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Go and check it out, our courts publishes the law online, and it is free. The Custody is the right of the parent to make major decision for his children until they come of age. With this concept, any lawyer practicing family law (who is worth his salt) will tell you Custody is always award joint, except one part give it up or he go missing or he is mentally incapable. Care & Control on the other hand, as the term suggest, is the right (and responsibility) to bring up your child. Why is it always link to the time to be with the children? Well obvious right, if you are not there, how to bring up the child? How to bring him to school? buy food? bring him see doctor? How to scold your child when he is naughty? Divorce is always serious, after all, it is not something you can do everyday. Some lucky ones never did it their whole life, then there are those like myself who chose the wrong woman to marry, have to do it. |
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It is a strategy you know; by having Care & Control (hence the time) of your children, she have a good chance of getting housing assistance from you after the divorce. The legal grounds is that your children needs a decent place to stay when they are with her. This is the reason why some lawyers fought tooth and nail to prevent overnight access to children, because no place to stay mah. |
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Not too complicated. 1 HDB, joint name. I am ok to buy over her share.
My parent's place has space & is nearer to both Kindergarden/Pri Scho. |
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And yes, I have spoken to a few Laweyrs and already started to work with 1. Waiting for P1 reg in a month's time. Meanwhile, sounding out to fellow users who may have similar situation & further fine tune the strategy. There's still a (big) part in me that hope she wakes up, so that the kids don't grow up without a complete family. |
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Maybe after speaking to a L, she'll see the light and change her stance. Last edited by raefear; 31-05-2021 at 06:40 PM. |
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Temp fall back place is my parent's. It is where the kids go to from 11am anyway and nearer to their school. Thereafter after dust settles, decide where to buy/rent. |
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Do share with us how you fought and the results after you settle the matter. It useful information to share, pay it forward. Surfing SBF for information was among the first things I did when preparing for my divorce...
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