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Old 24-05-2018, 09:25 PM
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QUIT GEYLANG (SUPPORT GROUP)

Hey guys,

I’ve been a samster since my teens. Lost my virginity to a WL at L18. I’ve travelled the world and tried WLs from most of the popular tourist destinations. I’ve been married 4 years and I’m in my 30s.

I’ve done a lot of soul searching and I can tell that this hobby of mine is taking a toll on my finances and my marriage. Not to mention the STDs that I caught during my almost 20 year history of paying for sex.

I must say I’ve had the pleasure of fucking some of the most beautiful people in the world. Do I regret it? Not really. Whether it was paid or not, I had a good run.

But enough is enough.

For most seasoned samsters here you know it’s almost impossible to quit. Maybe possible to cut down. Maybe eventually quit. Maybe a relapse a year later. Who knows..

This support group is for those who want to stay “sober”. Maybe, just maybe we can help each other achieve true sober-ness.

Do share.
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Old 24-05-2018, 09:29 PM
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Re: QUIT GEYLANG (SUPPORT GROUP)

I probably visited Geylang 3 times this month. Visited a ML once. Easily $300+ down the drain.

Plus my 2 of my regulars at GL has gone back.

So I’m kinda just randomly trying new ones.

The OKT still told me got 5 new girls coming this week.

Argh.
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Old 25-05-2018, 04:59 AM
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Re: QUIT GEYLANG (SUPPORT GROUP)

Why did you start the thread here? It will get far more viewership in the adult discussions or geylang section.
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Old 25-05-2018, 07:24 PM
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Re: QUIT GEYLANG (SUPPORT GROUP)

Trying to recall when is the last time I visit geylang..
Can't remember is 2 or 3yrs ago..
Reason.. cannot get any feel over there.. really is too commercial.. as good as I myself hj..
Still will visit ML..
Reason enjoy some massage n feel is better if u get to know the girl after some chit chat..
But still have been two month plus since I last Visit an ML..
Now only entertainment.. enjoy sex with my wife.. haha
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Old 25-05-2018, 08:34 PM
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Re: QUIT GEYLANG (SUPPORT GROUP)

TS, as you grow older your testo level decrease, naturally the drive will get lesser, even start to get some mild ED symptoms, no mood - all will put a stop to the activities eventually. So no worries, the day will come that all of us naturally quit. No regrets though, we've had our fun.

You're married too, when kids arrive you'll be too exhausted to even think about GL
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Old 26-05-2018, 10:17 AM
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Re: QUIT GEYLANG (SUPPORT GROUP)

Thanks. Very encouraging. Indeed, a busy home life may keep my mind occupied to even think about paying for sex. Easily 80k+ wasted (well not wasted..) on WLs for the past 20 years or so.

Well, not too late to wake up I guess.

I’m considering moving to ML to slowly ween off this addiction. But compared to Cat50, ML is slightly on the high side. It does away with some of the potential STDs I Guess.
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Old 26-05-2018, 10:53 AM
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Re: QUIT GEYLANG (SUPPORT GROUP)

A few ways you can try to wean it off:

1. Wank off holding the money you'd have spent in front of you.

2. Go cold turkey and don't look back. Delete your account here and at other forums.

3. Visit those with bad FR and get bad service and then tell yourself why waste money.

4. Go to a legit spa instead.

5. Give yourself a set budget and reduce the budget every three months until you reach bear minimum.

6. And die die cannot keep it down, look for fuck buddies instead of paid sex.

Me.....I've given up that scene by using all the rules above except number two. And after wanking, I'd put the money into a small piggy bank and use it for a surprise treat, meal or present, for my wife.
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Old 26-05-2018, 01:55 PM
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Hey guys,

I’ve been a samster since my teens. Lost my virginity to a WL at L18. I’ve travelled the world and tried WLs from most of the popular tourist destinations. I’ve been married 4 years and I’m in my 30s.

I’ve done a lot of soul searching and I can tell that this hobby of mine is taking a toll on my finances and my marriage. Not to mention the STDs that I caught during my almost 20 year history of paying for sex.

I must say I’ve had the pleasure of fucking some of the most beautiful people in the world. Do I regret it? Not really. Whether it was paid or not, I had a good run.

But enough is enough.

For most seasoned samsters here you know it’s almost impossible to quit. Maybe possible to cut down. Maybe eventually quit. Maybe a relapse a year later. Who knows..

This support group is for those who want to stay “sober”. Maybe, just maybe we can help each other achieve true sober-ness.

Do share.
Think about the maths and science of calling/visiting WL/ML/FL ....

The science of it... Woman is more superiorly created and biologically better than man.

If you are good, she can have multiple orgasms. If she is good, you can have only ONE shot in the same amount of time...

The maths....After the highs and cums, One is poorer and the other is richer..

So think about... Man are at the losing end all the times...
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Old 27-05-2018, 12:29 PM
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A few ways you can try to wean it off:

1. Wank off holding the money you'd have spent in front of you.

2. Go cold turkey and don't look back. Delete your account here and at other forums.

3. Visit those with bad FR and get bad service and then tell yourself why waste money.

4. Go to a legit spa instead.

5. Give yourself a set budget and reduce the budget every three months until you reach bear minimum.

6. And die die cannot keep it down, look for fuck buddies instead of paid sex.

Me.....I've given up that scene by using all the rules above except number two. And after wanking, I'd put the money into a small piggy bank and use it for a surprise treat, meal or present, for my wife.
I like the Budget one. Will give it a try!
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Old 27-05-2018, 12:44 PM
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Re: QUIT GEYLANG (SUPPORT GROUP)

Lets put it this way, once you start, its hard to stop. I think we dig our own grave after the first step into this paid WL scene. We can cut down, but i doubt stopping it totally is possible.

Trying to stop with many ways and method, but it is always futile. A bad week, or hormones rages, there we go again this vicious cycle. And it is so easily available in Singapore!

Cutting down by masturbate multiple time a day to ween off the urge. Works a few days maybe a week, but then, the urge of penetration rather than feeling your hand is so strong, you still go back to WL.

Does having spouse not enough? Its a topic to debate. So we better not go into it.

But end of the day, i personally think, want to play, make sure take care family good good, and play safe for your loved one.
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Old 27-05-2018, 12:55 PM
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A colleague, new citizesn from ROC, used to said I code. Small 2 and 3. Probably he was referring to commercial sex, and all PR and new citizens have a long way before gain enlightment.

It is give $ to family, even if they dont appreciate and end of days. We have peace in our heart and Karma cannot hit us. Maybe we take advices from GL food industry. It is not what it used to be. The sex workers seldom hit the street, and I guess they are very much in the scene.

Brothers still interested need to up another level. Sort of into 4 gen of leaders. Search and write the next chapter of GL history.

Good luck! Mine feelings still with GL.
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Old 28-05-2018, 10:24 AM
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Re: QUIT GEYLANG (SUPPORT GROUP)

INteresting thread.,
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Old 28-05-2018, 12:46 PM
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Re: QUIT GEYLANG (SUPPORT GROUP)

As they say once a samster always a samster .
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Old 28-05-2018, 05:22 PM
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jus to share ..... i dont go gl but freq online stables in dome1. but i managed to stop for 6mths aldy. will hav urge but always try to starve off ... exercise .... do OT in office ..... put all my money into places i cannot withdraw give myself a pathetic allowance so i ll run out of money fast if i go fuck land of smiles ladies.... so far been working .... even now pcc also damn infreq ....

hope all bros success in breaking habit .



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Lets put it this way, once you start, its hard to stop. I think we dig our own grave after the first step into this paid WL scene. We can cut down, but i doubt stopping it totally is possible.

Trying to stop with many ways and method, but it is always futile. A bad week, or hormones rages, there we go again this vicious cycle. And it is so easily available in Singapore!

Cutting down by masturbate multiple time a day to ween off the urge. Works a few days maybe a week, but then, the urge of penetration rather than feeling your hand is so strong, you still go back to WL.

Does having spouse not enough? Its a topic to debate. So we better not go into it.

But end of the day, i personally think, want to play, make sure take care family good good, and play safe for your loved one.
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Old 28-05-2018, 06:11 PM
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As they say once a samster always a samster .
I do agree with you .
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