotiate which does not get me any where. So I ask for time as I have recently bought 2 industrial property and 1 condo which left me with not much cash on hand. Due to the poor market situation now, property prices has all dropped. Another nightmare was her last trip to SG this year was sent back by ICA as she came the 3rd time this year. I have sent appeal very 3 months but was rejected with no reason. Last resort was to get married. After this we started to have more quarrel thinking I do not want to marry her and is not willingly to come out with the money. I decided another final test before I really show hand. The most recent quarrel lasted 42 days for me to ignore her and I am still tracking all her movement. I saw her movement went to a red light districts in hong kong. I start to wechat her and after several confrontation message she finally admit that she is back to this trade in Hong Kong. She said that she has no skill and money left. New year is coming and she need money for her parents. Put all the blame on me for her current situation. In deed this is a final test and she fail miserably. My heart is bleedy till now...really badly and even after 2 months I still have not get over with it. Any bros can help in this? I have very good memory and really hard for me to forget anything...I have tried exercise but i do not work....I tried even bonking FL every days and it does not stop me from thinking of her too...How come she can quite FL in the first place because of me and now going back to FL again. Is this my fault of pushing her towards that? I am living in remorse and confusion now. Love, emotion, guilt and sediment all are rushing to me. Make me like a zombie for the past 2 months....
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Re: Best Seeking for method to forget a 4 years Ex-FL PRC Relationship
bro all ,tks for your courage to says it all out .
But let me share my knowing to you ,everythings is about karma . woman become prostitute not because money matters in a way spirituality looks . it's because karma ,if you marry to a person which heavy karma as husbands & wife ,they share the karmatic ,if marry light karma one is still manageable , if you try so hard with heavy karma one ,still cannot means no fate with heavy karma . god still love you . prostitute mostly have funny change attitude matters ,because everyday they mix with different many negative energy exchange lust and greed ,every month different maya enter her ,everytime characteristic change and also damage own inner soul from positive side . No matters how you try ,she walk back same path .it's her fate . I feel you are lucky ,this moment you full of pain i very sure .keep the good memory ,you happy with her before . Do not fall in Love with working girl ,go after better one ,you pain will gone . face the fact . be fair to yourself ,dont suffer because of her .you did good job for her already . be a man ,do not let parent and family down ,it's not wroth do it .forget and forgive yourself . |
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Re: Best Seeking for method to forget a 4 years Ex-FL PRC Relationship
Bro,I understand it's difficult to forget her. But what is gone is gone. You need to show resilience and adaptability in 2019 with fresh beginnings. I am confident that you can achieve it. Cheers!
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Re: Best Seeking for method to forget a 4 years Ex-FL PRC Relationship
sgpiggybank, i think u should feel lucky that u lost her instead.
This woman is nothing but trouble. Even u gave her your everything she'll still blame u for whatever misfortune she suffers in future and she's like a bottomless pit sucking all your money. Even u gave her 100% everything, i can bet half my assets with u that she'll (and her family) keep asking for more. take it as a blessing in disguise. Give some time and u'll wake up from this spell knowing how shitty your relationship with her was. Be positive. Every situation has both a good and bad side to it. Just try to make the best out of any situation u're in. |
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Re: Best Seeking for method to forget a 4 years Ex-FL PRC Relationship
Wow bro. I am more interested in what you do for a living. You seem pretty rich.
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Re: Best Seeking for method to forget a 4 years Ex-FL PRC Relationship
ts, to put it in another way, u are throwing good money after bad money
cut loss cut loss cut loss take it as an experience on what NOT to look for in a partner if u don't pay the tuition fees now, u might pay alot more in future |
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Re: Best Seeking for method to forget a 4 years Ex-FL PRC Relationship
Thank you all bros here for your encouragement
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yes indeed! i totally agree wif Fallen11. she,& her family,eyes after ur treasury.
u've pampered her,i concur tis,哪个男人不疼心仪的嘛。 unfortunately, she doesnt hv the maturity to appreciate ur affections yet, parents sees u as '财神爷‘,& she sees u as som1 tat can provide for her livelihood...comfortably. u remem moments of the sweet & bad times. her only concern is how much r u willing to splurge on her. her mentality is, she had fulfilled her part in tis 'relationship', she sleep ONLY wif ya durin tis period,& she had satisfied ur need, her body. if u 2 were to b married, how long do u tink it will last? to make situation worse,wif the women's charter,wat do u tink she'l b demandin fr ya then?? time heal.yrs down,u'l b grateful tat the marriage din materialised & u r a happier man. we take lessons every now & then life throw @ us. its normal to make a wrong judgement, bt never make the same mistake agn.
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Re: Best Seeking for method to forget a 4 years Ex-FL PRC Relationship
move on bro.. time will heal. cut off already , means everything is OVER liao.
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Re: Best Seeking for method to forget a 4 years Ex-FL PRC Relationship
From ur post she doesn’t seem to have any gd points at all isn’t it?
If u like her for her looks and sex... remember everyone will grow old 1 day... If u really married her give in to all her demands and ur future in laws demand... For just 1 moment sit down think deep and hard Will ur lived happily ever after? It may be a blessing in disguise... Cheers and happy weekends
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Re: Seeking for method to forget a 4 years Ex-FL PRC Relationship
sgpiggybank bro~ I last time also FL but i quit after clearance of Debt. Firstly FL is Easy Job / Fast Cash too She Lazy, want to play only, not smart or whatsoever 一点上进心都没有。She prefer Fast money and leg open( sorry i sound si bei mean hope you don't angry) let it go however your need time to forget too. You jia you
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Re: Seeking for method to forget a 4 years Ex-FL PRC Relationship
Bro sgpiggybank
After reading your posting I think go knew which FL you refer to, if she with you is because of money then not worth to continue, time to move on and start new life bro Quote:
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Re: Seeking for method to forget a 4 years Ex-FL PRC Relationship
wah you remember me ah how's life
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Re: Seeking for method to forget a 4 years Ex-FL PRC Relationship
I don't think she quit becos of love for you, from what you describe might be money driven in order for you to continue to send her money. Time will heal everything, just how long. Maybe another r/s will help?
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