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[johnny_boy]

Hey bro, need some help regarding tis matter.
I been close wid a gal for abt a mth. Constant sms and met up. she knows that i like her but i dont know if she liked me. till one day she suddenly text me saying love me and stuff. but the strange thing is , the very next day. i can sense her attitude became colder and we stop contacting each other. Till tis morning she told me that she jus had a bf in the morning.
How shld i deal wid tis suitation? shld i jus stop contacting her?

[cablesnwires]

you answered yourself!

[bloopz]

ah boy ar... wat is ur response when the gal professed her love for u through sms?

if u ignored the msgs, of coz she will become cold to u la.. once u missed the chance do u think u can get it back?

its time to move on unless u wanna gua chia (overtake another guy) and get her back.. but if she drops the guy for u, she can drop u for another guy right?

good luck..

[johnny_boy]

Originally Posted by bloopz

ah boy ar... wat is ur response when the gal professed her love for u through sms?


good luck..

i responded by saying. 'sure anot? dont lie to me lehs' . hmm, maybe i replied wrongly liao bah

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by johnny_boy

i responded by saying. 'sure anot? dont lie to me lehs'.....

TS, I do not know how young are you.

IMHO, A simply reply: "Me too" followed by fast hand fast leg meetup (possible bonk opportunity) would do the magic.....but.....too late liao it seems She mistaken your "trying to play cool" as No-Interest

Anyway, this type of rocket girl instant noodle relationship, is fast come fast gone type, so just wait for her next opportunity (if you want to).....her next sms(hopefully in a week or a month) would be: I still love you more than him

Don't mind my guessing: You people are around 16-23yrs old?

Where is my Bro Cheonging101? He's an expert in such rocket relationship

[uobboss]

I do know few chio girls who juz wanna get married and no relationship wanted as they are hurt countlessly by sg guys . And they gave up on love .

[digby]

Bonk her first then decide lah. Great chance to bonk her

[sentsggirls]

she is leading you to nowhere brother. Why not look elsewhere?
What was the reply you gave when she told you she loved you? It might be the reply she was not expecting from you that made her change in attitude the following day. Usually such behavious for women, a norm.

[kwaychup]

When a girl confesses to you,
i dun think playing cool is a wise choice.
just reply "me too, and that makes us what?"
she simply has taken your answer as a no and found a quick replacement.

girls are curious creatures, they are able to deciper messages into alot of things you never think of

my 2 cents

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Bro kwaychup, I agreed. 2 cents well worth Girls are curious asnd hyper-sensitive creature A case of played cool turned cold.....unfortunate it seems.

[johnny_boy]

thanks bros. maybe it is jus unfortunate that playing cool turn cold. Hopefully she will tell me she love me more than the guy she is wid bah. but then again. such gals are not worth? imho. maybe if she comes back, jus bonk and forget. bro ichigo, haha, good guess. my age is somewhere ard that range.

[NetRodent]

My ex-steady, whom already married, would often also sms me that she miss me. And this usually happened during the certain one week of the month.
Her hormone inbalance caused her to make irrational decision.
And she would revert to her usual indifferent attitude the following few day.

You must get used to this unusual treatment from girls having their PMS.

My 2 cents worth..

[Big O]

Originally Posted by johnny_boy

thanks bros. maybe it is jus unfortunate that playing cool turn cold. Hopefully she will tell me she love me more than the guy she is wid bah. but then again. such gals are not worth? imho. maybe if she comes back, jus bonk and forget. bro ichigo, haha, good guess. my age is somewhere ard that range.

Little Bro, if u really cant forget her & felt aimless w/o her, then u shd pickup yr balls, call her up as if nothing happened, date her out, dont play cool u will end up 'cooler' yrself at heart ......
Uncle here missed out on a gal many years ago becos not balls lah............ .dont be like me!!!
If she really turns u down then bo bian find another one. At least she's honest enough to tell u off
Ask u will get ,seek u shall find.

[Royster79]

Just bonk and F off.. good luck

[johnny_boy]

Originally Posted by Big O

Little Bro, if u really cant forget her & felt aimless w/o her, then u shd pickup yr balls, call her up as if nothing happened, date her out, dont play cool u will end up 'cooler' yrself at heart ......

Ask u will get ,seek u shall find.

Uncle, thanks for ur advice but she got bf liao. lol. if not i sure call de. although it will make me look thickskin? issit it.