Looking for SBs or such - Page 5

terminator33 · #61 08-02-2015, 05:51 PM

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Originally Posted by crood

Interesting comment.

some points to ponder.

Let's say perhaps in the peak of the youth, there might be cheong moments and after some time tend to look for more in depth companionship rather than skin deep.

In another 10-20yrs, what age and criteria of sb/FL will u be looking for?

Perhaps I am also getting sick of monetary transactions. Dreams to me are no $$, no honey.
U stay blissfully happy for a few hours but short lived and unreal because when ur pockets are empty, it will vanished. There is only 1 reason of why these women want to be with you - money.

Bonus point is she's willing to stick through the craps with u despite knowing that you are not worth a cent.

Not into getting a cranky gf but looking into more of a soul mate, one who is willing to watch movies with u because she geninuely enjoy your accompany, sex with u because there's chemistry and not treated you as just 1 of the carrot heads and just being nice to u because she's eyeing u to buy her the next LV bag.

My mentality might be derived to the fact that I have no dough nor do I feel good to be treated like a Robert .

I don't think it is being treated like a robert. The SB wants money which the SD has and in return she provides companionship+intimacy. This is a transaction. Robert will be she is not willing to provide intimacy or refuse to meet after collecting money.

Soul-mate! that is a good one, but how many of us can find one easily and one that can last? To me SBs are much better than FLs - well there may not be love but at least some affection. At least my past SBs did provide me with genuine affection or at least they acted so well to make me think they really do like me a little - or at least do not detest me. I wonder if the girl will stick with you for money only if she really don't like you for an SD.. she could have chosen others.

I am more sick of gf who will track you down all the time and threaten you with emotional blackmail.. I rather deal with monetary transaction with SB. When the time to part, it is much much easier. (Well at times will feel a little as well but as we all know we are not together in the first place because of emotion - it is much much easier).

I don't suppose my ex-SBs fake too much when we were enjoying our dinner/movie dates or in our travels and shopping trips. Or I may be deluded but I am happy to be - in exchange for some monetary compensation.

Anyway, to each his own. Never a single right answer for everyone. At this stage, I just want to enjoy the moments as it comes along. Even if I can't find good SBs, I still have many casual dates and sex escapades with my few regular FLs/FBs.

Like the few SBs I had, I enjoyed the movie/dinner dates, the spa sessions we had, the travel that I can bring her to, the sometime shopping spree that I will let her be happy. And I had my greatest sex sessions with some of these SBs.

terminator33 · #62 09-02-2015, 08:46 PM

Bump bump ....

crood · #63 09-02-2015, 11:58 PM

I don't think it is being treated like a robert. The SB wants money which the SD has and in return she provides companionship+intimacy. This is a transaction. Robert will be she is not willing to provide intimacy or refuse to meet
Soul-mate! that is a good one, but how many of us can find one easily and one that can last? To me SBs are much better than FLs - well there may not be love but at least some affection. At least my past SBs did provide me with genuine affection or at least they acted so well to make me think they really do like me a little - or at least do not detest me. I wonder if the girl will stick with you for money only if she really don't like you for an SD.. she could have chosen others.

Robert is just like hoping in anticipation to gain some affectionate after paying so much $$.
I have the same feel too when I frequent the clubs, women hovering around to look for Roberts. Really can't devote any feels towards these women that hanker your $$.
SB are on monthly payroll hence expected to do their job well.
Will anyone show face to their paymaster and break their own rice bowl?
This also applied to the corporate world, we will tend to put in more effort to show our boss that we work hard. If not, you will be asked to leave.
However, with no salary .... will u ever want to work for free?
Don't pay them $$, u see whether they will still show the same affection. Women are really good in acting.
Look around the forum, u can see the same threads bumping years after years looking for sd. U can see how bad the market really is.
Don't put up any effort, they will be replaced easily.

I am more sick of gf who will track you down all the time and threaten you with emotional blackmail.. I rather deal with monetary transaction with SB. When the time to part, it is much much easier. (Well at times will feel a little as well but as we all know we are not together in the first place because of emotion - it is much much easier).

I think the ones u met are probably psycho ones, not of right minded or maybe they luv u too much and become possessive.
There are still normal and decent ones.

I don't suppose my ex-SBs fake too much when we were enjoying our dinner/movie dates or in our travels and shopping trips. Or I may be deluded but I am happy to be - in exchange for some monetary compensation.

Anyway, to each his own. Never a single right answer for everyone. At this stage, I just want to enjoy the moments as it comes along. Even if I can't find good SBs, I still have many casual dates and sex escapades with my few regular FLs/FBs.

Like the few SBs I had, I enjoyed the movie/dinner dates, the spa sessions we had, the travel that I can bring her to, the sometime shopping spree that I will let her be happy. And I had my greatest sex sessions with some of these SBs.[/

True enough, good boss = happy employees. Can just say that u are a good boss but real feeling?? Call them and tell them u r in the red now, ask them out for a cup of coffee, see who will entertain u.

There are definitely paid happy moments but won't u feel lonely at the end of the day = equal to square 1. Nothing stays and u r out to hunt again.

Sometimes I feel lonely but I rather be alone because of so many new faces u see, u know none will stick around for long,
U noe that feel, u date, u feel like being in love, spent some happy moments, have a few sessions of great sex and she's gone.
U start the routine of hunting for a better player once again.

terminator33 · #64 10-02-2015, 02:14 PM

Yawn. . Bump... ...

discordpiggy · #65 10-02-2015, 05:45 PM

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Originally Posted by crood

I am more sick of gf who will track you down all the time and threaten you with emotional blackmail.. I rather deal with monetary transaction with SB. When the time to part, it is much much easier. (Well at times will feel a little as well but as we all know we are not together in the first place because of emotion - it is much much easier).

I think the ones u met are probably psycho ones, not of right minded or maybe they luv u too much and become possessive.
There are still normal and decent ones.

This is a real cracker!

on "threaten you with emotional blackmail"
why would that opposing party be threaten in the first place?! she who threatens will be at the loosing end. he can simply - 2 words BOH CHAP! it works vice versa, he who threaten loose.

But if a person bothers about u, some of form concern will show. it may not be the right way but through education, you can explain to the person. everyone learns something every day, no?! I don't know, but I do learn something new be it silly or logical.

I always thought explanation is the best. Calmly sit down and understand the facts. and who ever the other party is must be willing to make the effort to be honest to explain.

I never thought nowsadays, being honest to explain is so hard to cum by. i guess no one is honest and trustworthy anymore?!

terminator33 · #66 10-02-2015, 06:36 PM

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Originally Posted by crood

I think the ones u met are probably psycho ones, not of right minded or maybe they luv u too much and become possessive.
There are still normal and decent ones.

There may be but is not easy. I don't have so much time in the world to wait to meet such normal and decent ones. Not easy - have to be easy on the eyed, have to have certain connection, have to have sexual chemistry... much easier to pay money to get someone resembling someone I can live with.

crood · #67 11-02-2015, 08:20 AM

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Originally Posted by terminator33

There may be but is not easy. I don't have so much time in the world to wait to meet such normal and decent ones. Not easy - have to be easy on the eyed, have to have certain connection, have to have sexual chemistry... much easier to pay money to get someone resembling someone I can live with.

True also ... how many of us can meet such a person in the real life?

Some like me wait for a lifetime also no such luck.

terminator33 · #68 11-02-2015, 09:41 AM

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Originally Posted by crood

True also ... how many of us can meet such a person in the real life?

Some like me wait for a lifetime also no such luck.

or you met someone. . And you thought it will last a lifetime. . But it only lasted for so long.

That is why for me I rather be happy with the moments that I can buy with money. .at least these are not painful when it ended. .

crood · #69 11-02-2015, 02:35 PM

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Originally Posted by terminator33

or you met someone. . And you thought it will last a lifetime. . But it only lasted for so long.

That is why for me I rather be happy with the moments that I can buy with money. .at least these are not painful when it ended. .

True and the pain is more than u can handle.

Maybe paid one not much feel so not much pain.